FabSwingers.com forum: Have you told any of your friends you’re on fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you told anyone you’re on fab friends etc, and what was the response?

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

I told My best mate and his wife, she wasn't very suprised and he already knew I was "a bit odd" in his words.

Mr H.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

A couple of friends who are sort of into it as well

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

My best mate knows, she wasn't surprised in the slightest, if I go to meet anyone she knows exactly where I'm going and she will message me to make sure I got home ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t hide it. Is somewhat annoying when people message though using our names. There’s unwritten rules. So we have to block them

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

My sisters and my best friend

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

A few, one of them has just joined up too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told two. One of them came with me to a club because he was curious.

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By *irstTime4everythingCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Nope

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Nope, for the same reason the rest of our sex life is private

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

nope my friends know i like a bit of cock but i haven't told them we are on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep a few, and they were not surprised just a bit curious, but not following my lead

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Most of my friends know..... they like to hear my stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, for the same reason the rest of our sex life is private

Same here

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

A couple of old mates know having figured out what I was getting up to at the weekends.

I never divulge details to them but simply smile back contented

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

"My best mate knows, she wasn't surprised in the slightest, if I go to meet anyone she knows exactly where I'm going and she will message me to make sure I got home ok

Exactly this. She has a tracker on my phone specifically for meets.. just in case

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I told one mate about it and he was already on here, so not much of a surprise to him.

Have told one other recently, as I thought he might appreciate it, bit no one else

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

They are the ones who staged an intervention and got me to make an account. And 3 days later hijacked me and deposited me in my first swingers club.

They have a lot to answer for

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By *yantico86Man
over a year ago

drumchapel

My best mate got me onto fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None that I’m on here but I’ve told a few colleagues about past experiences. We generally had that kind of friendship anyway so wasn’t really a surprise

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By *ungfunfellaMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

I have told few mates bout fab n now they love it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't told my friends lol. But I would if anyone asks me

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By *pontaneouscouple82Couple
over a year ago

richmond

I told my cousin she wasn’t surprised one bit and joined her self

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern

"Have you told anyone you’re on fab friends etc, and what was the response? "

We’ve told a few and all have been fine about it, we told one of our female friends and she said we’ve went up in her books

told another female friend and found out she was on here too so you can guess where that went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my friends know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you told anyone you’re on fab friends etc, and what was the response?

We’ve told a few and all have been fine about it, we told one of our female friends and she said we’ve went up in her books

told another female friend and found out she was on here too so you can guess where that went

Did your female friend who says that yous went up in her books not want to join x

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern

"Have you told anyone you’re on fab friends etc, and what was the response?

We’ve told a few and all have been fine about it, we told one of our female friends and she said we’ve went up in her books

told another female friend and found out she was on here too so you can guess where that went

Did your female friend who says that yous went up in her books not want to join x

No she doesn’t want to join us, we all think it wouldn’t be a good idea however she would like to try clubs and see what it’s all about when it’s possible x

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Yip all know friends and family..nowt to hide for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes most my friends know years ago some helped gang bang a fb I had that wanted ti be shared by a group of friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yip all know friends and family..nowt to hide for me

Like to hear that x there's not a lot of girls like yourself who are honest like that xx

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

No, no, no.

Absolutely not, it's our secret life, one of the reasons we love it.

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I have never told anyone outside this community. In some ways it’s private but also many of us are still in the closet. Maybe it helps us to think of it as forbidden fruit and therefore more tempting and riskier too

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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago

St Neots/Wisbech

Most of our friends are already on here.

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

Yea told some encouraged a couple to join us all here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was introduced to Fab by a friend at work and I introduced a different workmate who is on T****r.

I haven't told any of my other friends outside of work as it is simply not the sort of subject we discuss.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I don't need to say to anyone about me here on fabs unless they aproach to tell me they know i'm here and themselves also are here

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes all my friends and family know x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Few

And was asked how it was, one asked me to help them get account setup, rest whatever floats my boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends are already swingers. Some of us play some of us are just good friends. There's a few of my vanilla friends that know what I do it really didn't surprise them. They love to hear about my fab antics and always ask what joys I've been up to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I don't care who knows, its just who I am. I only protect my identity on here to protect myself.

My best mate thinks its really interesting and helped her become more open minded

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I've told one friend at work... she enjoys perving every now and again lol

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Tan has told four of her friends, one was shocked, one at first couldn’t understand why but through her own relationship troubles now fully understands why, one is jealous and one knew what we were like as she has joined us before,

I told two friends, they’re both on here through my recommendation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah .. none of their business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tan has told four of her friends, one was shocked, one at first couldn’t understand why but through her own relationship troubles now fully understands why, one is jealous and one knew what we were like as she has joined us before,

I told two friends, they’re both on here through my recommendation lol"

Nice to hear that x

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By *annydevonMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Yes quite a few friends. I'm pretty honest about liking sex

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By *etal MickeyMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Someone I used to work with told me about FAB.

At first I joined up to look at naughty pics but eventually set up a propper profile.

I have told a few people (no details of meets/people. What goes on in fab stays in fab.) Most have been very shocked & would never have guessed.

1 male friend doesn't agree with this sort of thing but he is boring lol

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Most of my friends know as my face pics are on my profile but my best pal told me she was on here after seeing my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of friends from daily life on here, but they moved away some years ago, so we really only chat now, and in the past year, it's been good to keep in contact with them.

Most of my social friends just think I'm "the odd one". Fuck 'em, if they only knew the shenanigans & fun to be had on here & fab guys. Most of them are probably on similar sites, but come across as prudes & would be shocked, but not surprised, lol.

It's none of their business what I do, we've only got one life and I'm enjoying getting older disgracefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not told anyone friends but when I first joined some kind person copied my profile and pictures and sent it all to my ex wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a couple of my closest friends know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A married guy next door,

All very strange,

We're all very close now,

His wife my wife,

Me and him,

And we're always swapping around xx

Wife's on there own are amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my bestie's know and weren't surprised in the slightest as I really am very open minded in life even though they are very much straight and narrow. And my family all know but again not in the slightest bothered as I've always been alternative when compared to others.

Always intrigues me when people use the reason about sex life being private as an excuse not to be more open ... my sex life has, and always will be, absolutely private! Never ever discussed it ... just honest about being me isn't a problem I have! And this lifestyle is never actually brought up, I'm just happily me and it's never shied away from in conversation as honesty is the best policy!

The only way to make this all acceptable is when people here are open and honest and people realise it's just part of someone's normal! And we are all ok people rather than the seedy weirdos that they believe!

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By *ydia_LovegoodWoman
over a year ago

St. Ives

All my closest female friends are married so they love hearing what I get up to!!

My family don't know and I'd be mortified if my ex husband found out.

There is still a perception, amongst some, of swinging that it's all sordid sex in laybys and that'll unfortunately never change..

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

My best mate knows and wasn’t in the least bit surprised, a few other friends know. Its common knowledge I’m a kinky bugger though lol

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

No..but i wish i could find some friends on here;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I have spotted a friend on here but he doesn't knownit

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Not a soul

our secret

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Lots of our friends are on fab so yes

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Yes I've told one, she was quite intrigued by it.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Told a few, but then made some amazing friends through the scene too.

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London

No.. we have kept this side of our life totally private/ scared of being judged.

A question for others who have revealed this information to their friends .. where you or did they show interest in playing with you ?... I wish we get found out by some of friends and join us ( it’s a fantasy which may never come true).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and they didn't really bother. Why would they. I'm single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nope my friends know i like a bit of cock but i haven't told them we are on here

You sound like the barmaid in the I’m the only gay in the village sketch, I bet you don’t half do it well with an accent

Well done

Made me smile

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

It was friends that got us into swinging, found fablater...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best mate knows, she wasn't surprised in the slightest, if I go to meet anyone she knows exactly where I'm going and she will message me to make sure I got home ok

That's great to see. Safety first always.

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By *ambscouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Not in Wisbech but near

Have a group of friends that now know we are swingers and on here, however we didn't tell them. Was having a meal with work colleagues/friends and one of the husbands works next door to a club and without thinking said "I have just realised where I have seen you before it was going into the club" I tried to deny it but then he came out with a distinctive feature of the car which all my friends know about so that was it. Had many questions and 1 female colleague told me it was wrong that I let Mrs CC do it and wouldn't leave it alone until my boss piped up with "me and Mr Boss enjoy watersports" which shut her up pretty damn quick.

Still get a few funny looks but most don't seem to care and a few even have questions now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody knows yet. I'm a closet fabber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve seen friends on here and we dropped them a polite message to ask them reconsider their identifying pictures because of their jobs

Other than them I believe Mrs has told just one of her friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few friends know yes. Initially they were a bit shocked. But one pair now want to go to a club when they open properly

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

Yes... to men and women that I can trust... They laughed and asked to play as couple..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two of my friends know, but its not something I generally talk about.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes I told a small group of old school friends when we were away for a weekend together. Think they were amused, shocked and intrigued and very surprised.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve both got one friend each we’ve told.

Neither of us have met the others friends yet but they’ve seen more of us than what you’d normally expect

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By *aby girl32Woman
over a year ago

Leigh lancs

My dad my sister know about it ive very open person.

my best friend knows too, if I go on a meet she gets sent his picture and where I'm going when I'm due back, I also keep in contact throughout the meet. Like when I get there when I'm leaving.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We've been very open with a couple of our female friends and Hannah has told her sister about it I think. One of our friends thinks it's hilarious and loves hearing about our adventures. The other is kind of curious to dip her toe in the water with her man.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We told a lovely vanilla female friend over dinner a while back that we were on Fab. Within an hour we were naked together for some fantastic girl on girl fun (photos on our profile). I would love a repeat, but Covid got in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a few. Most were surprised but supportive xx

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

No. It's our business not theirs and just like private pictures on the web, once it's out there it's out there for good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Told a young lady friend at work, she is considering trying the site out with me

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By *istnbroke69Man
over a year ago

Cheshire / Shropshire

No I keep it to myself

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

Not not really. One or two have guessed i think. But many of our friends we met through swinging or our kink side. We know people who have left swinging and we still chat to daily; some for the last 10-15 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you told anyone you’re on fab friends etc, and what was the response? "

That's where I met most of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Told some... They weren't surprised.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Have you told anyone you’re on fab friends etc, and what was the response? "
all my friends and most of my family know I'm a swinger... they don't know specifically which sites I use or what I use them for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our friends know about both here and our involvement with fetish clubs but then we have alwayz been that 'weird couple' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a few have a fair idea, but not that I look for blokes haha

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By *rouble Is My Middle NameWoman
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Close friends knows about it

and they weren't surprised by it haha

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By *inkyBoroCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"They are the ones who staged an intervention and got me to make an account. And 3 days later hijacked me and deposited me in my first swingers club.

They have a lot to answer for

Sorry, not sorry ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told a couple of mates as they are my safe calls should I need one.

Name and number of the guy and where I'm going and they check on me at a specific time.

We all used to go to TG and other fetish clubs as a group, so not really anything to hide about being on this site.

An ex once threaten to 'out' me to my children, I told him to go right ahead! They don't know the in's and out's but they do know I'm not vanilla!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend whose on the site too

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I told my friend and his wife, she’s always asking about it and would love to join but too nervous

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Our best friends know. They were understanding and supportive and a little intrigued.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Lots of our friends know, most are intrigued by it.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yeah some know, they weren't hugely suprised.

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