FabSwingers.com forum: Getting started on fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi folks, looking for some advice here and I apologize if its been asked before...so i signed up ages ago and basically as a single male its almost impossible to get a message back from any women. Im polite in the messages i send, always send a face pic and decent looking for my age, in shape etc, but really the only ppl contacting me are gay men which i specifically say im not interested in.

Im a bit lost really as i think im missing something and would really like to make some encounters happen when this covid thing is over. Any advice or constructive critisim is appreciated thanks

By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Change your settings so men can't contact you.

That might help to start with!

By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

You have one photo and 5 lines of bio.

You need to make more effort!

By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe add a few more pics and expand your profile a bit ?

By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

More than 1 photo... (although the one you have is a good choice) maybe a slightly longer bio so someone can gage what you're about.

Then maybe focus a little on the forums to build rapport rather than straight dm. Hotlist folk you like and track pic uploads/status updates and bits so you can send a more personal message.

Also this helps as if you message a girl when she's online or from your nearby list this is genuinely when women get the most messages.

By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Hi folks, looking for some advice here and I apologize if its been asked before...so i signed up ages ago and basically as a single male its almost impossible to get a message back from any women. Im polite in the messages i send, always send a face pic and decent looking for my age, in shape etc, but really the only ppl contacting me are gay men which i specifically say im not interested in.

Im a bit lost really as i think im missing something and would really like to make some encounters happen when this covid thing is over. Any advice or constructive critisim is appreciated thanks"

Your profile doesn't stand up against a lot of the better ones.