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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are

‘Will you be my friend?’

Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?

You’re views?

Is it just us that finds it odd?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Wouldn’t it be more like “I want to see your naughty photos, will you be my friend”? And that would definitely be weird!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn’t it be more like “I want to see your naughty photos, will you be my friend”? And that would definitely be weird!"

Wouldn't it just be a dick pic and the words "fuck now"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i be your friend so i can see what your friends look like and see if i like them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wouldn’t it be more like “I want to see your naughty photos, will you be my friend”? And that would definitely be weird!"

Yes, that’s often the purpose

The buggers don’t even wear the statutory raincoat when they are clicking their old mouse either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wouldn’t it be more like “I want to see your naughty photos, will you be my friend”? And that would definitely be weird!

Wouldn't it just be a dick pic and the words "fuck now"? "

Pretty much

Well written profile by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are

‘Will you be my friend?’

Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?

Its more.....

Sits down, looks at the pics on your phone and never says a word

You’re views?

Is it just us that finds it odd?

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

Yes I find it odd , but then I guess I should feel honoured that they want some wanking material

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I find it odd , but then I guess I should feel honoured that they want some wanking material "

There is that

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

What is this pub of which you speak?

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

It's only wierd if he throws his cock out under your nose on the table and pulls out a sky remote from his jacket pocket for comparison.

Otherwise no... I see no problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse, he could show you his knob then ask if you could be friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is this pub of which you speak? "

Perhaps you’ve already been there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be worse, he could show you his knob then ask if you could be friends "

At least that would show a modicum of social sophistication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be worse, he could show you his knob then ask if you could be friends

At least that would show a modicum of social sophistication "

I'll keep that in mind when I'm in that pub next

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford


"Could be worse, he could show you his knob then ask if you could be friends "

Straight to the point , I like nice and direct cuts out the small talks

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

We are probably the only two that couldn't care less about being at the pub not something we've missed whereas swingers clubs we have missed

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham


"Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are

‘Will you be my friend?’

Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?

You’re views?

Is it just us that finds it odd?

"

We don’t add or accept friend requests unless I’ve spoke to them for a bit

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

I’ll buy you a drink if you verify me.

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

Could you imagine . Just sitting in a pub

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Wouldn’t it be more like fabed you before...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

When you order your next drinks, the barstaff asks you if you'll be a friend to a guy in the pub. They don't tell you which guy, just pointing to a dark area of the pub, where you can see black silhouettes. They say they'll take some of your photos over, so he can get to know you better.

You hand your phone over, so your pics are copied and the barstaff let you see a cock pic from the guy.

You have a great evening

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are

‘Will you be my friend?’

Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?

You’re views?

Is it just us that finds it odd?

"

You're not sitting in the pub half naked with your tits nearly out looking for 3somes with a sign saying you like anal, DP and the like

R

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That happens to me quite a bit OP. I'm a charismatic kinda person.

Fab is a weird place. Before I put a picture of me up on our profile no one was interested in even looking at our profile. Now we get a few. If I put my wife's tits up then I will have friend requests coming out my ass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nahhhh if it was the same as fab he would probably have no banter and would 100% try and show us a picture of his sky remote or sure deodorant can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That happens to me quite a bit OP. I'm a charismatic kinda person.

Fab is a weird place. Before I put a picture of me up on our profile no one was interested in even looking at our profile. Now we get a few. If I put my wife's tits up then I will have friend requests coming out my ass. "

This although D did receive a fair few fabs and a lot of messages on his cock pic which we didn't expect

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"We are probably the only two that couldn't care less about being at the pub not something we've missed whereas swingers clubs we have missed "

I haven't exactly missed pubs more the idea of a pub without a tv blaring out a football game and a bunch of morons shouting.(ahh the good old days of conversation with the person in front of you and them actually looking at and listening to you?)

God I'm getting old or do others feel the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That happens to me quite a bit OP. I'm a charismatic kinda person.

Fab is a weird place. Before I put a picture of me up on our profile no one was interested in even looking at our profile. Now we get a few. If I put my wife's tits up then I will have friend requests coming out my ass.

This although D did receive a fair few fabs and a lot of messages on his cock pic which we didn't expect "

More power to him

I remember my wife getting a lot of messages about a jacket she was wearing from ts/tv's. It was random and she took it as a compliment.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Could it be a secret phrase to check you are with the resistance.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

My secret phrase when I walk up to people in a pub is "In a dark room there is bird shit on my windscreen" I've never been caught by the Gestapo yet.

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

We've all got a common interest on here so instantly there's a chance that we can be friends.

If the dude in the pub slides over some naked pics that would be weird.

If the dude in the pub is chatting and laughing with you, asking if we can be friends (on Facebook) or asking for your telephone number is not unusual behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are probably the only two that couldn't care less about being at the pub not something we've missed whereas swingers clubs we have missed "

Us too, we do go once in a while, but it’s no big deal. Quite often not the best of places to have a proper conversation and sometimes there are some very annoying people in them who love draw attention to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've all got a common interest on here so instantly there's a chance that we can be friends.

If the dude in the pub slides over some naked pics that would be weird.

If the dude in the pub is chatting and laughing with you, asking if we can be friends (on Facebook) or asking for your telephone number is not unusual behaviour."

Point totally missed, the dude in the pub has not spoken previously etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are probably the only two that couldn't care less about being at the pub not something we've missed whereas swingers clubs we have missed

I haven't exactly missed pubs more the idea of a pub without a tv blaring out a football game and a bunch of morons shouting.(ahh the good old days of conversation with the person in front of you and them actually looking at and listening to you?)

God I'm getting old or do others feel the same? "

Yes that’s a pretty accurate picture on a lot of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are

‘Will you be my friend?’

Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?

You’re views?

Is it just us that finds it odd?

We don’t add or accept friend requests unless I’ve spoke to them for a bit "

Exactly, the normal way of doing things on or off the web. But perhaps you’re just intelligent and have some sense of how things should work, it seems many can’t seen to manage to get to that level of development.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you order your next drinks, the barstaff asks you if you'll be a friend to a guy in the pub. They don't tell you which guy, just pointing to a dark area of the pub, where you can see black silhouettes. They say they'll take some of your photos over, so he can get to know you better.

You hand your phone over, so your pics are copied and the barstaff let you see a cock pic from the guy.

You have a great evening "

Probably works fine for you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are

‘Will you be my friend?’

Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?

You’re views?

Is it just us that finds it odd?

"

Am I sitting in the pub naked with a short description of what I'm looking for sexually on the table and a little notice that allows people to ask to be my friend or say they like how I look?

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

If that's the analogy, from our experience they don't even say anything on here, just send a friend request.

I guess it would be more like a grunt then grab your phone off you to scroll through pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so confused....what is this word ‘pub’ that you speak of

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think there is a big difference between fab and a pub. In a pub you don't have the option of ignoring and then blocking the person/s who randomly asks to be your friend, it's not just men who send random friend requests we get a lot from couples too. Not many people sit in pubs in various poses with scanty clothing on.

In my personal opinion the reasons for going to a pub and joining fab are quite different so the rules of engagement wi be different too.

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

I guess though you should think of it more as I'm sitting in a swingers club rather than a pub

Andy

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

How do you make friends then?

Also.. This isn't a pub (state the obvious I knw ) so approaches will be different, surely?

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