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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm interested to know from husbands what turns them on most about their wife with another man.

I know it can be both but if you had to pick one what would it be and why, or what in particular is the best thing to see happen?

A) Him getting pleasure from her

or

B) Her getting pleasure from him.

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By *11manMan
over a year ago

london

Her getting pleasure from him I think. Never had the pleasure but it is a fantasy I’d love to see played out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was seeing my wife have fun.

In the context of your question it was both but I didn't give a fuck about him.

I enjoyed seeing her pleasure him because I knew it was giving her pleasure.

And when he was giving her pleasure that made me happy too. Him being happy was irrelevant

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By *he Gentleman.Man
over a year ago

Sitlington

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By *he Gentleman.Man
over a year ago

Sitlington


"I'm interested to know from husbands what turns them on most about their wife with another man.

I know it can be both but if you had to pick onwhat would it be and why, or what in particular is the best thing to see happen?

A) Him getting pleasure from her

or

B) Her getting pleasure from him. "

For me it's B but you forgot C. Me getting pleasure from watching them.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

I enjoy seeing another guy turned on by my wife. The excitement and anticipation as things get naked and start to get naughtier.

Then for me it’s more about her having fun, and me having fun from that.

But if the guys not enjoying it then it doesn’t work anyway.

So B, with some A and the previous posters C as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me it's B but you forgot C. Me getting pleasure from watching them. "

A or B...there's always one who says "but i want C"

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

My thrill comes from seeing her let herself go and cum with someone else. The look on her face, the moans, the pure animal fucking until she orgasms.

It’s the horniest experience I ever have

M

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wondered if there are husbands who see this from the "Angle" that they like to see their wife giving pleasure. Another man deriving pleasure from your wife's body "using" her?

Watching your wife use her "skills" to make another man cum must be pretty mind blowing.

More along the lines of sharing your wife? Is that into Stag/Vixen territory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was married it was the fact that she was rampantly extrovert.

I got pleasure watching her and she was turned on acting out the slut role. Something that she was certainly not. In front of me before I got invited to

Participate. I do miss that part of our relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, it is her getting pleasure from another Cock! Then for me to give her pleasure immediately afterwards.

She loves to watch my face as she places the cock at her entrance and then stares me right in the eye as she slowly inches back on to it.

That does it for both of us to be fair

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Love it if a guy finds my wife attractive ....and the view of play ...and the reactions ....such a turn on....not knowing how it will play out......and the reclaim ....and the naughty talk later ..such a mind fuck..lol..compersion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wondered if there are husbands who see this from the "Angle" that they like to see their wife giving pleasure. Another man deriving pleasure from your wife's body "using" her?

Watching your wife use her "skills" to make another man cum must be pretty mind blowing.

More along the lines of sharing your wife? Is that into Stag/Vixen territory?"

Now you are changing the parameters of the question. That's more a cuckold set of questions

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

I like both but both from her perspective. I like her getting pleasure and I like her wanting to give and giving pleasure and someone else enjoying that. But it's all from the perspective of her really

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa


"My thrill comes from seeing her let herself go and cum with someone else. The look on her face, the moans, the pure animal fucking until she orgasms.

It’s the horniest experience I ever have

M"

Very well said!

I fend sexual confidence in married women so sexy. When they aren’t shy to enjoy themselves completely.

It’s also very hot to watch her get another man off as hard as I know she does

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By *orny247guyMan
over a year ago

clowne

For me it’s her getting a cream pie from someone else for me to clean up

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I’d love to do this, I’ve fantasised about it for years but my Mrs isn’t interested in the slightest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like how she can make the guy hard and make him cum just not as much i like seeing and hear her get pleasure from the guy thats the real turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My thrill comes from seeing her let herself go and cum with someone else. The look on her face, the moans, the pure animal fucking until she orgasms.

It’s the horniest experience I ever have

M"

This along with a variety of other comments seem to encapsulate the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex from every aspect.

With Mrs A, what I don't get to enjoy when we're alone, is the visual aspect, not to the full intent.

If I'm bringing her pleasure, I may not get to see her eyes roll to the back of her head, the little movements she makes expressing excitement.

Seeing her with another man (or woman) offers me the view if angles I won't get to see alone.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

C her ruining him (but in a good way)

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Hubby says he enjoys me being pleasured by another guy x

I'm a lucky lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby says he enjoys me being pleasured by another guy x

I'm a lucky lady x"

Same here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved my wife with other guys,

Together or she alone,

It's not for most guys but we both loved it,xx

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Has to be watching her get pleasure from him

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Def her getting pleasure from him, just can't beat it

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

I love watching lincs enjoy herself. Watching another man getting exciting about my lady is also a thrill.

The reclaim later is amazing!

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

His satisfaction is knowing I am sexually fulfilled. He just enjoys sharing me

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By *pices69Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

All of the above...

No one has mentioned the reclaim sex after.... Wowza.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy seeing my wife giving pleasure to another guy.

Maybe it's because it is going against those marriage vows...

Seeing her kissing and playing with another man is such a turn on knowing that they get to sample what we have together.

Then obviously I get to join in as well.

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