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Ever get accused of being really popular?

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Quite often we get messages saying we obviously get hundreds of messages a day. After I stop laughing, I wonder if other people get that and find it strange. I see the flattery angle, but c'mon, look at us, we're.... OK... Right? But hardly going have our mail box cracking under the demand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a personal secretary to handle our mail box .........of two messages per month on average

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Well if fab and life in general was a popularity contest I would be dead last.

Mr

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"We have a personal secretary to handle our mail box .........of two messages per month on average "

Ha well now I'm immediately tempted to call bullshit on that... But then I don't think Norwich had Internet yet..?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes I've had similar daft comments made. I do have some filters on and also... I'm happy not drowning under the weight of eager penises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a personal secretary to handle our mail box .........of two messages per month on average

Ha well now I'm immediately tempted to call bullshit on that... But then I don't think Norwich had Internet yet..? "

There’s a fella working on it now

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"We have a personal secretary to handle our mail box .........of two messages per month on average

Ha well now I'm immediately tempted to call bullshit on that... But then I don't think Norwich had Internet yet..?

There’s a fella working on it now "

With two plastic cups and a long piece of string.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I do get slightly jealous of the TV’s on here, who when threads start with ‘how many messages ?’ or ‘looked at you today ?’ Say they get hundreds and I get maybe 3 messages and around 100 views

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I do get slightly jealous of the TV’s on here, who when threads start with ‘how many messages ?’ or ‘looked at you today ?’ Say they get hundreds and I get maybe 3 messages and around 100 views

"

Ever think they might be fibbing little tinkers?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We quite often get messages saying we must be inundated. I think it is an attempt at flattery. We're in our 60s for goodness sake and while we know we're not going to frighten the horses we're realistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say it depends how active I am ..... if I’m commenting a lot on forums I get a lot more x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if fab and life in general was a popularity contest I would be dead last.

Mr"

You might have some competition for that place on the podium

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yeah.

My inbox is at zero unsolicited messages for about a year now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, the forums preach how many messages daily a single lady and couples get.

I guess it's just a way to express they're laid back and understanding if we can't or don't reply immediately.

It's as much about reaching out as it is expressing they think we're popular.

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

My PA deals with all mine....

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Not on here. Give me a stage though and your all mine !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this all the time. I think it's called blowing smoke up someone's ass

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I wish

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"We have a personal secretary to handle our mail box .........of two messages per month on average

Ha well now I'm immediately tempted to call bullshit on that... But then I don't think Norwich had Internet yet..?

There’s a fella working on it now

With two plastic cups and a long piece of string."

Tell him to use tin cups for faster download speeds lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a good 75% of messages i received start with 'I know you must be inundated with messages'... Sometimes it's true like if I have recently added a new picture it tends to increase numbers but mostly it's a totally normal expected amount of messages

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I cant keep up with the volume of messages I get, its shit being so popular

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

We can receive messages on here Well who knew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep need a PA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreeing with many on the thread who get the comment about being inundated with messages. I tend to remind people that filters stop a lot of ‘inundation’

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Agreeing with many on the thread who get the comment about being inundated with messages. I tend to remind people that filters stop a lot of ‘inundation’ "

Hmm yes, I roll my eyes every time I see a profile saying "NO SINGLE MEN! DO NOT MESSAGE US"... for once there actually is a feature to deal with that... Even that though doesn't exactly overwhelm us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May due to the steamy mirror on one of your pics that reflects how hot you are

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I do get slightly jealous of the TV’s on here, who when threads start with ‘how many messages ?’ or ‘looked at you today ?’ Say they get hundreds and I get maybe 3 messages and around 100 views

Ever think they might be fibbing little tinkers? "

Of course not

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Some messages do start with that. They make assumptions, probably because I have breasticles

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Nope, and we're not flooded with messages as others report they get. But then we want messages from serious players, who will meet. Not just, chatters and wank bankers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine ticks over nicely tbh, but definitely not in the hundreds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t say Ive ever been accused of being popular .... hang on lol I did once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t say Ive ever been accused of being popular .... hang on lol I did once "

But I’m not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope no popular never will be don’t give flying **** if am or not to be honest

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