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"How's fab going for you?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or the variant "How are you finding fab"....What on earth does someone actually expect you to say to that?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've had the same! It's not much of a message is it?

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By *histlerMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I’ll often ask that if I see it’s a new profile. Always interested to find out more about their reasons for joining.

And it’s a way to find out if the reality is matching up to their idea of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll often ask that if I see it’s a new profile. Always interested to find out more about their reasons for joining.

And it’s a way to find out if the reality is matching up to their idea of it. "

Same! Lockdowns and restrictions have also affected peoples experiences of fab so i do ask albeit not as an opening message but in the course of conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the variant "How are you finding fab"....What on earth does someone actually expect you to say to that?"

Or whats bring you to fab, my answer wifi or 4g data

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's a conversation starter. We don't mind it, the messages that follow tell if you're compatible. It's like at a party, you need to establish conversation by starting with something neutral like " did you come far? "

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I’ll often ask that if I see it’s a new profile. Always interested to find out more about their reasons for joining.

And it’s a way to find out if the reality is matching up to their idea of it.

Same! Lockdowns and restrictions have also affected peoples experiences of fab so i do ask albeit not as an opening message but in the course of conversation. "

Exactly This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I get a lob on

Sometimes I think you idiot

Sometimes I lick my screen

And a lot of times it makes me feel sick

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

Oh damn I've been guilty of this! Usually in response to a message that doesn't give much away.. I'd ask "are you enjoying fab?" - it can open up conversation about what they're looking for, or is there's any mutual ground for reasons for joining.. but I'll admit its my go-to when feeling lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the variant "How are you finding fab"....What on earth does someone actually expect you to say to that?"

I just tell them the truth!!!!

It’s working well for us this time and the way we approach and use fab now is much more enjoyable for my wife.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can say we're guilty of this too but it's just a mere question of, does the site work for you, have you had many meets, have they been good etc, a lot of of people reply with experiences or what they've not found yet etc... More of a conversation starter than saying have you done this, this and this.

Her x

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

You ok?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I ask this because I know how daunting it can be for new ladies. 300 unread FAF messages and an avalanche of dick pics can frighten them away.

I just see if they want to chat about it.

Never ask an experienced fabber though.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"You ok? "

Owz u? (Beat that! )

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"You ok?

Owz u? (Beat that! )"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ok?

Owz u? (Beat that! )"

Chillin. Wbu? Wuup2? Faf?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"K?"

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"It's a conversation starter. We don't mind it, the messages that follow tell if you're compatible. It's like at a party, you need to establish conversation by starting with something neutral like " did you come far? " "

Exactly.

Despite the demands of many folk on here looking for war and peace opening messages I for one am not prepared to type them out when the simple fact is that 99% of single mens opening messages get ignored, sometimes deleted without even being read. A simple opening message to see if a conversation can be struck then take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will admit I tend to type out a bit. Something other than How's you? How's fab, blah blah. I compliment bios and pics etc.

Yes they often get deleted straight away but I like to make a little effort. It's each to their own how they go about things

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I don't really mind it all that much. Certainly better than "How are you" or "How is your week going". At least it's... contextual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it intrusive.

I just say I've had 38 meets this morning, having a cuppa then starting on the afternoon lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the variant "How are you finding fab"....What on earth does someone actually expect you to say to that?"

It’s going alright.. or it’s not as expected.. I’m sure you can think of something OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common no point messages

How you finding fab

What you up to

Are you busy

How you feeling today

Are you alone

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Common no point messages

How you finding fab

What you up to

Are you busy

How you feeling today

Are you alone

"

11pm on a (last) Friday night

You free?

(Going to bed in a bit actually )

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Or the variant "How are you finding fab"....What on earth does someone actually expect you to say to that?"

If I resort to that sentence it means that I have nothing more to say to that person ...

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

I find it on my phone. Simple answer.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

How's fab treating me

Where to I go for the treatments? Sign me right up, I'll start with an upper body massage please

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It’s like a yo-yo

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

50/50 entertaining/frustrating

That's my standard answer

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Common no point messages

How you finding fab

What you up to

Are you busy

How you feeling today

Are you alone

11pm on a (last) Friday night

You free?

(Going to bed in a bit actually )"

Wuu2 bbe?

Lying on the sofa, in my fleecy pyjamas with a couple of cats.

Not usually what they want to hear

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"Or the variant "How are you finding fab"....What on earth does someone actually expect you to say to that?"

Knee deep in clunge me mate, how about you?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Without fab we wouldn't have met, so everything else is just gray.

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