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that word ''rejection''

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it seems as if rejection is taken the wrong way in the swinging world ...and its getting worse ... swinging is rejection its based on a yes or no so if i get 50 messages and say no to 49 then its rejection but why take it so badly we get rejected daily .. say a bank loan or a job interview ..or asking for a date

yet it seems because its swinging theres a sense of entitlement or desperation but why its no different in any walk of life ... rejection on a swinger site is not a bad thing its just the way it is its just a no thanks its that simple...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it seems as if rejection is taken the wrong way in the swinging world ...and its getting worse ... swinging is rejection its based on a yes or no so if i get 50 messages and say no to 49 then its rejection but why take it so badly we get rejected daily .. say a bank loan or a job interview ..or asking for a date

yet it seems because its swinging theres a sense of entitlement or desperation but why its no different in any walk of life ... rejection on a swinger site is not a bad thing its just the way it is its just a no thanks its that simple... "

Touché ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t read messages that aren’t of interest I did try to answer them but there’s too many and if you answer no thanks they answer again, so it’s not rude you just don’t have time.... I wouldn’t get upset about it to be honest .... just enjoy the yes’s xxxxx

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By *awty DawgMan
over a year ago

Northampton

It is what it is, if your ego gets dented by not being accepted by every potential or message then this place probably isn't for you.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

The problem is most people on this site, despite the name fab swingers are not swingers, and do not understand what it's all about and what swingers are looking for. And then blame others for there lack of understanding and rejection,

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

Rejection on here is really nothing to lose sleep over...

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By *eparrain1Man
over a year ago

Stone

It is part of the deal, I am afraid. One has to accept it and move on!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Rejection is part of the game, something you get used to. I know I am not everyone's cup of tea, but somewhere out there is potential playmates

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Rejection on here is really nothing to lose sleep over... "

This

As mentioned empteen time, we have a very small window of opportunity to potentially catch someone's attention . Fab is a huge pool ... We can't be everyone's cuppa

I'm not great with rejection in civvie life, but literally pay no attention to being rejected by strangers on a sex site .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Being rejected for a bank loan is rejecting your financial circumstances. Being rejected on fab is rejecting *you" as a person. It has to sting a bit even if you're used to it.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I don't get it, it's all rejection. People take all sorts of rejection badly. Didn't get a loan I really needed? Hell yes it'll piss me off...

What's your point?

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By *eparrain1Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Being rejected for a bank loan is rejecting your financial circumstances. Being rejected on fab is rejecting *you" as a person. It has to sting a bit even if you're used to it."

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Rejection on here is really nothing to lose sleep over... "

You’d be exhausted

V x

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I take the view that if my message is not worth their time to answer then they are not worth my time.

To be honest what pissses me off is one word replies that you answer then nothing. Or talking for ages with someone exchange details the ghost me.

To me that's pure ignorance.

If you cha ge your mind that's fine but have the common courtesy to say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made it very clear what I am looking for and I wnt reply to anyone who doesn't fit that. But still they message if I deleted im greeted with. But I have a huge one. Whats wrong with me. And it goes on. Simple if you dnt want to be rejected having read my profile its not my problem. If you simply havnt read it then its their problem

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