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Do single women get more pressure?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question really for the single ladies, but also for married, attached, open, or hotwife ladies.

Do single women get more pressure on Fab and get hassled more to do regular meets, or be FWB, or even girlfriends because they're unattached and "available"?

On the flip side do attached women get less pressure and hassle as they're already in a relationship?

I do get approached by single women wanting more than just a meet, but I do say on my profile I'm open to a female partner so that's expected. Men and sometimes couples do approach me wanting FWB from time to time, but the majority of messages I get is just for sex. Is that typical, or is it partly because I'm married so less likely to want any kind of relationship?

I'm just wondering if there is a significant difference in the Fab experience for single women compared to non single. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so I noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get much of anything on here but likely as im not looking for a guy

Unsure if i should just create a single account as looking for girl-girl not a mff

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I got far less pressure to meet when part of a couple. It was almost like they knew no meant no, whereas as a single no means "if I keep pestering or get shitty eventually she'll cave in"

As far as repeat meets, people I'd met would have been aware that I don't get much of a social life due to work but would get plenty of "let me know when you're free again" follow ups.

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

We use the fab filters so blocks all single men which is great as we are only looking for women (single or hot wife’s who play alone). Would be great if we had a ‘little’ pressure from them though as sadly I think they see too many messages from single men which clogs up their inbox

Sadly, for those getting pressure, we wish you didn’t have too. Swinging should be a place to release pressure, not get more ??

The joys of fab

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By *awandBareWoman
over a year ago

Oxford

Mostly hassle and drama. That's why I delete 99% of all messages from single guys.

when I had a couples profile it was much less so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well most men don’t read profiles - they just message if you show up online or post updates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres is more pressure as a single lady to meet i’d say but once the thrill of the chase is over it all goes very quiet (in my experience)

This why i swear by swingers clubs i can go when i’m ready, leave when i’m ready, i’m under no obligation to play, if i decide on the day not to attend no one elses night is ruined or ‘time wasted’. I still get asked if i need a club buddy.

Its strange as theres so many threads about married/attached women being in demand, maybe because the limits of the relationship are already set out, and they cant be pressured into more, but are more likely to meet without the parameters that single women put down? Who knows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres is more pressure as a single lady to meet i’d say but once the thrill of the chase is over it all goes very quiet (in my experience)

This why i swear by swingers clubs i can go when i’m ready, leave when i’m ready, i’m under no obligation to play, if i decide on the day not to attend no one elses night is ruined or ‘time wasted’. I still get asked if i need a club buddy.

Its strange as theres so many threads about married/attached women being in demand, maybe because the limits of the relationship are already set out, and they cant be pressured into more, but are more likely to meet without the parameters that single women put down? Who knows. "

Interesting, I'd never considered that married women might be more desirable to men on here xx

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I've not yet felt pressured in anyway, they just seem to think we're more available and forget that we have home and family life to worry about.

I'm not sat around in my sexy gear all day waiting for someone to msg and ask to meet.

The few guys I speak to regularly are incredibly respectful.

The minute they're not... Game over!

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Well most men don’t read profiles - they just message if you show up online or post updates. "

Pretty much this. My profile at present doesn't exactly encourage interaction, but it has made very little impact on the number of messages I get, including ones telling me how much they like my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try been a single guy.... couples literally think I'm sat here with my cock out waiting for them to text so I can drop every thing and rush over and I instantly get called fake or well your obviously married as soon as I say sorry I can't do tonight I have plans or I'm at work, my favourite was a couple sending me loads of abuse because I wouldn't meet them on a Tuesday morning.....Some of us have jobs to go to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women will get as much pressure as they allow.

No pressure here ever.

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