FabSwingers.com forum: Being guarded!

By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

How many of us, in here, feel guarded and do not open up?

What are your reasons? Trust issues? self worth? etc

Please share!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Past experience

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Too many fakers and pic hunters about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many fakers and pic hunters about"

See we got told that by some couple 2 years ago but at the end of the day if your not attracted to them then your not,they went on a proper rant aswel.

I can think of other websites that have millions of pics to save if we were into that kinda thing!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't open up. We've been around the internet too long to do that.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"How many of us, in here, feel guarded and do not open up?

What are your reasons? Trust issues? self worth? etc

Please share!"

Because I’ve no need too.

It’s just a sex site to me and the men I meet are just that.

I’m blunt about what I like and if they like that then great

I’ve made a lot of friends though clubs who I would class as actual friends.

But I don’t feel the need to open up about anything tk my meets x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I have a friend I've made on here and we chat about everything, we've chatted 7 years though.

I wouldn't be open with everyone on here, so many liars and people who not v discreet on fab.

Plus I'm lucky to have a partner who is also on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've been burned before, you don't put your hands back in the fire.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Me. Been very hurt and let down in life. Now got a guard around my heart and will never let anyone get close again. Quite happy to live the rest if my life single and die the same way.

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By *allen angel 21Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Me. Been very hurt and let down in life. Now got a guard around my heart and will never let anyone get close again. Quite happy to live the rest if my life single and die the same way."

Exactly this Bluebell, could not have put it better myself!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Trust needs to be earned on here too many too free with other people's info .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an internet site you need to be careful. Trust comes slowly through chat and socials. But trust not needed if you only want a shag.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I'm guarded and open at once .

I'm happy to disclose but my guards prevent me from getting hurt by my own candour .

Perhaps it's a bit of cynicism too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opened up to only 1 person ever fully which was really hard emotionally for me to do and they still lied, accused me of doing things ( never did them), throw my feelings aside and more.

Will never open up fully again. Now I'm a better stronger person than I was before I met them but my trust towards others will never be healed fully.

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I'm to trusting and very open, I'm very gullible when it comes to people.. I never see the bad in them which leads to me being lied to and hurt so many times...

I've now learned to be a little bit more careful althou I do hate thinking/seeing the bad in people before I've even got to know them. X

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I'm to trusting and very open, I'm very gullible when it comes to people.. I never see the bad in them which leads to me being lied to and hurt so many times...

I've now learned to be a little bit more careful althou I do hate thinking/seeing the bad in people before I've even got to know them. X"

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Nope we are just ourselves x

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Nope we are just ourselves x"

Mrs N x

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Nope, open book with no embellishments. Wysiwyg

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I have a friend I've made on here and we chat about everything, we've chatted 7 years though.

I wouldn't be open with everyone on here, so many liars and people who not v discreet on fab.

Plus I'm lucky to have a partner who is also on here. "

THat is a great story. If you managed to establish such a lasting rapport and gained a friend.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Trust needs to be earned on here too many too free with other people's info ."

Well, they should not. It is called respect.

I agree totally about trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm to trusting and very open, I'm very gullible when it comes to people.. I never see the bad in them which leads to me being lied to and hurt so many times...

I've now learned to be a little bit more careful althou I do hate thinking/seeing the bad in people before I've even got to know them. X"

Nooo! It's so wrong that somebody has destroyed the beautiful attitude you had (it reflects on them very badly that you felt you had to change)

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Too many fakers and pic hunters about"

I agree with you totally

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