FabSwingers.com forum: Is finding a FWB on fab a realistic expectation ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?

I’m at a point in my life we’re a full on committed relationship has no real interest to me, but at the same point I don’t just want a endless string of one night stands, something regular would be more my thing

So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?

And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found my hubby if that counts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes def works but not easy... all about finding the one person you trigger or they trigger you

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I've found fwbs on here and also found a best friend too.

Just because it's a swinging/sex site doesn't mean you can't find anything meaningful or fulfilling on here, its all about the person after all OP

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Most definitely

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Yes, a couple of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what I’m hoping for, think lucky : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never say never.

people see different things they like in each other.

ive been lucky to have relationships from here, had friends ive met and stayed in contact with, it can take time but it does happen.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Thats what I'm hopeful to find at some point, now my situation is changing

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Totally as that is all I'm looking for so have found a few wonderful men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did yes, 3 years we were fwb. We fell for eachother and had to end it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?

So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?

And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ? "

Yes!

I've been luck and meet a few fab from fab! Best site I know for finding someone

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

It would be nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did yes, 3 years we were fwb. We fell for eachother and had to end it.

Ahh sorry to hear that pal!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?

So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?

And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ?

Yes!

I've been luck and meet a few fab from fab! Best site I know for finding someone

Ahh nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou everyone for your inputs so far it’s much appreciated

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

A fwb is exactly what I’m looking for - no luck so far though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A fwb is exactly what I’m looking for - no luck so far though"

I Havant had a great deal of luck in my search either! But fingers crossed for you and hopefully you find something soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a quite few fwb over the years but they all end up getting clingy one way or another so for me now its fuck buddys only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking and hoping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo not ive found Fwb's on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"had a quite few fwb over the years but they all end up getting clingy one way or another so for me now its fuck buddys only"

I'm thinking about it but it's me, I worry I get clingy. If I do, how easy is it going to be to break it off? Or, how do I stop getting clingy in the first place? Any answers on how to master this are welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a bbw fwb in south east still looking but think my age and me is putting lady’s off

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Had but since this pandemic seems like difficult to know where things are but I'm sure everything will be ok as people's lives can be turned upside down with a hectic life and putting family members as a priority which is only right in my book if any of them are ready this you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"had a quite few fwb over the years but they all end up getting clingy one way or another so for me now its fuck buddys only

You just have to emotionally switch off, I mean I’m at that stage in my life purely because I think I’ve just been hurt too many times in the past, something just switched and now I seem to be emotionally unavailable, which I’m hoping is just a temporary thing lol

I wouldn’t advise taking the route of getting hurt though! X

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

From my experience of having a fwb and not from fab just a lady friend that I was chatting with and she said something about sex so I asked her if she wanted a fwb she said yes and we both had amazing sex with each other BUT THEN SHE TURNED INTO A BUNNY BOILER and wanted more than just sex and it’s been very hard to let her down gently so a fwb from here would be the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as yet lol

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I think its realistic

, just takes a while

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm open to the idea of it, I actually want to know the people I'm going to sleep with potentially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recently met someone off here who i am hoping can be a regular fwb. Early days at the moment tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for the same , but it seems harder atm with all the covid shite going on , at least on here you get to know what the person is into rather than just guessing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did yes, 3 years we were fwb. We fell for eachother and had to end it.

Was she married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’m looking for this too

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I found two really lovely FWBs over the years year. Both really lovely It can be done.

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

It would be nice. If not a fwb then a fb would also be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"had a quite few fwb over the years but they all end up getting clingy one way or another so for me now its fuck buddys only

I wouldn’t advise taking the route of getting hurt though! X"

That's what I wonder, if I do it enough times will I become insensitive to it, emotionally switched off? Is that better? Is that where I want to be?

Being hurt is the only way you learn? No? Or it is for me anyway, I like a hard lesson. Lol

Its only when you get hurt that you stop and think about your actions.

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By *otsMan
over a year ago

Higham

Always nice to find someone or a couple.

Unfortunately I'm in that age gap where some have moved away to sunnyer climbs or to the seaside.

Not at a loose end.

Not easy here but always been good in the past.

Nice to find anotger single or couple.

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By *otsMan
over a year ago

Higham

Dam spell checker changes words as you post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very but it could all go wrong and rip you apart from the insides best not to try

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Yes I’m looking for this too"

Looking for this too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"had a quite few fwb over the years but they all end up getting clingy one way or another so for me now its fuck buddys only

I wouldn’t advise taking the route of getting hurt though! X

That's what I wonder, if I do it enough times will I become insensitive to it, emotionally switched off? Is that better? Is that where I want to be?

Being hurt is the only way you learn? No? Or it is for me anyway, I like a hard lesson. Lol

Its only when you get hurt that you stop and think about your actions. "

I mean me personally I hate the fact I’m currently emotionally switched off, purely because I don’t know if there ever switch back on (I hope they do!)

My best advice would be if you feel like your starting to cling or get feelings then step away for abit, save yourself from getting hurt x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's very doable, I've had a few longterm fem fwb from here and the current one is an amazing girl.

Good luck in your search....

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I've reached the point where I would now and again enjoy a "fb experience" for an occasional club night.

It is difficult, because I get in my own way.

I need a mental as well as physical connection, and these days I find it hard to find someone who even reads my profile before messaging, never mind anything else!

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By *andamoCouple
over a year ago

thornton heath

I'm so out of touch I didn't know what fwb meant. In all honesty thats what we look for. Friends who we can fuck, now and again. We all want a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?

Yeah I have but it’s been hard work

So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?

And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found a few but it’s hard work

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Definitely realistic and I have found very long term fbs here. Be yourself and you will gravitate to the right people. Letting others know that they are important and valued, us a good bedrock for others to want more time with you. Remain clear that you don't want to date, as some will.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Been here done that..

It all ended In tears

Trust broken.

Never ever gonna do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do op. This website is a tool (somewhere to meet and talk to people).

It might take someone a long time to find what you want if your clear what you want, but the opportunity is here after you joined.

The trouble is, getting to talk to the people that might like you, it’s a busy place with people already doing their own thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very rare I actually meet for a one-off, unless it’s arranged to be just that, so depending on your definition of FWB, most of my past encounter have been to some degree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly what many of us look for but for some reason I believe fab changes people, or many just don’t know how to tell the truth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s what I joined to ideally find, 1 person i can trust and connect with to share intense experiences with, also building a lasting worthwhile friendship. I’ve already made a wonderful friend through fab and that’s as far as things will go between us, I certainly didn’t expect to find that here but I’m extremely happy I did.

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

Lucky enough to have found exactly that, best friends with benefits

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I have

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

We met and continue to enjoy our adventures

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes it's possible to find fwbs on here.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

One offs or fuck and go meets do absolutely nothing for me so definitely believe it’s realistic to find a FWB via fab. Someone you click with both sexually and socially is great.

The “friend” element of an FWB is just as important to me than the “with benefits” element

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I'm still looking.

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

I hope it is possible cos im not looking anywhere else for an FWB

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Yep we have, and we continue to enjoy some great times together

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By *-man24Man
over a year ago

northwest

"Found my hubby if that counts"

Thats beautiful lucky lovers

Made me smile and fuzzy that hope for us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One offs or fuck and go meets do absolutely nothing for me so definitely believe it’s realistic to find a FWB via fab. Someone you click with both sexually and socially is great.

The “friend” element of an FWB is just as important to me than the “with benefits” element"

Exactly this. I can't just screw people food the sake of sex. I need to have a connection with them and build a friendship. I've made some wonderful friends from here, some with the bonus of amazing sex and some without. Either way, I'm grateful for all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the elusive fwb.... I’ve been seeking one of these during my last two times on here... and without any luck sadly.

As I say... I want the relations without the ship... all the perks without the works... but it seems everyone near me’s after notches with a fuck and go mentality.

Quality over quantity for me... I also need to want to rip their clothes off at regular intervals as well as like them as a person... getting a good physical and mental attraction.

I’m still an optimist at the moment .... before I give up and become a nun! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh the elusive fwb.... I’ve been seeking one of these during my last two times on here... and without any luck sadly.

As I say... I want the relations without the ship... all the perks without the works... but it seems everyone near me’s after notches with a fuck and go mentality.

Quality over quantity for me... I also need to want to rip their clothes off at regular intervals as well as like them as a person... getting a good physical and mental attraction.

I’m still an optimist at the moment .... before I give up and become a nun! Lol "

I’m in same boat I think!

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

That's exactly what I'm looking for, so yes.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’ve made some great friends and found my fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?

So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?

And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ? "

Keep hanging in there OP. Course it's possible . I have one or two regular ladies I see. All in my social bubble of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve made some great friends and found my fella.

Awww bless Lexi. He's a lucky guy And you're a lovely lass . Happy for you. It's been ages since I've seen you .

In fact It's been ages since I've seen most people for that matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking in my area but already made some lovely lady’s friends chat regularly it will happen op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?

So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?

And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ?

Keep hanging in there OP. Course it's possible . I have one or two regular ladies I see. All in my social bubble of course "

Well you should really only have 1

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By *ixieandfairyCouple
over a year ago

St Helier

We have one or two guys we see semi regularly. It’s good in that we have more chats and laughs before and after the play and it’s more relaxed as time goes on. Although, we still like the thrill of meeting a new person! There’s nothing like it, doesn’t always end well but it’s that in the moment thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?

So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?

And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ?

Keep hanging in there OP. Course it's possible . I have one or two regular ladies I see. All in my social bubble of course

Well you should really only have 1

I get bored easy

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

We have found a fwb of nearly a year now without looking, from Initial fab message, it's tough at times, we in a long term relationship of over 20yrs, but this seems a great solution all round but takes effort and balance to keep us all happy and sane. Both guys very different, get on well for ems mutual pleasure as a three or as a two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been looking for a while...

Not having much luck

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By *uicy mushroomMan
over a year ago

elephant and Castle

"Found my hubby if that counts"

Wow

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By *hite russianWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have xx

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By *ixieandfairyCouple
over a year ago

St Helier

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for all your inputs! Wish I could reply to you all individually but I would be here forever! Lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Think the answer remains similar to how many actually find the g spot

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I'm still looking.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

The best ones just seem to appear, naturally and mostly unexpectedly because its organic and develops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're attractive, I dont see why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are hoping to find a lady that there is a connection , as a couple it's a first for us , but finding it really hard to find someone not a million miles away that will fit and will become FWB.

Not going to go the just random sex route shall plug away and hope that round the corner we meet someone, any advice would be great, just want to meet a women not a man though

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By *ypriotMaleMan
over a year ago

Cyprus / London

I'm still looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure is I found mine xx Becks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Not yet. But good for all you lucky people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope that's what we want but Don't see it happening on here, those that have , what's ya secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They rarely reply to messages so I doubt you would find someone on here....

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I would love to find a FWB who would also let me to her to clubs. A rare commodity these days that i dont think exists

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Ive been lucky to of had a few, all nice ladies who just noved onto better things, it suits me as work akot but do love great honest company not just for sex but for other things to share, its great ehen tou find a like mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found my fwb on here. Haven't been happier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've had more than one I've met on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I've had more than one I've met on here xx"

Same... definitely possible

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