FabSwingers.com forum: The first message

By *histler OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Men - how often have you been sent the first message from a couple or lady?

Couples / Ladies - do you often make the first move or do you wait for the right guy to message?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I've sent mesaages in the past, but I tend to stumble across people. I can't say I go looking coz it ain't on my priority list. I can easily go without sex or meeting, so I tend to fall into the "it'll evolve on it's own somehow somewhen" category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men - how often have you been sent the first message from a couple or lady?

Couples / Ladies - do you often make the first move or do you wait for the right guy to message?"

Rarely.., my profile isn’t great so only myself to blame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only sent a first message a handful of times very rare I do!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I have only sent a first message a handful of times very rare I do! "

Alright cowboy ya show off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never make the first move on here ever...I leave it up to the guys to contact me...I prefer to be persued than me doing the persuing...

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By *histler OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"I never make the first move on here ever...I leave it up to the guys to contact me...I prefer to be persued than me doing the persuing... "

And I’m sure there’s a long list of persuers

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I hardly ever send the first one, too shy I guess and not a clue what to say

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By *histler OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"I hardly ever send the first one, too shy I guess and not a clue what to say

Feel free to practice on me

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I hardly ever send the first one, too shy I guess and not a clue what to say

I normally say something like:

"oi, bollockchops, my next door neighbour is having a night terror. Fancy a fuck to drown out his screams before I go round an twat him?"

^that was inspired by my next door neighbour who is having a night terror as I type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it's 50/50. I/we tend to message if a picture and profile hit the spot.

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By *histler OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

The ratio of guys to couples/ladies obviously skews all this too

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By *asy Rider 69Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Only in my dreams but I live in hope

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By *histler OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"Only in my dreams but I live in hope "

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I do If I’m interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy to message first, usually because something has caught my attention - a post, or photo. I just enjoy chatting with people, of either sex - it doesn’t have to lead to anything. (Actually - I am one of those people who start talking to strangers on buses or in queues ...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had 3 or 4 across the time on fab, really don’t mind messaging first

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