FabSwingers.com forum: Hard for guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all,

Just after some advice. I had a load more success on my old account when living near a big city. Since moving I find this site impossible to even get a response.

I appreciate the men ratio is large but it’s never seemed this hard!

Any advice would be appreciated

Kind regards

Lee

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Change the opening paragraph,

Makes u look ' hard ' for guys

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

"Change the opening paragraph,

Makes u look ' hard ' for guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Change the opening paragraph,

Makes u look ' hard ' for guys

Haha thank you

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Bless you.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

8 months you've been here on this profile.

13 plus months of pandemic.

Basic logic.

You're welcome.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Or simply put. Look at me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"8 months you've been here on this profile.

13 plus months of pandemic.

Basic logic.

You're welcome.

Thanks for the helpful comment...

Forgot being in a pandemic meant you can’t get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8 months you've been here on this profile.

13 plus months of pandemic.

Basic logic.

You're welcome.

Thanks for the helpful comment...

Forgot being in a pandemic meant you can’t get a reply

That the spirit; go angry early

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"8 months you've been here on this profile.

13 plus months of pandemic.

Basic logic.

You're welcome.

Thanks for the helpful comment...

Forgot being in a pandemic meant you can’t get a reply

Jesus wept, what else could it possibly mean?

Here's a few .....

People aren't looking to make new connections with nit knowing when they could possibly meet.

People aren't necessarily wanting to talk to new people coz they've lost someone dear to them.

People aren't wanting to talk to someone new, get on alright with them and have them spoil it by suggesting they break lockdown.

There are so many reasons, people here are more than genitals, they're humans with just as much shit going on inside fab as outside it (the real world doesn't stop turning when you log in) and I'm sure you'll agree, this last year has been full of shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"8 months you've been here on this profile.

13 plus months of pandemic.

Basic logic.

You're welcome.

Thanks for the helpful comment...

Forgot being in a pandemic meant you can’t get a reply

That the spirit; go angry early

I’m hardly angry, I just don’t get the need for sarcy comments?

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

"8 months you've been here on this profile.

13 plus months of pandemic.

Basic logic.

You're welcome.

Thanks for the helpful comment...

Forgot being in a pandemic meant you can’t get a reply

"
if you got a reply then what next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could reduce the number of men on here by one, giving everyone else a better chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8 months you've been here on this profile.

13 plus months of pandemic.

Basic logic.

You're welcome.

Thanks for the helpful comment...

Forgot being in a pandemic meant you can’t get a reply

That the spirit; go angry early

I’m hardly angry, I just don’t get the need for sarcy comments?"

Peach was pointing out the obvious in a flippant way.

The angry emoji hinted at anger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jheeze give the guy a chance, hardly wrote nothing bad on here did he?

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

It’s just another woe is me kinda post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of swingers.

All together now ‘ they smile in your face and all the time they what to take your places. The back stabbers

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Hey all,

Just after some advice. I had a load more success on my old account when living near a big city. Since moving I find this site impossible to even get a response.

I appreciate the men ratio is large but it’s never seemed this hard!

Any advice would be appreciated

Kind regards

Lee"

I think you've summed it up in your own post. You had success in the past but the last year has been extraordinary and nobody in their right mind is meeting so that will also affect how much women/couples want to engage with new people bearing in mind the vast number of guys vying for their attention.

When things ease up you'll probably get more response.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Jheeze give the guy a chance, hardly wrote nothing bad on here did he? "

So would you prefer me to lie and say I can't understand why people haven't been so talkative?

I gave the answer, the answer that through my own experience and hundreds of other people where this subject has come up during the pandemic.

He pretty much told me I was wrong.

OK, so me and everyone else that felt the same are liars then?

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"8 months you've been here on this profile.

13 plus months of pandemic.

Basic logic.

You're welcome.

Thanks for the helpful comment...

Forgot being in a pandemic meant you can’t get a reply

Its true av not bothered replying as there is no point!

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

The posts above, that you didn't like, OP, were unfortunately telling you exactly how it is. We can give you ourselves as an example.

Yes, we would love to make new connections, meet some great couples and some women, for friendship first, sexual pleasure later. However, we don't like long-drawn-out conversations, as what exactly are you going to talk about with someone you have never met? And how much can you talk about your likes, dislikes etc without getting the messages overly sexual? We don't do cybersex, it does nothing for us, we are here for real, in person meets (which are obviously not possible at present, apart from socially distanced socials). Therefore, we are currently using this site to keep in touch with friends, get updates from clubs (when they are allowed to post) and check the forum. We don't want to start any new conversations as we have no idea when we'd be able to meet. And we're quite sure we are not the only ones with this kind of outlook.

Also, even if we were looking for single men for future meets, we would be somewhat put off by your username/name on your profile. As Bull is just not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jheeze give the guy a chance, hardly wrote nothing bad on here did he?

So would you prefer me to lie and say I can't understand why people haven't been so talkative?

I gave the answer, the answer that through my own experience and hundreds of other people where this subject has come up during the pandemic.

He pretty much told me I was wrong.

OK, so me and everyone else that felt the same are liars then?

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

"The posts above, that you didn't like, OP, were unfortunately telling you exactly how it is. We can give you ourselves as an example.

Also, even if we were looking for single men for future meets, we would be somewhat put off by your username/name on your profile. As Bull is just not for us. "
exactly this

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Peach speaks the truth...

No point in pussy footing around!

I would honestly give it until June at the earliest for people to start thinking about wanting to talk/meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all,

Just after some advice. I had a load more success on my old account when living near a big city. Since moving I find this site impossible to even get a response.

I appreciate the men ratio is large but it’s never seemed this hard!

Any advice would be appreciated

Kind regards

Lee"

Move back

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Hey all,

Just after some advice. I had a load more success on my old account when living near a big city. Since moving I find this site impossible to even get a response.

I appreciate the men ratio is large but it’s never seemed this hard!

Any advice would be appreciated

Kind regards

Lee

Move back

Ha ha ha ha!!! Genius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You moved to the least populated part of England, no surprise it's going to be sparse

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Unfortunately advice can't help you when your issue seems to be that you have moved to an area with a lower population. It seems logical that your options would go down. I wish you well though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change the opening paragraph,

Makes u look ' hard ' for guys

Excellent

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Change the opening paragraph,

Makes u look ' hard ' for guys

I thought that's actually what he meant. Only your comment made me realise he didn't.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Hey all,

Just after some advice. I had a load more success on my old account when living near a big city. Since moving I find this site impossible to even get a response.

I appreciate the men ratio is large but it’s never seemed this hard!

Any advice would be appreciated

Kind regards

Lee"

Facepalm pandemic some people have more to feel concerned about like their loved ones, job trying to make ends meet

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Hey all,

Just after some advice. I had a load more success on my old account when living near a big city. Since moving I find this site impossible to even get a response.

I appreciate the men ratio is large but it’s never seemed this hard!

Any advice would be appreciated

Kind regards

Lee

Facepalm pandemic some people have more to feel concerned about like their loved ones, job trying to make ends meet "

I'd have thought that the global pandemic might have at least something to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8 months you've been here on this profile.

13 plus months of pandemic.

Basic logic.

You're welcome.

Thanks for the helpful comment...

Forgot being in a pandemic meant you can’t get a reply

That the spirit; go angry early

That just tickled me pink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this post...made me laff.

Man asked for advice

Reply..given advice

Man..didnt like reply

Reply... backed up by othets for being factual and direct

Man still didn't like reply

Audience....laughing

Welcome to fabs finest

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Hey all,

Just after some advice. I had a load more success on my old account when living near a big city. Since moving I find this site impossible to even get a response.

I appreciate the men ratio is large but it’s never seemed this hard!

Any advice would be appreciated

Kind regards

Lee

Facepalm pandemic some people have more to feel concerned about like their loved ones, job trying to make ends meet

I'd have thought that the global pandemic might have at least something to do with it

Plus the state of mind at this difficult period

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By *annydevonMan
over a year ago

Exeter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8 months you've been here on this profile.

13 plus months of pandemic.

Basic logic.

You're welcome.

Thanks for the helpful comment...

Forgot being in a pandemic meant you can’t get a reply

That the spirit; go angry early

I’m hardly angry, I just don’t get the need for sarcy comments?"

Welcome to the forums

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Lee.

Your time back here is during the pandemic, so people have been wanting over a year to meet old partners. New meets are in a queue and many have stopped looking for now.

Perhaps your old profile was more appealing? Or you fitted a niche well there, at that time.

Patience now. Give it a few months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to spell wives.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"I had a load more success on my old account when living near a big city. Since moving I find this site impossible to even get a response."

1. Realise that living in a less urban environment means that there are less people per square Km, and therefore less chance of finding a swinger, and one agian less chance of finding a swinger into you.

2. If you had a 'load more' success before, find one of them to verify you. I would suggest that a 'load' is more than two or three, so where have they been for the past eight months... or is it not strictly true?

3. Seeing as you had a 'load more success' on your old account, what did you do differently then to now, and why did you change that approach?

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern

"Hey all,

Just after some advice. I had a load more success on my old account when living near a big city. Since moving I find this site impossible to even get a response.

I appreciate the men ratio is large but it’s never seemed this hard!

Any advice would be appreciated

Kind regards

Lee"

Remember there really are loads of single guys on here and you are all fishing from the same pool,

Based on our experience over the last week or so the best advice we would give is take some time to write an opening message and no dick pics but our opinion will be different to others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just another woe is me kinda post"

‘WOAH’ is you two

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just be patient and try a different approach swingers are scattered around everywhere so I doubt the move has had much impact but more what is ongoing

Good luck pal

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Put yourself up as bi ... Lol... I'd suck your beautiful cock

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