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Regular FWB without getting attached

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long have you had a regular friend with benefits and did you get attached to them more than just sexually

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've had one for 31 years now. We do care for one another deeply but it's never been anything more.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I had a fwb for nearly 2 years. We had a connection but never felt attached. We both knew it was a case of " it is what is it, and it anit what it anit". Only ended when he moved even further away but all on good terms, with good memories.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

3 years. We're very close friends.

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By *uiet LightMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Out of curiosity, can people mention how they met their FWB?

I've often heard people mentioning having a FWB but, as someone suffering with loneliness/isolation during the lockdown, I'd be intrigued to hear about people's FWB situation came about?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Out of curiosity, can people mention how they met their FWB?

I've often heard people mentioning having a FWB but, as someone suffering with loneliness/isolation during the lockdown, I'd be intrigued to hear about people's FWB situation came about?"

Mine was a friend of a friend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months. Met on here.

I am good at generally keeping sex and emotions separate so it has never really been an issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My friends with benefits are not swingers but women I have met on nights out

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Out of curiosity, can people mention how they met their FWB?

I've often heard people mentioning having a FWB but, as someone suffering with loneliness/isolation during the lockdown, I'd be intrigued to hear about people's FWB situation came about?"

First person I met on Fab

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I have had two FWBs previoulsy who I met on another site.

The first was for roughly 9 months. He got very clingy and needy so I had to end things.

The second was for about the same time. We were very close and the sex was out of this World. We both took things too far and he broke it off the only way possible. It hurt at the time.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I don't have a problem with a FWB getting a bit more attached than planned for........as long as she's ok with me meeting couples by myself from time to time.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

3yrs ..... and no we’ve not got emotionally involved ... he’s married anyway so that makes it easier to stay detached

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By *oItForYorkshireCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Ugh this is me (Miss) I think it’s karma for wading in there all guns blazing like ‘pfft. No man can touch me’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only done longterm for years (non fab) fwb so much more about the friends/family etc so are part of life ... the longest ones were 14yrs and 8.5yrs with no problems!

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

8 years and 3 years respectively.

It is possible to care about someone without stepping over a line. I always stood one side of that line. I was an enhancement to their sex life, nothing more.

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

4 years for me. We are both married and we also played together as couples occasionally. We worked together so lots of quick lunchtime sex, and car fun. Only stopped when they left the island. Still chat and have zoom wanks together now.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve been seeing one of my friends for about 6 years now, and others for over two years. We’re all good mates, who chat between meets, and I don’t know where I would be without them. Feelings for anything ‘more’ doesn’t come in to our friendship, neither does jealousy if we play with others. Life is good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years but ended when she fell for someone and wanted a more involved relationship

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

About 30 years.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

We are on two years and have a friendship love, part of the boundaries we set were not to intrude to far into each others playtime, so the commitment line does not get blurred

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By *cottyl1983Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

2 months but she started to want to do couple activities together when I only wanted the fun part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months.

Kinky fun.

Just ended.

Still friends.

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By *arpocratesWoman
over a year ago

Camden

My last one lasted for a little under 4 years. We met on Tinder. He’s an airline pilot and visited London at least once a week. We spent lots of time socialising as well as playing, but never once thought of each other than more than just very good friends who just happened to fuck as well. I haven’t seen him since last February due to covid restrictions, which is why I’m back on here.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ugh this is me (Miss) I think it’s karma for wading in there all guns blazing like ‘pfft. No man can touch me’. "

Karma hasn't got me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity, can people mention how they met their FWB?

I've often heard people mentioning having a FWB but, as someone suffering with loneliness/isolation during the lockdown, I'd be intrigued to hear about people's FWB situation came about?"

They come about in the most random and sometimes unexpected ways. Fab and the swinging world, but also life in general; work colleagues, everyday friends, neighbours etc

Experienced a big variety over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a case of always being with them totally when together ... and not thinking about them at all when not together! Why I love (non fab) fwb!

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