FabSwingers.com forum: Fab bi?

By *amantha TS OP Woman
over a year ago

Swindon

I think we should start a new sexuality, Fab Bi. You know, I put bi, but I'm not really bi, I just put that to get more interest from couples.....

Or how about we all just grow up and put what we actually are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we should start a new sexuality, Fab Bi. You know, I put bi, but I'm not really bi, I just put that to get more interest from couples.....

Or how about we all just grow up and put what we actually are?

Or how about we stop obsessing over how someone views their own sexuality?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know

Never gonna happen unfortunately. Desperate people use desperate measures. Just ignore and move on.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I thought it was the other way round. Guys putting straight on their profile but suck cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought it was the other way round. Guys putting straight on their profile but suck cock"

Goes to show that there's many shades of sexuality that even 'bi curious' does not cover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put bi curious on my profile as a fantasy of mine is to try a bi mmf. The thought of everyone touching each other is a big turn on for me

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

There's a new rule starting. We put info about ourselves in our profile and people have to read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a very deceiving tactic.

I did ask someone yesterday on a thread why he did it. I never got a response.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know

I say I’m bi-playful. I’m straight but in the right situation with the right couple I wouldn’t rule out a bit of fun with the other lady.

My husband is straight as he wouldn’t entertain the idea of touching or being touched my another man.

It’s all explained in our profile but it’s evident that many don’t bother to read that.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it is a generalisation but men will put whatever they feel like to try and improve their chances of a meet.

You'll see references to Fab Straight, chaps who say they are straight on their profiles to improve their chances of meeting people who won't meet bi people, but aren't adverse to tripping over a pillow in bed and inadvertently landing on a cock.

There are a lot of people economical with the truth and are comfortable declaring "their truth" as they see fit.

It gets even more complicated when you add straight guys who meet tv/ts. Some men want to meet post op TS as they are women. Some men want to meet TS because they want to and don't see it as bi.

There are insufficient tick boxes to cover every eventuality so the straight male who is only top to a TV but otherwise is straight in every other manner would have to write that in the profile.

Few do.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I think we should start a new sexuality, Fab Bi. You know, I put bi, but I'm not really bi, I just put that to get more interest from couples.....

Or how about we all just grow up and put what we actually are?

Or how about we stop obsessing over how someone views their own sexuality?"

This

Too many Men think being totally straight is a bonus to meeting women or couples on the site. That they get some cache by ‘calling out’ others who express a desire to experiment with their sexuality.

Concentrate on doing your own thing and stop worrying about others doing theirs.

The women and couples who will only meet ‘totally straight guys’ are taking pot luck anyway. I get loads of messages off guys who label themselves as straight on this site. So I have no doubt they’re messaging those women or couples and as well. Invite someone into your bed, who knows what other bed they’ve just got out of

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

If two guys splodge on each others cocks but don't touch, are they gays?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't put bi if you're not bi. Sooner or later you'll have to suck something you're reluctant to suck.

There ought to be a cutoff date for how long you can call yourself bicurious: I think straight men often put bicurious simply to attract bi couples.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"You shouldn't put bi if you're not bi. Sooner or later you'll have to suck something you're reluctant to suck.

There ought to be a cutoff date for how long you can call yourself bicurious: I think straight men often put bicurious simply to attract bi couples. "

But what IS bi? Especially for a woman. What's the lowest criteria that would be agreed to qualify?

If I, as an UTTER STUD, say I like to kiss other men and rub their chests, then no one is saying I'm straight.

If my wife is listed as bi-curious but ONLY kisses other women and squeeze some boobs, then I've a feeling she'd often be called out for actually being straight... right?

Not looking for the "men vs women" double standards argument, but surely qualifications for "bi" are very movable and subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is bi binary? Or is it a spectrum?

My wife is bi playful. Or bi selfish. Her attraction to women is proportional to how badly she wants to cum. If she's on edge and eating pussy is how she will get to cum then eat that pussy she will!

Personally I think it doesn't matter. There are certainly men who hide their bisexuality on here. It shouldn't make a difference but it does to a lot of people.

It would be nice to live in a world where we have no prejudices but scolding people on a forum won't help

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"I think we should start a new sexuality, Fab Bi. You know, I put bi, but I'm not really bi, I just put that to get more interest from couples.....

Or how about we all just grow up and put what we actually are?

I think we should remove the sexual orientation from profiles completely. But the human race are pigeons!!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I think we should start a new sexuality, Fab Bi. You know, I put bi, but I'm not really bi, I just put that to get more interest from couples.....

Or how about we all just grow up and put what we actually are?

I think we should remove the sexual orientation from profiles completely. But the human race are pigeons!!

Pigeons? Only have 1.4 feet on average?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we should start a new sexuality, Fab Bi. You know, I put bi, but I'm not really bi, I just put that to get more interest from couples.....

Or how about we all just grow up and put what we actually are?

Or how about we stop obsessing over how someone views their own sexuality?"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spaghetti lesbianism is the best... Straight until wet...

Who knows what you will be doing in different situations, and you can do what you want so long as you respect yourself and your partners boundaries...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple once and neither woman was bi but they made out anyway and a great time was had by all.

After a while the guy asked me if he could suck my cock too. 3 is better than 2 he said. I politely declined and we all went back to doing what we had been doing. Did my balls touch his and at one stage .. maybe?? Idk. I was busy.

The point was that he didn't gay me. He didn't jump me. He didn't wank in my face or whatever else worries people. It was fine.

We had a blast.

I didn't know he was bi before hand and it made no difference after

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