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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone

Are you kinky? How kinky are you? What do you like? What would you like to explore? Any kinky plans after lockdown?

I am looking forward to some primal play!

Please share!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are pretty kinky. However you cant name all kinks on fab or the thread gets taken down. Which is laughably vanilla really

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think most people on here, would consider themselves kinky. But whats kinky to some is the norm, to others.

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By *moretwoCouple
over a year ago

Feltham


"We are pretty kinky. However you cant name all kinks on fab or the thread gets taken down. Which is laughably vanilla really "

So true

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"We are pretty kinky. However you cant name all kinks on fab or the thread gets taken down. Which is laughably vanilla really

So true "

That is a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got a couple ....more than a couple of kinks

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

Kink yup that’s me all the way. I would get banned if stated what I love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW in south east to sit on my face so I can lick her till she screams with pleasure

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Kink yup that’s me all the way. I would get banned if stated what I love. "

Idid not know you could be banned for discussing kink. It has become so mainstream now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss playing with my massasue and she playing with me and the happy ending comes at the ending ha .I get to do everything except sex .kinky as hell.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Yup, kinkier than a kinky thing but it's all relative. As others have said, what's extreme to one - is fluffy to another.

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By *eardAndTheBratCouple
over a year ago

Calne

We might be

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Totally vanilla here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one person version of kinky is another persons version of vanilla

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Many kinks from mild to fairly extreme, it also depends a lot on who I am with, definitely don’t force links on someone

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We occasionally hold hands on the couch.

Mr KC

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Intriguing to know by pm some of these kinks which are not allowed on fab

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Totally vanilla here "

That is ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are pretty kinky. However you cant name all kinks on fab or the thread gets taken down. Which is laughably vanilla really "

So so true this site is getting so vanilla xx

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Totally vanilla here

That is ok"

But av got a couple of strap ons , big black barry dildo and rope!!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'm 50/50

I like vanilla sex for me but like to indulge others in kinky play.

Got me a naked cleaner lined up, who may get punished if he doesn't do a good job.

Also rather a lot of peeps who want pegging

Looking forward to being worshipped too.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"We occasionally hold hands on the couch.

Mr KC"

Please do not come within 2m, my angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm into some Dom play and light BDSM that I'd like to explore a little further. A creampie fetish. I'm pretty vanilla aside from that xx

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"I'm into some Dom play and light BDSM that I'd like to explore a little further. A creampie fetish. I'm pretty vanilla aside from that xx"

These good starts Jessica.

Message me if you want to discuss explaining!

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Not kinky in the slightest, missionary all the way and only on a sunday after church.

Mr H.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Not kinky in the slightest, missionary all the way and only on a sunday after church.

Mr H."

Love it Mrs H

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"I'm into some Dom play and light BDSM that I'd like to explore a little further. A creampie fetish. I'm pretty vanilla aside from that xx

These good starts Jessica.

Message me if you want to discuss explaining! "

Exploring

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By *hateusernames57Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

We have a few kinks. Think we are a little more kinky than most but less some others. Most of our play is usually based around restraints and sensory deprivation.

After this situation is over we are hoping to find others with similar interests and visit some clubs more.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m got a 6.5 on the kink-o-meter

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By *allPaul40Man
over a year ago

brentwood


"I'm 50/50

I like vanilla sex for me but like to indulge others in kinky play.

Got me a naked cleaner lined up, who may get punished if he doesn't do a good job.

Also rather a lot of peeps who want pegging

Looking forward to being worshipped too."

I’m an electrician, more than happy to be a naked electrician for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am pretty kinky, and getting more so. I love new experiences, so enjoy trying new things.

Obviously I have hard limits, but my Dom and I are very in tune with those, so it works

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"I am pretty kinky, and getting more so. I love new experiences, so enjoy trying new things.

Obviously I have hard limits, but my Dom and I are very in tune with those, so it works "

I know! Lucky man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kink yup that’s me all the way. I would get banned if stated what I love. "

Mmm that sounds very interesting

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By *irtytqCouple
over a year ago

pembroke

No limits kinky couple here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not say that I am kinky at all, but other have said that I am very kinky so it does depend on your perception of what is kinky.

I do enjoy lots of things but nothing to the extreme. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair pulling and being tied up once in awhile.

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By *witchRichMan
over a year ago

Southport


"Kink yup that’s me all the way. I would get banned if stated what I love. "

Me too lol

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

When you find a playmate on the same wavelength your appetite and views can quickly change. What was kinky a couple of years ago seems vanilla now. Problem on fab is narrow-mindedness and kink shaming so a lot of kinky stuff just isn’t discussed.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"When you find a playmate on the same wavelength your appetite and views can quickly change. What was kinky a couple of years ago seems vanilla now. Problem on fab is narrow-mindedness and kink shaming so a lot of kinky stuff just isn’t discussed. "

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford


"When you find a playmate on the same wavelength your appetite and views can quickly change. What was kinky a couple of years ago seems vanilla now. Problem on fab is narrow-mindedness and kink shaming so a lot of kinky stuff just isn’t discussed. "

Yes it’s frustrating that we can not discuss certain kinks and things on this site, and while the bdsm community have the opinion of if you don’t like it don’t look and move on. There are others site where we can express those desires freely.

While yes I would like to be able to express them more here than I can, but I think we need to careful and respectful that we are not shaming them as well for not wanting those things here as well.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"When you find a playmate on the same wavelength your appetite and views can quickly change. What was kinky a couple of years ago seems vanilla now. Problem on fab is narrow-mindedness and kink shaming so a lot of kinky stuff just isn’t discussed.

Yes it’s frustrating that we can not discuss certain kinks and things on this site, and while the bdsm community have the opinion of if you don’t like it don’t look and move on. There are others site where we can express those desires freely.

While yes I would like to be able to express them more here than I can, but I think we need to careful and respectful that we are not shaming them as well for not wanting those things here as well. "

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By *inkytoolMan
over a year ago

barnsley

Kinky by name

Kinky by nature x

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Kinky by name

Kinky by nature x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very kinky here

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Kinky is the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky? Never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two. "

Swingers can't be kinky? Not everyone on here is a swinger you know

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By *extravagantWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"one person version of kinky is another persons version of vanilla"

Totally agree, wouldn’t consider myself a truly kinky person but I ado occasionally dabble in some kinky practices.

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By *irtytqCouple
over a year ago

pembroke

Exactly right kinky people bring out the kink in others as long as it’s consensual, love pushing our boundaries

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Exactly right kinky people bring out the kink in others as long as it’s consensual, love pushing our boundaries "

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Exactly right kinky people bring out the kink in others as long as it’s consensual, love pushing our boundaries "

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I just love variety so a lot of people think I am pretty kinky. Serious kinksters might consider me tame.

If all parties are enjoying themselves I truly can’t care about giving it a label

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By *irtytqCouple
over a year ago

pembroke

Perfect Madmer whatever turns you on makes you kinkier ??

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two. "

What an odd limited projection.

However if you own it.....

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two.

Swingers can't be kinky? Not everyone on here is a swinger you know "

We swing and we're kinky

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two. "

That is up to you. Many will disagree with you. There is nothing complicated.

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By *irtytqCouple
over a year ago

pembroke

Everyone has kinky thoughts, if you find the right person to share them you’re lucky and happy x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

In the right circumstances, and with the right person/people, I can be very kinky. It's all about trust & connection though so I generally don't explore my kinks with fab meets.

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By *irtytqCouple
over a year ago

pembroke

Jsm it’s all about feeling safe and turned on with a kinky partner x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect I'm very much towards the vanilla end of things.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I suspect I'm very much towards the vanilla end of things."

That's absolutely fine! We are kinky, but we don't play kinky all the time, nor would we expect to on meets from here, unless agreed before. Variety is the spice of life

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Jsm it’s all about feeling safe and turned on with a kinky partner x"

Exactly, hence I keep that side reserved for meets with people I know well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy exploring our kinky side.

But one person's kink, is another vanilla

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By *irtytqCouple
over a year ago

pembroke

It’s funny how the kinky people in this forum all understand the mindset. It’s not every time we have a sexual encounter but, we it fits we’re always looking to push boundaries xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two.

Swingers can't be kinky? Not everyone on here is a swinger you know

We swing and we're kinky "

But didn't you know, you're not allowed to be both?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two.

Swingers can't be kinky? Not everyone on here is a swinger you know

We swing and we're kinky

But didn't you know, you're not allowed to be both? "

Oops. We missed that in the small print

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two.

Swingers can't be kinky? Not everyone on here is a swinger you know

We swing and we're kinky

But didn't you know, you're not allowed to be both?

Oops. We missed that in the small print "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two.

What an odd limited projection.

However if you own it....."

.

I swing and injoy kink.but talk kink on a kink site .and swing talk on this site. And that makes me limited

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two. "

Really?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can be extremely kinky or vanilla. Depends on the cpl we would meet!

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

others may consider me kinky, but its all pretty normal to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"others may consider me kinky, but its all pretty normal to me."

Together it’s just how we are, I think the post above sums us up well but we can go Vanilla and enjoy that sometimes too depending on who we are with

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

People seem to be forgetting that in the UK a loT of BDSM play is not just frowned upon, it is illegal. With the new laws coming in around coercive behaviour as well as more guidance on “the extreme sex play” excuse, it makes sense Fab as a UK entity doesn’t want to risk itself. Other sites, base themselves in other Countries that have more relaxed rules about BDSM chat

“Controlling or Coercive Behaviour in an Intimate or Family Relationship

The purpose of this guidance is to address controlling or coercive behaviour in an intimate or family relationship which causes someone to fear that violence will be used against them on at least two occasions; or causes them serious alarm or distress which has a substantial adverse effect on their usual day-to-day activities.”

Lets not kid ourselves that a failed D/s dynamic could not fall foul of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some scenarios I’m hoping to explore with others of a similar mindset, some are pretty soft play but I’m more about intensity and excitement to me that’s kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Fetcpl said

I have a long list of BDSM + kinky activiti to work through.. The first will be to get my bottom used to being nice +warm again

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"What Fetcpl said

I have a long list of BDSM + kinky activiti to work through.. The first will be to get my bottom used to being nice +warm again "

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two. "

So people can't be both? What a ridiculous thing to say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"others may consider me kinky, but its all pretty normal to me.

Together it’s just how we are, I think the post above sums us up well but we can go Vanilla and enjoy that sometimes too depending on who we are with "

Same here.

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"others may consider me kinky, but its all pretty normal to me.

Together it’s just how we are, I think the post above sums us up well but we can go Vanilla and enjoy that sometimes too depending on who we are with

Same here. "

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two.

So people can't be both? What a ridiculous thing to say!"

I think we are a good example of kink over swing, but we accept that fab is more swing focussed so we try not to talk about some kinks as its about knowing your audience.

We have our other profiles for that if needed.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"What Fetcpl said

I have a long list of BDSM + kinky activiti to work through.. The first will be to get my bottom used to being nice +warm again "

Thwack goes my belt

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By *eparrain1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stone


"What Fetcpl said

I have a long list of BDSM + kinky activiti to work through.. The first will be to get my bottom used to being nice +warm again

Thwack goes my belt "

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"This is a swingers site, best not complicate the two.

What an odd limited projection.

However if you own it......

I swing and injoy kink.but talk kink on a kink site .and swing talk on this site. And that makes me limited "

Yup, have agree, knowing the American site.

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"Kink yup that’s me all the way. I would get banned if stated what I love. "

This

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