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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very weird. I still havent cum from a blowjob, i just dont know what to do when im receiving one lol (weird as it may sound).

But, honest. I just cant think of myself not doing anything whilst receiving it. I like to be the one DOING things. Im a fidgetty bugger, i always gotta be doing something (unless you tie me up hehe) or i get bored easily.

So, is it me, or is there others like me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same only finished from a blowjob because I played with myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

id much prefer her to be sitting on my face and let her cum over and over and over..at least im doing something with my fingers and my tongue.

With a blowjob, im just lost. But, i guess, thats her time to shine hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always 69 her that would give you something to do whilst receiving yourself...love being given a BJ while I'm pleasuring a lady heightens my sensation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very weird. I still havent cum from a blowjob, i just dont know what to do when im receiving one lol (weird as it may sound).

But, honest. I just cant think of myself not doing anything whilst receiving it. I like to be the one DOING things. Im a fidgetty bugger, i always gotta be doing something (unless you tie me up hehe) or i get bored easily.

So, is it me, or is there others like me?"

when you say you dont like blow jobs do you mean you'd sooner not have one or you only like to receive of your doing something too?

im just trying to work out what you mean by not liking them, do you just assum you dont or you would cum or would you genuinely sooner not have one as you dont like it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh id rather eat her pussy and make her cumbthan have a blowy. They're nice to get me hard but about it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Well I wouldn't want to be kneeling down, sucking someone who won't cum. It's tedious for women too you know! However, licking and sucking cock is part of foreplay for me so there would be lots of it, with lots of licking expected, then lots of shagging

BJs don't have to be boring. They can be a fun part of excellent sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always amazes me the amount of guys on here who claim they not keen on blow jobs and would sooner please the woman yet in real life where are all these guys as most of the guys i meet will lay there for hours being sucked to the point i get bored and then just want a fuck after

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I dint used to like em as I thought they were selfish n I wanted my partner to have some pleasure.

I used to like a little tease Ive had 100s I like a 69 but dont think either person can get comfortable in that position again its ok for a tease.

Id much sooner pleasure her pussy with my fingers,tong n toys n make her cum cum cum then tease her clit with my cock before sliding into that wet eager throbbing pussy.

That was until I met my current gf wow the things she can do with her mouth,hands toyz etc etc Ive never felt so many sensations on my cock..... Im in bj beaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always amazes me the amount of guys on here who claim they not keen on blow jobs and would sooner please the woman yet in real life where are all these guys as most of the guys i meet will lay there for hours being sucked to the point i get bored and then just want a fuck after "

Cause most of them would tell a woman anything pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of get what you mean , i was at a small swingers party and the hubby was getting sucked off by a lass and she was just going through the motions , you have to make it fun loads of eye contact and licking sucking teasing with your mouth not just sticking a cock in and see what happens , ill not lie im great at it as i love to do it, sucking cock is amazing and the more you love it the better it will be for the person you are treating , if you hate giving them then its going to be shite for the person you are sucking , hope yous get what i mean x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bjs but it has to be done right,i have had some where its been a while before i cum and other times i have cum literally within a minute or so.Technique is important but little things like eye contact and licking and sucking on my balls all help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I wouldn't want to be kneeling down, sucking someone who won't cum. It's tedious for women too you know! However, licking and sucking cock is part of foreplay for me so there would be lots of it, with lots of licking expected, then lots of shagging

BJs don't have to be boring. They can be a fun part of excellent sex."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it can't get enough of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very weird. I still havent cum from a blowjob, i just dont know what to do when im receiving one lol (weird as it may sound).

But, honest. I just cant think of myself not doing anything whilst receiving it. I like to be the one DOING things. Im a fidgetty bugger, i always gotta be doing something (unless you tie me up hehe) or i get bored easily.

So, is it me, or is there others like me?"

I don't come that often from them - unless the lady in question has good skills!

But certainly doesn't mean I don't enjoy them! It's all part of the fun - and shouldn't be viewed as the 'be all and end all' - but I guess there's probably a few people on here who get one as often as John terry gets asked to chaperone team mates wives!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I enjoy a blowjob but its when im receiving one i feel a bit out of place. Like, i just cant be on my back and let her do everything..i find it awkward just lying down and not doing anything.

And i do agree about eye contact. Like i said in my profile, a gorgeous pair of eyes looking into my eyes would send me into orbit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow ive learnt men dont always like them hahaha my bf loves them and yes its all about eyes and teasing ( im not too keen cus he's on the large side and it hurts me jaw ) 69 is ace for bj's whilst he's pleasuring me and im most turned on is when my bj's get serious an nawty you getting bad head lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have the ones that the guys who didn't like em don't want... gimme gimme gimme :P :P :P

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont enjoy receiving oral sex either... so no your not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do

bring 'em on

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

I like being sucked but can't stand cumming from one as my knob is so sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a side note - and apologies - not trying to hijack the thread as this is kinda relevant - i've never experienced a pierced tongue!

So for those that have - does it make it better, worse or just different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a side note - and apologies - not trying to hijack the thread as this is kinda relevant - i've never experienced a pierced tongue!

So for those that have - does it make it better, worse or just different? "

i have one never had any trouble from it lol its tickles i suppose , we also have a vibrating tounge bar which i havnt used yet so will defo tread that experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well i guess it would be rude if i dont ask lol anybody want to prove me wrong?? lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a side note - and apologies - not trying to hijack the thread as this is kinda relevant - i've never experienced a pierced tongue!

So for those that have - does it make it better, worse or just different?

i have one never had any trouble from it lol its tickles i suppose , we also have a vibrating tounge bar which i havnt used yet so will defo tread that experience "

Jealous much? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no need girls with bars are ten a penny just grab one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the women doing it,some are great,some not so great.Had a few knee tremblers in my time,but I don't come through it often now,just use it as foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had 1 blowjob that I would regard as 'mind blowing'.

I can even pin it down to a date without too much effort cos it was the night that MJ popped his clogs.

The rest have been alright I guess, but unless teeth are involved, they're usually OK !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only ever had 1 blowjob that I would regard as 'mind blowing'.

I can even pin it down to a date without too much effort cos it was the night that MJ popped his clogs.

The rest have been alright I guess, but unless teeth are involved, they're usually OK !

"

I thought he died of a heart attack?

Not by choking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loffin me head off here hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only ever had 1 blowjob that I would regard as 'mind blowing'.

I can even pin it down to a date without too much effort cos it was the night that MJ popped his clogs.

The rest have been alright I guess, but unless teeth are involved, they're usually OK !

I thought he died of a heart attack?

Not by choking? "

you're far too quick at times mr obi

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Kind of get what you mean , i was at a small swingers party and the hubby was getting sucked off by a lass and she was just going through the motions , you have to make it fun loads of eye contact and licking sucking teasing with your mouth not just sticking a cock in and see what happens , ill not lie im great at it as i love to do it, sucking cock is amazing and the more you love it the better it will be for the person you are treating , if you hate giving them then its going to be shite for the person you are sucking , hope yous get what i mean x "

Yeah, the blow jobber needs to be really paying attention, loving it and have the right skills.

And maybe those fellas that can't relax whilst they're doing 'nothing' need to practice the art of relaxation. This is part of the foreplay for us girls, even if it means you don't have to be physically on the job. If laying back doesn't do it, stand up, sit on the edge of the bed, do it outdoors etc, lots of variety available. Give her 2 cocks at the same time, would you manage it if she was getting spit roasted, and you're in her mouth?

Plenty of girls will give incredible blow jobs, just don't settle for someone who just lets a cock go inside their mouth. That's paying lip service to what a blow job is all about, if you'll pardon the pun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only ever had 1 blowjob that I would regard as 'mind blowing'.

I can even pin it down to a date without too much effort cos it was the night that MJ popped his clogs.

The rest have been alright I guess, but unless teeth are involved, they're usually OK !

I thought he died of a heart attack?

Not by choking?

you're far too quick at times mr obi "

That's what my last meet said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very weird. I still havent cum from a blowjob, i just dont know what to do when im receiving one lol (weird as it may sound).

But, honest. I just cant think of myself not doing anything whilst receiving it. I like to be the one DOING things. Im a fidgetty bugger, i always gotta be doing something (unless you tie me up hehe) or i get bored easily.

So, is it me, or is there others like me?"

I do - i love giving one to lol - i find men are not easy at giving BJ and cumming - where as a female tends to climax much quicker from oral sex .........did that make sense ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love blow jobs, but 69's are a hell of a lot better the taste sensation you get from licking her makes it that much better :p and you get to have a cheeky lick of her bumhole x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love blow jobs, but 69's are a hell of a lot better the taste sensation you get from licking her makes it that much better :p and you get to have a cheeky lick of her bumhole x"

the view is terrible though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MY HUBBY LOOOVES THEM..im in shock some dont..my mouth is wide open at this thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be round now then :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being sucked hard again. Im quite girthy so i think women cant go as deep or suck as hard so not a great fan of blow jobs other than for foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can take something from all these posts, lol.

Love blow jobs. Like to be doing something with my hands / tongue at the same time, but happy to lie back and enjoy too. Sometimes I cum, sometimes I don't.

The main thing is...I always enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a clean, tight bodied woman the view is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to use a forum to try and pull but wetnhorney your gorgeous and a fellow north walian like me mail me sometime if you want to chat xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very weird. I still havent cum from a blowjob, i just dont know what to do when im receiving one lol (weird as it may sound).

But, honest. I just cant think of myself not doing anything whilst receiving it. I like to be the one DOING things. Im a fidgetty bugger, i always gotta be doing something (unless you tie me up hehe) or i get bored easily.

So, is it me, or is there others like me?"

i think maybe youve never had a good one! alot of women arent that good at them to be honest, relax more and dont be afraid to tell her what is working and what isnt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very weird. I still havent cum from a blowjob, i just dont know what to do when im receiving one lol (weird as it may sound).

But, honest. I just cant think of myself not doing anything whilst receiving it. I like to be the one DOING things. Im a fidgetty bugger, i always gotta be doing something (unless you tie me up hehe) or i get bored easily.

So, is it me, or is there others like me?

i think maybe youve never had a good one! alot of women arent that good at them to be honest, relax more and dont be afraid to tell her what is working and what isnt "

yeah, very well could be. I usually dont relax if im honest, because i like things to be perfect (as silly as it may sound). Im a perfectionist, what can i say, nothing wrong with that right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very weird. I still havent cum from a blowjob, i just dont know what to do when im receiving one lol (weird as it may sound).

But, honest. I just cant think of myself not doing anything whilst receiving it. I like to be the one DOING things. Im a fidgetty bugger, i always gotta be doing something (unless you tie me up hehe) or i get bored easily.

So, is it me, or is there others like me?

i think maybe youve never had a good one! alot of women arent that good at them to be honest, relax more and dont be afraid to tell her what is working and what isnt

yeah, very well could be. I usually dont relax if im honest, because i like things to be perfect (as silly as it may sound). Im a perfectionist, what can i say, nothing wrong with that right? "

awww popeye pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease can i adopt you ?

i won't make you do rude things to me i promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think to many men put to much on the need to cum by a blow job and if they dont they think either something is wrong with them or the woman

To be honest i have never tried to make a guy cum by sucking him, i just play with them and they cum when they cum, if your having a good session i dont see what it matters when you cum or what has made you, the only reason i can think of that would make you unhappy if you didnt cum by a blow job is if thats all you was after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think to many men put to much on the need to cum by a blow job and if they dont they think either something is wrong with them or the woman

To be honest i have never tried to make a guy cum by sucking him, i just play with them and they cum when they cum, if your having a good session i dont see what it matters when you cum or what has made you, the only reason i can think of that would make you unhappy if you didnt cum by a blow job is if thats all you was after"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally hate receiving oral so kind of get what the OP is saying. There is one man i love oral from but with others i either say don't bother or if they convinced me to try i all but one end up saying stop its doing nothing for me. I absolutely love love love giving oral and men who get it say it shows and its what makes it good for them.

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I like being sucked hard again. Im quite girthy so i think women cant go as deep or suck as hard so not a great fan of blow jobs other than for foreplay"

It isn't just about deep throating and sucking though, it's about running your tongue up and down, licking your balls and taking them in your mouth, teasing the head of the cock with your tongue and if a woman is any good, doing all this without using teeth or hands.

Devil

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By *B07Man
over a year ago

Essex

Hate blowjobs when the giver grates you with her teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why start this again after 10 weeks?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"why start this again after 10 weeks?"

Shes still sucking and he's still waiting to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why start this again after 10 weeks?

Shes still sucking and he's still waiting to cum"

actually made me lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Very weird. I still havent cum from a blowjob, i just dont know what to do when im receiving one lol (weird as it may sound).

But, honest. I just cant think of myself not doing anything whilst receiving it. I like to be the one DOING things. Im a fidgetty bugger, i always gotta be doing something (unless you tie me up hehe) or i get bored easily.

So, is it me, or is there others like me?"

i can take or leave them too being honest - though theres nothing like a woman who just has to mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your not alone as know some guys who feel the same and dont see the facisination from them and not cum from them they selves.

but in most cases they have got with someone after they said and thought that with their long term lass, and found someone who's clicked with them bj wise and that train of thought was soon left in the past.

not everyone puts in the same effort, some lasses arnt good at it and do things that can be off putting to make you cum, but at the same time comminication and being able to tell someone what does it for you will get you far more out of it

im a bit the same and since i lost all my weight i find it really hard to come, and when im being blown to completion and im not touching it myself then i do have to concentrate and help to make myself cum as well even if im not doing all the work, theres ways down in side i tense up with my nob that makes it easier to come and sometimes even think of extra dirty thoughts to help get there as well.

but if a lass is doing this for you and not getting anywhere then keeping quiet is probs ruining it as much for her as it is you, as i know some lasses will be gutted if they like you but cant get you off like they could with other guys (they will assume other girls do it for you but they cant and girls hate that feeling more than most) so if you want the most out of your blow jobs i'd suggest letting them know what feels good and best.

i can have someone sucking me for ages if i dont help them sometimes,

sometimes i need slow action with a bit of pulling, othertimes might need them to go alot faster than they are going at all and for them to not stop and start going slow again.

but then sometimes going that fast when not right time will have the opisite effect on me and make me softer and put me off cumming

you gotta find ways of letting them know what you like when you want it and the more you do the less you will have to do in future.

comminications the key espeically if you hard to please down there and she wants to make you cum, most lasses aint that senstive about it if you go about it the right way and will want to know what feels good - if they want to make you cum they will want to know as will feel much worse if they have to give up than they will if you say go slow or pull on it while you suck, and even though with sex moans/noises i can be a quiet guy as i get closer and closer i do find ways of letting them know

other things to think of as well when trying to cum is how menatally turned on are you? sure you might be hard but are you well turned on other than being erect?

for example certain things a lass can do as a extra as well as sucking me can send me over the edge, like if i can watch them do it rather than seeing the back of a head then thats a turn on, if i can look them in the eyes while they are doing it and see how much they really want it then that sends me over the edge as well, eye contact during a blow job for me

theres lots of things to make an average bj that dont make you cum into one that literally blows you away, im sure if you comminicate with your women and let them know deep down they will appreachiate it, as if they dont thing they are doing it for the sake of it then they are doing it coz they want you to feel that good and like i say they going to feel much worse not making you cum than they would if you keep quiet and just say it was nice dont worry about it

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I like giving bjs though not to completion. I feel selfish if the guy is doing everything.

Mind you, if he insists on doing everything .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, it always amuses me by the amount of guys that say they would rather give than recieve on here! Maybe they think thats what the gals like to hear. Me personally, i love it when a gal sucking me off and she makes eye contact. I have always been able to cum from a blow job, and hope i always can!

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By *oger ThatMan
over a year ago

essex

For me, my enjoyment comes from the woman enjoying what she is doing/getting. If she is sucking away because she's going through the motions then id rather be down the pub! If they are enjoying it (like in the porno's then it is much better.

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By *oger ThatMan
over a year ago

essex

jus tto confirm, i still enjoy them, and maybe saying id prefer to be down the pub was not completely true, more of a figure of speach! Even a shit bj is better than a pint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best to give and receive i think, if u give your all to someone then the right person will give you it all back and even more

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I dont enjoy receiving oral sex either... so no your not alone "

Nor I (Mrs) but loads of people try to tell me that I should. Didn't realise it was mandatory lol

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