FabSwingers.com forum: Is it just me or do most women not reply

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

No, a personality is the best feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another thread that is about ENTITLEMENT, no ones u a reply Op, maybe look at to why your not getting replies on here,

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Women, 1000's messages,

Pandemic,

Does your profile stand out,

No answer is polite no thanks.....yad yada

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another thread that is about ENTITLEMENT, no ones u a reply Op, maybe look at to why your not getting replies on here, "

Owes*

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Plenty of guys with 6 packs on here who fail miserably

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

No, a personality is the best feature "
. It's very hard to get a personality across when you can't get a reply, I reply to everyone and then decide if I want to take it any further

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

You have nothing on your profile that gives any indication of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

No, a personality is the best feature "

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

If your talking about single ladies they get hundreds of messages a day, if they had to reply to every message they wouldn't have time to have a life

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By *S2004Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

All single men feel your pain....and whilst frustrating that messages considering a persons profile go unread it is bordering on impossible for a single female to keep up with messages. My partner has one and there can be hundreds following a status update or a picture.x

A read message without a reply is not rude it just efficient for females and actually increases the amount of genuine replies they can send. I met my partner on here as a single male so you will never find me complaining.

All I can say is that a well thought out message is more likely to get a reply than the the vast majority sent by single males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

No, a personality is the best feature "

Things I need to work on

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Even men with serious abs can be plain dull. Good looks can only get you so far. They need a great personality too. Notice my lack of abs lol.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

6 packs are irrelevant.

Make a bit more effort with your profile, variety of pics, say in your bio what it is you're looking for, what you enjoy, what you like in a woman.

And send well thought out first messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, no 6 pack required.

Just be normal and not a cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"6 packs are irrelevant.

Make a bit more effort with your profile, variety of pics, say in your bio what it is you're looking for, what you enjoy, what you like in a woman.

And send well thought out first messages!"
thank you for the advice, it's much appreciated and I realize I must do better

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"6 packs are irrelevant.

Make a bit more effort with your profile, variety of pics, say in your bio what it is you're looking for, what you enjoy, what you like in a woman.

And send well thought out first messages! thank you for the advice, it's much appreciated and I realize I must do better"

That's a good start!

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By *iss selectiveWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Clear pics and politeness helps messages saying when we fucking will always b blocked by me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Clear pics and politeness helps messages saying when we fucking will always b blocked by me"
I honestly have never started a message that way although asking how are you is a big no no to

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

No, a personality is the best feature "

This!! x

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm not looking to meet men but if I was, I would be looking for the following.

Well written profile. This includes reasonable grammar, paragraphs and ideally no text language.

Positivity.

What you are looking for and can offer.

No clichés unless clearly in jest.

At least 3 clear photos that do not include or focus on your cock.

That is all assuming that the message was decent in the first place.

Bonus points for humour and obvious intelligence.

OP, the problem is that men far outnumber women, so you need to stand out... in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

No, a personality is the best feature

This!! x "
hopefully it works

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

No, a personality is the best feature

This!! x hopefully it works "

When clubs reopen, give one a try.

Not everyone is good at conveying their personality in text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

Wrong. End of thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry much about it OP, it's normal. If you don't get a reply just move on, plenty more people on here.

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By *annah_88Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I always try to reply x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

A bottle of Jack usually works for me

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

Nope, I’ve got a six pack that’s covered with a dad belly, 80% of my messages go unread, 15% go unanswered. About 4% get a polite no thank you, which leaves 1% who start a proper conversation with.

I custom write every message. No copy and paste. And I post a face pic with every first message sent.

You have to remember, some girls can get literally 100’s of messages a day! There is no way they get to read them all.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

Plus I’ve just checked your profile. 60% of your photos are dick pics, no face pic and a one sentence bio. What makes you stand out from the other 10,000 guys messaging her?

You have to put the effort in.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I agree with the above.

But if a message vanishes after 3 weeks, what does it mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t need a six pack to get a reply on here.

All that’s needed is a woman that’s interested in you, as that’s pretty much the only thing to guarantee a reply.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Like everyone said : Great personality wins all the time over a 'six pack' and a 'big dick' .

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

Mine still in the fridge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I haven’t read one of these threads in a long time.......

Op try this ....

Don’t send anymore messages and wait for a woman/couple to contact you....

This advice seems radical and crazy but it works....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for most of the advice here,I shall look into my profile tomorrow and start a fresh

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Lots of ladies reply and send messages..

Look inwards for the answers many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't, but they are not obliged to either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

All I can say is that a well thought out message is more likely to get a reply than the the vast majority sent by single males."

You're not kidding... "fancy a fuck babe" or "[insert things they would do to me]" haha.

Grim beyond belief. No grammar and badly arranged messages made up of short hand text speak from 30+ year olds, that should really know better.

And the shit you get back if you don't reply, wow.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with the above.

But if a message vanishes after 3 weeks, what does it mean?"

Maybe they have done a mass delete?

It usually says in your sent items whats happened to your message, if its been deleted or read etc.

If youre unlucky enough to be part of a mass delete, its not personal, its just clearing out the cobwebs and a diamond will have been missed etc. X

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

Oh man ..... if we all had £1 for every time this thread came up.....

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

No effort on your profile means no results #justsayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh man ..... if we all had £1 for every time this thread came up....."

100%.......

When I see threads like this , I always wonder if the Op is looking for a magical formula to make people answer their emails...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could send several messages and not get a single reply is this because of my physical appearance.......nope! Is it because I've dropped a single line or a detailed epic spanning several messages......nope! Is it because women are only looking for a specific type?.......nope! It's because women get 100s of messages per hour and if you're not standing out as a shark in a puddle then you're one of a million plus minnows snagging the same bait in a massive ocean.

Be creative, be original, be you and don't be bitter that for every message you've sent, you've not had a reply or don't get a no thanks. It's not personal or a stereotype you don't fit into It's just quantity over quality and if you ARE the quality then take what little you might get and be happy with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do know women get an unreal amount of messages and it must be tedious going through them all. That being said most women (not all) but most do message back... One woman messaged me 6 months later!!..

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I do know women get an unreal amount of messages and it must be tedious going through them all. That being said most women (not all) but most do message back... One woman messaged me 6 months later!!..

I had maybe 6 messages today. Didn’t reply to any of them, deleted all of them. Why? Because they were all from people who had completely ignored my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

It helps... but believe me still no guarantee of a hello back

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol

Hahaha i out a post on here about those photos.. in my opinion not attractive

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By *antingmore72Woman
over a year ago

Hastings

I get over 300 messages a day and can't possibly reply to all of them. Plus last time I actually said no to someone I got called a fat whore! So saying 'no' isn't an option for me anymore, I just ignore instead!

Sometimes it's not us girls making things difficult!

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Be polite be respectful and try to raise a smile. Should never expect a reply but be honoured when you get one

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Handy hint - comments like that aren't likely to get to replies.

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

Hahaha i out a post on here about those photos.. in my opinion not attractive "

It’s hideous, unappealing but yet more and more of these pictures are being used!! Sure way to NOT getting a message from me! Block!!

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

Handy hint - comments like that aren't likely to get to replies. "

Not me that’s looking for replies though! I do fine thanks.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Handy hint - comments like that aren't likely to get to replies.

Not me that’s looking for replies though! I do fine thanks.

Good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha i out a post on here about those photos.. in my opinion not attractive

It’s hideous, unappealing but yet more and more of these pictures are being used!! Sure way to NOT getting a message from me! Block!!

Don’t forget to throw a cream pie one in there.. that’s a sure fire winner. Same mate block and move on

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

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*Cringes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here

I used to Have a six pack 20 years ago.. Lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hahaha i out a post on here about those photos.. in my opinion not attractive

It’s hideous, unappealing but yet more and more of these pictures are being used!! Sure way to NOT getting a message from me! Block!!

Don’t forget to throw a cream pie one in there.. that’s a sure fire winner. Same mate block and move on"

Odd, I see very little these type of photos, still I’m not looking for them.

You guys appear to be experts.

I doff my cap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry pal, 6 packs don’t work!!

It’s a mixture of luck and timing if anyone messages you

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

are you...

Male

Single

Straight

Patient...?

then expect a long wait, measured in eons.

As women on FAB can take a while torespond, if ever.

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