FabSwingers.com forum: Can play smooth

By *ntrepid Explorers OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I asked the other day about if it was weird to offer to shave for a meet, and generally it seemed that people thought it was odd and wasn't being "true to yourself" and such like. As a question out of the blue, I can generally see why that initial feeling could come up.

But just now elsewhere someone mentioned about bi people who state they "can play straight". If shaving off some stubble I generally let go is me "not being me", is it also going against me to be fine to have a 100% encounter with a couple?

I'm presuming the latter part is rhetorical, and gets a big round "of course not". But if that's the case, what's the comparison to the former? Personally I'm more attached to the idea of bi play than facial hair that mostly exists through convenience...

By *etal MickeyMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

I would say it depends on the person. If someone doesn't mind if they are shaved or not they will still be true to themselves.

The same would go for someone who is bi but doesn't mind playing straight if that's their choice they are being true to themselves.

Unless of course they only ever played with Bi couple's & did not engage in sexual activity with just one person