FabSwingers.com forum: how often do u have sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

interested in how often you have sex as a married couple--ours dropped and can be less than once week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently went 6 months without

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By *offee3SweetnersMan
over a year ago

Kettering

To be honest at the moment we are less than once a week at the moment too.

Lots of good intentions but not much happening which can be very frustrating at times.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"interested in how often you have sex as a married couple--ours dropped and can be less than once week"
looking at you're pic's I'd want it everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not with my wife since 2009 due to her spinal issue, extremely painful for her

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Once a week... though he is getting excited at my improving shape with all the marathon training so I had some last night lol

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It baffles me why couples are on wanting sex with other people when they don't want sex with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we aren't married, however have been together quite a while.

usually 3 or 4 times a week, give or take

but that's because i can't get enough of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years together,2 years married every day weather its sex or some kind of oral or foreplay,were very active and its a great way to show each other which we love each other.

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

Not nearly enough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t even have it now and that’s being married as well

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By *C7995XCouple
over a year ago

London

3-4 times a week

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By *awksordMan
over a year ago

Wirral.

Last 10 years ish have had it possibly 2–3 times a year. We used to have that a day before. Wanking to porn makes me feel guilty these but it has to be done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average 4 times a week but I’d be game for everyday

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to fit in a kink night at the wkends..big box of toys and outfits to choose from..weekly we mix it up vanilla wise..currently out shopping both wearing jewelled plugs..Watching eachother across the food aisles knowing what we both know is our secret little thrill for the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment very little due to covid, but now

Lockdown easing hoping to get back in it shortly. I’ve been meeting a friend prob every week, that’s ticked us both over. Be glad when the clubs open back up I tell thee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember Not everyone/every couple is the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We usually have one good session at the weekend. Occasionally we have some extra pleasure during the week.

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By *ardleedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!"

Totally agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually 2-3 times a week sometimes 4. She likes to just let me use her to cum inside sometimes if I've had a frustrating day at work but that's still sex right? Lol

Also, is oral sex classed as sex to you? Or do you only mean full penetrative sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough! Once twice a week

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

With my hubby 3 or 4 times a week, with others now nearly enough since covid

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I've been married 22 years, and we lived together 3 years before getting hitched. We haven't had sex for at least 5 years....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had sex in weeks, she lost her sex drive due to depression.

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

travel around a lot.

What's sex, that stuff on the internet ?.....

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London

Use to be everyday and nowadays it’s a weekly affair.. when life fucks you big time, there is hardly anytime to fuck

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only

"interested in how often you have sex as a married couple--ours dropped and can be less than once week"
when together it's at least twice a day unless both on alternating shifts.. ie hes on earlies and I'm on nights. We cant live together just yet so when we are apart it can limit times per week.

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By *lexnNatasha1977Couple
over a year ago

wigan

Been married 26yrs this year we have some kind of sexual activity when ever we’re in the same room together a quickie while loading the dishwasher just can’t keep our hands of each really embarrass’s the kids lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"It baffles me why couples are on wanting sex with other people when they don't want sex with each other

This is my point to but it could be due to boring sex but also lack of communication between the two and not being imaginative enough to spice things up like or prefer a younger model

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Not often enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Near as dammit every time we’re together, normally more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went 2 years without with my ex. Currently it's around 4-5 times a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been married 26yrs this year we have some kind of sexual activity when ever we’re in the same room together a quickie while loading the dishwasher just can’t keep our hands of each really embarrass’s the kids lol "

Me and my wife are the exact same,our kids hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 4/5 times a week on average.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Me and my wife are the exact same,our kids hate it."
The best way to get the kids to bugger off upstairs, start cuddling

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By *aughty sex50Couple
over a year ago

Berks

3 times a week oral or fuck

Have big session at weekend

H loves anal so need sexy time to build up to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"interested in how often you have sex as a married couple--ours dropped and can be less than once week"

Yep know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. For example since last Thursday we fuck every day.we also have a weeks without sex its all about a mood i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much 6/7 times a week

Got to keep the awesomeness going

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I assumed everyone here had high sex drives ! When in a relationship I like it most days ,often early morning them again later , but some nights a bit too tired

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have sex or some form of oral pretty much every day. Sometimes twice and we have been known to have a hat trick!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only

Me and my wife are the exact same,our kids hate it."
my partner and I are touchy feely except in front of his son as he is only 10 and struggling with his dad not being with his mum. But normally there will always be a touch or something. Although being that my kids are older no quickies are possible often x but we try lol

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Everyday apart from red week and migraines

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By *asy Rider 69Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Valentine’s Day 2020

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 months and counting ........

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By *ardleedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Does wanking count

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By *asy Rider 69Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Your just try you make me feel better thanks dude lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as often as either of us would like. Having a grown up child living with us, in a small house can pose some challenges.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your just try you make me feel better thanks dude lol"

I wish it was the case, but its true. Im starting to wonder if i’ll ever have sex again I literally cant remember the last time i had a BJ, at a guess i’d have said 8 years ago.

I dont think i’d last 2 minutes if i had a BJ today!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"25 months and counting ........

3yrs - she didn't want to talk about it.

Then 2 years - again no talking.

Once or twice a week is common in a long term relationship and nothing to worry about. Life gets in the way.

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By *asy Rider 69Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hang in there dude just a number means nothing

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By *ove and DuckCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Most days when we not tired from work but we always fuck each other when partying as well as others lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!"

I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!

I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together. "

You were both lucky in that respect the !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With guys quite often, sadly women I have zero luck with

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By *asy Rider 69Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!

I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together. "

Just wondering if that’s the case why did it end ? Ps hope you don’t mind me ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!

I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together.

You were both lucky in that respect the !

Just a good match sexually, unfortunately not in religion... He thought he was god and I disagreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!

I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together.

Just wondering if that’s the case why did it end ? Ps hope you don’t mind me ask "

I don't mind no but I'll respond privately.

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By *asy Rider 69Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!

I beg to differ. In my prev relationship I can count on one hand the number of days we didn't have sex during the 5 yrs we were together.

Just wondering if that’s the case why did it end ? Ps hope you don’t mind me ask

I don't mind no but I'll respond privately. "

If you please

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Not enough

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Twice a year, can’t wait for my birthday

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By *asy Rider 69Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

For the Queen only had two birthdays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 times a week. Need cock and pussy x

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By *asy Rider 69Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

That’s just greedy hehe

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By *incscarcoupleCouple
over a year ago

GRIMSBY

Sometimes everyday sometimes 2 to 3 times a week ! Always try to get a quickie in

Especially if I know he's had a shit day at work and I'll just bend over on the stairs when I see his car pull up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go up and down massively. Anywhere from 5-10 times a week, to a few weeks without. My sex drive is either very high or zero, plus I have health issues that can sometimes interfere.

My meets were very much the same, sometimes a string of guys one after the other, then a month off sometimes.

I'd say 2-3 times a week is a happy average for me with hubby, plus some extra people as well if I can xx

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Not often enough

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

"interested in how often you have sex as a married couple--ours dropped and can be less than once week"

If I were your husband, I'd be making you a hot wife x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before lockdown 6 times a week as I have few men from past club meets come for sex sometimes more than at once x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOT ENOUGH!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3-6 days a week

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I don't think I have a cervix left this week... Hubs being on holiday while I'm wfh is a mad mix....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About twice every ten minutes these days.

It was five minutes in our twenties, were slowly dwindling as we age but I like to think the quality has improved.

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By *exyfuncouple74Couple
over a year ago

East Sussex

2-3 times a week for full sex, plus plenty of 'favours' in between.

Increases to 2+ times a day in the period after we've played with other people.

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By *20cplMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *20cplMan
over a year ago

Manchester

What's sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have sex once or twice a day.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only

"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!"
most of my actual relationships it's been more than once a day most days. Have the odd time when it wasn't possible, like after I had the kids. But if there are no physical reasons I dont see why once a day is not possible. I will always try for at least once a day. Finding it hard with my current relationship as we dont live together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longest I’ve ever been without sex, by far, is when I’ve been in a relationship.

Ethical non-monogamy is the way forward.

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

Very variable as life has been extremely challenging. Anything from once a week to once a day. We usually can’t go longer than a week before the sexual tension overtakes the stresses. As things become less stressful I can see us quickly getting back to a couple of times a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 or 4 times a night when in mood

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

When I was with ex it was a couple times a week.

Then it dropped to once a month, then a couple of times a year.

Then for the last 2 years before we split, it dropped to never having any.

Lockdown feels like a breeze!

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By *ongueandgroove555Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"we aren't married, however have been together quite a while.

usually 3 or 4 times a week, give or take

but that's because i can't get enough of him

Px "

Same !!!! He's yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not married and none

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By *um6a9funMan
over a year ago

Messy End

Last time was two days before the first lockdown started, so I’m now well over 13 months, I’m confident I can squeeze a few more week at least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as once a week? You randy devils!

I'm up to 8 years without now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often enough!

Used to have it a few times a week, haven’t had since before lockdown now! So December

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"interested in how often you have sex as a married couple--ours dropped and can be less than once week"

That's so unfair, when restrictions allow give me a shout to help out, got around 52 weeks to make up for

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Once a month if I’m lucky

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By *ildrockMan
over a year ago

london

You’re definitely seductive enough to get more than once a week sweetie ???? should be 3-4 in my opinion ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often around an average of 15 times a month I’d say, but some weeks it’s daily and other weeks there is none.

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

North East

"interested in how often you have sex as a married couple--ours dropped and can be less than once week"

We tend to be almost every day, sometimes have to agree a day off haha

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

If ma biach ain't givin it up thrice daily she in a world o hurt!

Jsyk. Not true.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Once a year if lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it averages out about five times a week. Used to be more before hubbies chemo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this sex you speak of I am 65 single not had sex for two years just wanking to porn could really do with some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years +

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By *lassyandkinkyCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"At the moment very little due to covid, but now

Lockdown easing hoping to get back in it shortly. I’ve been meeting a friend prob every week, that’s ticked us both over. Be glad when the clubs open back up I tell thee "

During Covid? Goodness.....

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Probably averages out to about 6 days per week as unplanned overtime in work for one of us normally scuppers one day.

Although some days will be more than once so I suppose we make up for it that way!

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Sadly not since dec 2019

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easily ever 2-3 days.. it’s a huge part of our marriage. Also I love his cock

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Not enough at the moment

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

We had a baby. Finding the right moment where we are both in the mood and have the energy that coincides with being allowed to express that desire by the small human who requires our attention is difficult at the minute. One of the many joys of parenthood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After 36 years of marriage, hardly ever these days

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By *entNudistMan
over a year ago

Bexley

I'd say around once a week, so I find myself masturbating most days to fill the gaps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now a hell of a lot less due to seperating

Oh well back out there as a single........

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By *layfulAussieMan
over a year ago

London

"interested in how often you have sex as a married couple--ours dropped and can be less than once week"

Great profile. Let me know if you need any help increasing that frequency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends to be honest, can be multiple times a day or every day if we're both up for it , could be once a week if either of us aren't feeling too good about ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently every 2-4 weeks with a FWB.

In a relationship - min 3 times a week upto several times a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

twice a week, but masturbation is 3 - 4 times a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1-3 times a week. Anyone who says everyday is lying!"

How so

Because you dont?

LOL

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We struggle to get to sleep without sexual relief of some sort. Sexual intercouse normally 4 times of week, "other stuff" a few times a week

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

As often as possible!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Whenever we have spare time to ourselves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how busy our week is and Mr J works nights sooo...

But on average 4 or 5 times a week I'd say!

Her x

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By *ifes a peachCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I would have it every day but the wifes sex drive isn't as high as mine so try to get it every other night at the minimum with the odd blow job here and there if she's not up for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After 36 years of marriage, hardly ever these days

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get a joint account might help both

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