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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Points of view wanted!

Buddy’s should be open and honest with no head games as there’s no need, your just buddy’s, Right?

If you message them and they have seen it but don’t reply for days, would you be pissed?

I don’t think I’m being OTT, it’s down to respect?!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Points of view wanted!

Buddy’s should be open and honest with no head games as there’s no need, your just buddy’s, Right?

If you message them and they have seen it but don’t reply for days, would you be pissed?

I don’t think I’m being OTT, it’s down to respect?!"

Yes that would piss me off.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

As it's a fb thing, no I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have different thought for fb as I do fwb.

Fb is just that, call up when you want to fuck, leave when done. No other real communication.

Fwb, also have the friends side and communicate as I do other friends.

The thing is different people have different expectations of fb and fwb, it's always best to clarify at the start imo. No one gets annoyed or upset then.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Points of view wanted!

Buddy’s should be open and honest with no head games as there’s no need, your just buddy’s, Right?

If you message them and they have seen it but don’t reply for days, would you be pissed?

I don’t think I’m being OTT, it’s down to respect?!"

A fuck buddy should be like a mate, just with added benefits.

Mates don't just ignore messages, so I would find that disrespectful.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Points of view wanted!

Buddy’s should be open and honest with no head games as there’s no need, your just buddy’s, Right?

If you message them and they have seen it but don’t reply for days, would you be pissed?

I don’t think I’m being OTT, it’s down to respect?!

A fuck buddy should be like a mate, just with added benefits.

Mates don't just ignore messages, so I would find that disrespectful. "

Actually, at explore.me said, maybe that's more of a FWB.

But still, I'd think a FB should reply to be polite. It's not like you are a random stranger messaging them.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I have minimal contact with a fuck buddy, if we are free we meet so no it wouldn't bother me

Now if it was a fwb I'd be very cross and call them out on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have minimal contact with a fuck buddy, if we are free we meet so no it wouldn't bother me

Now if it was a fwb I'd be very cross and call them out on it "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

wouldnt bother me in the least i tend to have ongoing conversations with people we just pick up when we want. Sometimes im not in the mood for chatting if someone expected me to reply straight away id think they where being needy

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

Would depend on the message I guess, for me I can be crap at replying why because I may be at work, and not able to answer the message at the time. I rather give my full attention so I often wait to reply.

More often than not I simply forget to reply to them. People do have lives at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, you might not be committed to a relationship together, but basic manners still apply xx

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I have regular friends who can take a few days to reply to a message. It doesn't mean they're playing games with me, just that they're not ready to reply.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I have regular friends who can take a few days to reply to a message. It doesn't mean they're playing games with me, just that they're not ready to reply. "

I am this friend

I can take days/weeks to get back to friends

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think its rude and entitled to expect someone to be at your beck and call

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Wouldn’t bother me if the relationship was purely sex. I would message, if I don’t hear back in a week or so I might send them a pokey finger. Then I’d leave them to it. FB relationships are quite tricky I think. You have to be very clear on mutual expectations.

V x

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

If you’re checking if messages are read , that’s being a bit more involved than you’re letting yourself believe you are ..

Blows are totally different at the message etiquette.. my mates reply days later sometimes, I couldn’t care less when they read them

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Wouldn't bother me, in fact I seek friendships (not just Fab) where this is OK. Feeling relaxed in someone's gaze, knowing you can be silent and that's ok. These things are important.

Obv if someone continuously ghosts and rises when suits, that's different. You have to feel there's mutual interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, we are more fwb from reading your comments, it’s good having different opinions. I am a bit of a diva, not needy, but have expectations. 5 days for a reply is crap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, you might not be committed to a relationship together, but basic manners still apply xx"

My thinking too! X

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford


"Thanks guys, we are more fwb from reading your comments, it’s good having different opinions. I am a bit of a diva, not needy, but have expectations. 5 days for a reply is crap"

Have you expressed those expectations to the other person? It may be a suitable time to have a conversation with other person what you expect from them.

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By *eparrain1Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Points of view wanted!

Buddy’s should be open and honest with no head games as there’s no need, your just buddy’s, Right?

If you message them and they have seen it but don’t reply for days, would you be pissed?

I don’t think I’m being OTT, it’s down to respect?!"

That will really miffed ne off. Such a lack of consideration would drive me nuts!

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