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Preparation for anal

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By *w79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stalbridge

Hi guys & girls.

Just wondering what everyone's routine is for when they are preparing for anal.

Just incase you are wondering.

I'm a versatile bisexual, but with a preference for bottoming with guys.

Can't wait to read your routines for anal prep. Also any tips will be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brace. Brace. Brace.

Whooop. Whoooop.

Ramming speed achieved sir.

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By *ex-BombsCouple
over a year ago

Flitwick

A douche! Plus fore play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube, and more lube

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Bottoms up, smile and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube, and more lube"

Myth.

Relax and a little lube.

Then.

Brace. Brace. Brace.

Whooop. Whoooop.

Ramming speed achieved sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None xx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Lube, and more lube

Myth.

Relax and a little lube.

Then.

Brace. Brace. Brace.

Whooop. Whoooop.

Ramming speed achieved sir. "

I do not need lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube, and more lube

Myth.

Relax and a little lube.

Then.

Brace. Brace. Brace.

Whooop. Whoooop.

Ramming speed achieved sir.

I do not need lube."

It’s better without but some need a little.

This lube, lube, lube thing is just wrong. If you’re not relaxed no amount of lube will help. If you are, then lube is hardly needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll always make sure I’m ‘clean’ first

Then relax, lube, and that smelly relaxing stuff that I’m not allowed to say on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clean

lube lube and more lube.

also helps when he's talking filth in your ear.. drives me WILD

most importantly.. take it slow and listen to your body.

Enjoy! Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube, and more lube

Myth.

Relax and a little lube.

Then.

Brace. Brace. Brace.

Whooop. Whoooop.

Ramming speed achieved sir.

I do not need lube.

It’s better without but some need a little.

This lube, lube, lube thing is just wrong. If you’re not relaxed no amount of lube will help. If you are, then lube is hardly needed. "

You are of course totally correct! It is better without if you can, being relaxed is the key. I'm the one who takes it! Andy

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By *hrobinsonMan
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

Eat lightly the day before and on the day. In general have plenty of fibre, avoid meat if you can, especially red meat.

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

I (he) tried a few times but nobody has ever been able to get up there. She on the other hand can take a cock easily, even

without lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you should think about it.... as long as he’s lubed from being others places it shouldn’t be an issue...it’s the pleasure hit after the sting that’s so satisfying xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube, and more lube

Myth.

Relax and a little lube.

Then.

Brace. Brace. Brace.

Whooop. Whoooop.

Ramming speed achieved sir. "

Hahaha now all I can see in captain pickard saying “engage...” hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brace. Brace. Brace.

Whooop. Whoooop.

Ramming speed achieved sir.

"
deploy thrusters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure that you douche properly or the moment can disappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a small butt plug to wear for a while after douching. It helps loosen the old manclam up abit before a meet OP

Don’t over douche as well minutes before a meet , aim to sort yourself out about an hour before .

Find a lube that suits as well not one with any numbing agent though. While if aroused relaxed you can take stuff in the anus without lube , it’s not advisable as the condoms / toys will dry you out over time leading to potential microtears.

Just a sensible amount and as others said if not relaxed no amount of lube is really going to be much use .

Also find a position that you are in control with for bottoming when new , first timers I recommend sitting up top or on your back so they can see your face / communicate easily and you can stop them easy enough .

Doggy style can very quickly lead to German U-boat full ramming speed captain moments if not careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Catapult in

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I've never prepped for it.... I like it to be spontaneous

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I also don't like to use lube as it can make things go quicker than you want and make it more painful than it needs to be

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

between OX26 & BH23


"Brace. Brace. Brace.

Whooop. Whoooop.

Ramming speed achieved sir.

"

Dam that makes me want you so bad x

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I've never prepped for it.... I like it to be spontaneous "

Spontaneous, it is awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of Vaseline

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

I'd like some tips on making douching easier, quicker and more efficient. I'm a bit of a perfectionist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathing is important to relax and calm your self down, coconut oil is an alternative to lube.and if a complete novice get your partner to start with a finger slowly.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No douche. Have a bath. Lube. Couple of fingers to warm up the anal sphincter and enjoy.

The fatter the cock the more warming up required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Douche, lube and relax. Breathe in as they enter you and go slow to begin with, then you will love it! I took a 9” thick cock and it felt amazing (male here)!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I also don't like to use lube as it can make things go quicker than you want and make it more painful than it needs to be "

Spit is fine for me with my partner.

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Lube, and more lube

Myth.

Relax and a little lube.

Then.

Brace. Brace. Brace.

Whooop. Whoooop.

Ramming speed achieved sir.

I do not need lube.

It’s better without but some need a little.

This lube, lube, lube thing is just wrong. If you’re not relaxed no amount of lube will help. If you are, then lube is hardly needed. "

My wife and I have found this to be the case. Consideration and care initially, before pumping fully!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Douched - Preferably Shaved/Smooth - well Lubricated (Silk is best) , and let the other person Rim you until your ready - Finger first , then bell end in slow, take your time , then ease in

Once done you will never regret it and will love anal for ever and a day lol

Anal Doctor steps out of his waiting room

J

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

I’m just discovering the physical pleasure of anal play. I douche first which is also a pleasing sensual experience.

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By *urydiceRisingWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Anal beads can help loosen you up especially if his cock is girthy. Not sure what it's like for men, but as a woman, there are multiples of multiple orgasms to be had so an intro anal orgasm before the main event is a great warm up act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No prep here

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

I spit on her arse and then ask is it ok to enter

I’m always polite

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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago

South west


"No prep here "

I can witness this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good douche is the best approach - always

A messy smelly session can be a real passion killer!!

Lube can help but plenty of foreplay and a self lubing cock like I have can also work wonders

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