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By *histle79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Does anyone take a fan of their pic as an invitation to get in touch with someone or should you just take it as a compliment and hope they make the first move after that?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Just leave it as a compliment. If they wanted to message they would. I fab lots of pics just because I like. Jusy treat it as a like on a pic on book face. You don't reply to everyone who liked your pic on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d not see it as an invitation but I tend not to instigate a conversation on here at all, just avoid s any upset, think I’ve only sent two

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think it's perfectly OK to use it in context to let you message them or not. You can't say that if they wanted to message you, they would have, therefore you must take that as a rejection or something.

Just don't abuse it and take it as an open invitation to get obsessed with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, it is bit like a smile on a bus from a random stranger - never goes anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. In a previous fan life, if I saw the same person fabbing my pics I’d take it as code they were interested. Had many a jolly outcome

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By *histle79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"It depends. In a previous fan life, if I saw the same person fabbing my pics I’d take it as code they were interested. Had many a jolly outcome "

Yeah, if it’s a repeat fabber then you can maybe take that more as a sign

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We love a fab on our picks and will get in touch with the ones we like the look of, it show you who has an interest in you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a compliment in my eyes. I never act on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i send a message saying thanks but thats it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a compliment

Her x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've received fabs, fabbed back and they've led to meets. So you never know!

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Does anyone take a fan of their pic as an invitation to get in touch with someone or should you just take it as a compliment and hope they make the first move after that?"

I don't look at fabs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Just a compliment.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don't even look at them, too time consuming.

If someone likes me, they can send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as a compliment

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I fab a pic cos I like it not because I want to jump on your bones and get into your pants.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s from someone far away, I’ll fab a few back if I like them.

If they’re local, I will send a simple message thanking them for the Fabs. Most of the time it leads to a conversation and occasionally meeting, so I generally think some people do use them as a way of saying they may be open to chat if not an invitation.

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