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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are peoples thoughts and feelings about the term bi?

To me to be bi you have to be capable of dating or being in a relationship with someone of the same sex... I’m not capable of that but I have enjoyed same sex fun. I don’t consider myself bi.

Am I wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just bumping this

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Enjoying engaging in sexual activity with men and women.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

In the context of this site, I would say that it means that you are wanting to have sexual contact with people of your own gender and other gender(s).

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Enjoying engaging in sexual activity with men and women. "

See fir me being bi is more about emotion than sexual activity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t matter about labels. Be you, so who you want and be free

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Enjoying engaging in sexual activity with men and women.

See fir me being bi is more about emotion than sexual activity "

That would make sense if it was a dating site, but as a swinging site a life-long relationship isn't the endgame.

Cal

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Enjoying engaging in sexual activity with men and women.

See fir me being bi is more about emotion than sexual activity "

So if you suck a guys dick but don’t feel any emotional attachment you’re still straight?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Enjoying engaging in sexual activity with men and women.

See fir me being bi is more about emotion than sexual activity

So if you suck a guys dick but don’t feel any emotional attachment you’re still straight? "

That’s pretty much how I see it yeah! Wouldn’t date or be in a relationship with but sex is sex right? No emotional attachment needed lol

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Bi sexual it's in the name

If your having sex with the both genders then your are in my opinion bi sexual. It could just be orally bi of all you enjoy is sucking a cock and or being sucked by another man.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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To me all this lets not give people labels blah blah blah is just trying to distract people from the fact that completely straight men do not suck cock and completely straight women do not lick pussy or indulge in sexual acts with the same sex.

Just be bi curious or bi, there are much worse things to be in the world, like living in denial.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Enjoying engaging in sexual activity with men and women.

See fir me being bi is more about emotion than sexual activity

So if you suck a guys dick but don’t feel any emotional attachment you’re still straight?

That’s pretty much how I see it yeah! Wouldn’t date or be in a relationship with but sex is sex right? No emotional attachment needed lol"

That’s Fab straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a theory that a man can have sex with another man and still consider himself straight as there was no feelings of affection. Sorry but that's my definition of bisexual at the least

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's a theory that a man can have sex with another man and still consider himself straight as there was no feelings of affection. Sorry but that's my definition of bisexual at the least"

Fully agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Fab we do need labels as it assists both parties in finding the right person. As long as there preferences are trueful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t find men attractive and have never considered being in a relationship with a man........

But, I do enjoy watching Bi porn and do enjoy cock fun. I’ve played with cocks and sucked cocks and have had guys suck my cock.

I consider myself as bi playful.

If I’m hard and horny, let’s just have fun and enjoy it, no matter what your sexuality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t find men attractive and have never considered being in a relationship with a man........

But, I do enjoy watching Bi porn and do enjoy cock fun. I’ve played with cocks and sucked cocks and have had guys suck my cock.

I consider myself as bi playful.

If I’m hard and horny, let’s just have fun and enjoy it, no matter what your sexuality "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all I know is

Bi and Gay are not the same thing

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington


"I don’t find men attractive and have never considered being in a relationship with a man........

But, I do enjoy watching Bi porn and do enjoy cock fun. I’ve played with cocks and sucked cocks and have had guys suck my cock.

I consider myself as bi playful.

You sound like my hubby.

If I’m hard and horny, let’s just have fun and enjoy it, no matter what your sexuality "

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso


"What are peoples thoughts and feelings about the term bi?

To me to be bi you have to be capable of dating or being in a relationship with someone of the same sex... I’m not capable of that but I have enjoyed same sex fun. I don’t consider myself bi.

Am I wrong?"

I agree with you. We both consider ourselves mostly straight.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Bi simply mean two or twice. In the case of sexuality, twice being attracted to two sexes. Hoow attracted you are to thw two sexes can be variable. It doesn't have to be a 50/50 type of attraction to both sexes.

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford


"In Fab we do need labels as it assists both parties in finding the right person. As long as there preferences are trueful! "

A label is only how someone defines themselves and how they interpret it to themselves, doesn’t make it untrue or wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As this is a swinging site and not a dating site - although one can lead to the other,it seems quite logical to me that if you engage in same sex activity, you can label yourself as bi-curious or bi-sexual. How else can you explain your preferences without writing a very long profile?

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By *ice guy 77Man
over a year ago

ashford

It's surprising how many girls on here do not like bi guys,I've had a lot , oh just seen your bi,no thanks,wtf

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

The definition is “a person who is sexually attracted not exclusively to people of one particular gender”. You have to feel sexual attraction to more than one gender. Not fall in love with; not have a relationship with; not enjoy sometimes touching the genitals of someone of your own gender.

But actually look at people of more than one gender and think “I fancy you”. You don’t even have to act on it, just feel it. That’s what makes you bisexual.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Bi simply mean two or twice. In the case of sexuality, twice being attracted to two sexes. Hoow attracted you are to thw two sexes can be variable. It doesn't have to be a 50/50 type of attraction to both sexes."

It’s two or more genders actually.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"It's surprising how many girls on here do not like bi guys,I've had a lot , oh just seen your bi,no thanks,wtf"

Maybe they have a preference for straight guys?

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live


"It's surprising how many girls on here do not like bi guys,I've had a lot , oh just seen your bi,no thanks,wtf"

Lovea bi guy here...

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

So I define myself as heteroromantic bi sexual.

So date women, like to have sex with either.

For simplicity in the vanilla word id say straight. As bi sexual usually means who'd you date

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton


"It's surprising how many girls on here do not like bi guys,I've had a lot , oh just seen your bi,no thanks,wtf

Maybe they have a preference for straight guys?"

Which is fine we all have our preferences. However I do find it kinda insulting when it comes of as though I'm less manly cause I like to have sex with men

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Who cares

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Straight

Gay

Bi

Lesbian

Trans

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Humans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi man - likes all genders sexually

Bi woman - likes all genders sexually

Notice there's no difference?

There it is, doesn't matter whether you put a label on yourself or not , doesn't matter what others think of it , go for whatever feels right for you and whatever you enjoy and don't worry about anything thay others have to say about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi man - likes all genders sexually

Bi woman - likes all genders sexually

Notice there's no difference?

There it is, doesn't matter whether you put a label on yourself or not , doesn't matter what others think of it , go for whatever feels right for you and whatever you enjoy and don't worry about anything thay others have to say about it "

Amen !!!

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