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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What a your thoughts on winks, i use them as an ice breaker to show my interest but wasn't sure if they annoyed people?

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Same. Use them to show interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good glad it isn't just me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still trying to understand them..... I kind of see them as a lazy hello so don’t really use them xxxx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

To be honest I very rarely check them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the system. We use to say we like you and if you wink back start messages

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I send a wink as a cheeky smile. If wink back I'll send msg and pic etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I offer it as a way to say hello that or fab a photo or two lol

Then I'll message a thank you and we can go from there

Even if it's only to say thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your responses, I'm still non the wiser haha. Would always want a good conversation but can see the merit in a wink to show interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people always use them to show interest. And then others forget that winks exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use them to show interest. If someone winks at me I usually message back. They're a handy ice-breaker.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We use them as ice breakers too, send a wink and see if they respond or not

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I use and see them as a show of interest, sometimes they work sometimes they dont

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

We ignore them. If people want to get inside our pants then a short email isn’t much to ask. If you saw someone in a bar you fancied you would go and say hi right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get many

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"We ignore them. If people want to get inside our pants then a short email isn’t much to ask. If you saw someone in a bar you fancied you would go and say hi right?"

You may smile at them or raise your eyebrows and see if they smile back, or they may scowl and look away.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I use a wink rarely. Usually if I think I'm compatible, but not completely sure. I'd much rather message usually. If I'm winked at, I will usually message back, but nothing has ever come from it.

On a side issue it would be good if we were able to see who we had previously winked at.

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Don’t look at them

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've had meets that started with a wink. Well look at their profile and wink back if we may be compatible.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I think ladies who use blocks a lot could use them.

Once you wink, that person can then message you.

So ladies can block all the men and then just wink those they want to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t recived any winks or messages that weren’t part forums think if you’re going to message someone at least introduce yourself make bit effort chat see if it’s right if not then hey if works good for you but my observations and opinion are don’t send a dick pick for introduction they don’t see that till we play adult games like let’s hide the sausage only a personal opinion though I might be wrong I usually am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally wink back if like look of profile but otherwise just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like them, they certainly have there part in the site.

Example ....

Profile One likes the look of profile two, maybe they're just an year or two out of their age range, or something else that makes them question whether or not they are what profile two are looking for.

They send a wink to save time of creating a message to fit accordingly.

Profile two notice the wink, they check out profile one, decide they like and so wink back.

Profile One then goes about creating that message and it leads from there.

Or, profile two don't like and so skip it by, saving the hassles of opening a message from an undesirable.

Saving everybody's time or making the first move.

Used correctly, it can be a positive experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send winks (J) if I'm interested in a profile, some people I know get so many messages so I think it's a great way to check out another profile without feeling the pressure to reply/ignore if it's not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We ignore them. If people want to get inside our pants then a short email isn’t much to ask. If you saw someone in a bar you fancied you would go and say hi right?"

It's likely a smile, a nod or some gesture will happen before approaching you.

Kinda the idea here behind the winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use them but I'm not sure if it is seen as lazy or not though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I was getting winks from women as I'm new here been on here looking for fun with females please p

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I just delete them, it's lazy.

You like me? Send a msg. If you can't? You're not what I'm looking for (or not verified/have public photos)

Put some effort in!

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By *unforyou73Man
over a year ago

worcester weekend in exmouth

I use them to show interest but never get any in return, where am I going wrong ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use them, don't look at them.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I rarely look at mine anymore. I use to pay more attention to them in fact a couple of great meets I had started with one of us winking at the other. So ye they can be good if you take notice of them .

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I use them to try to say hello and Say I am very much interested

And I wave my hands but you can’t see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them use them to show interest

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