FabSwingers.com forum: oldest you go for

By *arkstallion123 OP Man
over a year ago

romford

A lot of guys do love older women. I guess it’s all about what you feel most comfortable with!

oldest I’ve “had” was 53, a very sexy lady that looked not a day older then 30. A question for men and women how old would you go for?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Interested to see how many say 99. See this on so many profiles, I know it reflects their standpoint that age is irrelevant but is it, really?

Ours is 40. Ignore the 60 and the couples interest thingy, had to tick say/tick that for perving on the vids sake. Fab admin really should sort that.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Have a look at all the other threads on this subject.

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By *arkstallion123 OP Man
over a year ago

romford

thats a fair point. looking good guys

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

Tricky question because some people don’t look there age, 60 tops for me! Although I have a fantasy to have fun with a guy older

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By *arkstallion123 OP Man
over a year ago

romford

i agree some dont, yet some gorgeus people out there that look good when older

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Most ladies don't look their age but I go for personality think my stop point would be mid 50 because of the above

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By *op cornCouple
over a year ago

You won't know it

Not really bothered by age, its more about whether someone looks after themselves and if we meet them in a club or a party they smell nice ha ha x

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By *arkstallion123 OP Man
over a year ago

romford

i agree age is no factor and yet i too appreciate when someone looks after themself.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I don't have an age filter set because I feel you could very easily overlook or miss out on someone you would actually find perfect for you. I do understand most have an age limit based on what the average bloke looks like at 50 plus bit from what O see on some threads on here there are many over 50 guys who look after themselves and look better than many younger guys. From my perspective I don't even consider age and find more mature women sexier than under 30s I mean c'mon Sharon Stone, Kib Basinger, Helen Mirren, Liz Hurley, Michelle Pfeiffer, Joanna Lumley, Jane Seymour, who wouldn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my search set to 18-99 but would go for a lot older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 56 so ideally a lady between 55-65 think this on my age filter

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By *eg varneyMan
over a year ago

carlisle

I would say some older gents take their time to make love to a woman rather than the young stud wham bang thank you mam.

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

"I would say some older gents take their time to make love to a woman rather than the young stud wham bang thank you mam."

Agree! I have sooo found this

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By *arkstallion123 OP Man
over a year ago

romford

"I would say some older gents take their time to make love to a woman rather than the young stud wham bang thank you mam.

Agree! I have sooo found this

i value that with a women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say some older gents take their time to make love to a woman rather than the young stud wham bang thank you mam.

Agree! I have sooo found this

Hey, it takes me longer to get up the stairs with my hip...

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By *ood Time RMan
over a year ago

London / Hertfordshire

My oldest was a lady in her 50s, she looked very good and sexy

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

"I would say some older gents take their time to make love to a woman rather than the young stud wham bang thank you mam.

Agree! I have sooo found this

i value that with a women"

You look like you wouldn’t rush

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

"I would say some older gents take their time to make love to a woman rather than the young stud wham bang thank you mam.

Agree! I have sooo found this

Hey, it takes me longer to get up the stairs with my hip...

Love this comment!!!!

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

The oldest I'd go for is the oldest person I find attractive at the time.....

I was introduced to swinging by an amazingly hot, sensual, sexy cuckold couple in their mid to late 60's when I was 20. So that's possibly skewed my judgement in favour of older women ever since.

but I've been with a few realy sexy older women and couples since, as well as my own age and a lot younger too, and generally found that mental and sexual compatibility are far more important than pure physical appearance and or age...

Yes, at this stage of my life I doubt If find much compatibility with a 99yr old, but I want to show that I don't have a specific criteria for age.

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Age is just number,old cliche but very true. Just enjoy the person who’s in front of you

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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago

West London

As they say Age is just a number .. in saying so the oldest we have been was with a couple and he was about 70.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In person no filters and very much about the individual/s ... online my filters are 40 - 53 and happy with that and much much less hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about attraction not age.

I mean Jane Seymour is 70, would anyone honestly kick her out of bed cos she was too old??

No point setting rules as there will always be exceptions so go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helen mirren is 75 and yep I'd be like a puppy dog if I got the invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes who cares about age... But the oldest i seem to be attracted to are late 50s

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For hook ups as long as someone is genuine then age is irrelevent but i have age filteres for my real life search for a girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have my search set to 18-99 but would go for a lot older."
not many people on the site over 99 ?

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Our age limits aren't set in stone and if there's an attraction/connection then that is more important than a number.

K (fem)

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By *arkstallion123 OP Man
over a year ago

romford

"Our age limits aren't set in stone and if there's an attraction/connection then that is more important than a number.

K (fem) "

i agree it sure matters to feel connected

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Youngest around 37

Oldest 57

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"A lot of guys do love older women. I guess it’s all about what you feel most comfortable with!

oldest I’ve “had” was 53, a very sexy lady that looked not a day older then 30. A question for men and women how old would you go for?"
Do you think the attraction would have been there had she looked 53 rather than 30?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

59 Yr old, body of a woman in her twenties

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By *arkstallion123 OP Man
over a year ago

romford

"A lot of guys do love older women. I guess it’s all about what you feel most comfortable with!

oldest I’ve “had” was 53, a very sexy lady that looked not a day older then 30. A question for men and women how old would you go for?Do you think the attraction would have been there had she looked 53 rather than 30?"

both i think she generally looked great like yourself

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By *issChief 200Woman
over a year ago

South West

What's not to like about a cougar?!

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By *arkstallion123 OP Man
over a year ago

romford

"What's not to like about a cougar?!

i agree someone as hot as you id sure show my appreciation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 53 been told that I look much younger but generally now I go for younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I'm 50. I guess I would go with a 60 odd year old . I would have thought that was dead old when I was in my 20s. However as I've got older that doesn't seem so bad . I chatted with a couple in Quest it was there first ever swingers club. I was their first single guy. She is very attractive and we are still good friends. Turns out she's 63. I would have taken her nearer my age . She still looks amazing

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"A lot of guys do love older women. I guess it’s all about what you feel most comfortable with!

both i think she generally looked great like yourself"
Thank you always been told I didn't look my age but now I'm older think it's catching up lol

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By *avesalldaysMan
over a year ago

Reading

Oldest woman I've been so far was 53. I do love sexy mature ladies and wouldn't have a problem to meet someone even older than 53 as long as there's attraction.

So any lovely cougars... Feel free to get in touch x

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By *arkstallion123 OP Man
over a year ago

romford

"Oldest woman I've been so far was 53. I do love sexy mature ladies and wouldn't have a problem to meet someone even older than 53 as long as there's attraction.

So any lovely cougars... Feel free to get in touch x"

i agree some very sexy older ladys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Helen Mirren is in her 70s i think,as is Debbie Harry .Definitely wouldn't turn them down,so maybe its a question of how they appear and not how old they actually are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say that "many a new tune is played on an old fiddle"

I find a lot of young girls fantasy is to experience a mature guy.

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By *aseyjones7Man
over a year ago

leicestershire

"Oldest woman I've been so far was 53. I do love sexy mature ladies and wouldn't have a problem to meet someone even older than 53 as long as there's attraction.

So any lovely cougars... Feel free to get in touch x

i agree some very sexy older ladys "

They really understand who they are and what they like and arent shy about asking for it.

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By *ightfireCouple
over a year ago

Here and There

Licked a 70 year old in a club while my husband watched. Sweeeeet!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think that there are some very attractive men of up to around 75. I'm not terribly keen on being appreciated just because of my age though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t beat a naughty milf / cougar...49 I reckon Mr S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my mrs is 55

quite a few pics of her on my profile and more in friends and private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was 28 and she was 83

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

I like to think people are judged on personality and compatibility rather than a hard line on age. I am no spring chicken but what I might lack in youthfulness I more than make up for in enthusiasm. I have been fortunate enough to meet friends over a very wide age spectrum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 53 been told that I look much younger but generally now I go for younger

That’ll be all that bracing Welsh wind that’s kept you looking young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 53 been told that I look much younger but generally now I go for younger

That’ll be all that bracing Welsh wind that’s kept you looking young

Yeah..I'm far too near the Welsh border

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of guys do love older women. I guess it’s all about what you feel most comfortable with!

oldest I’ve “had” was 53, a very sexy lady that looked not a day older then 30. A question for men and women how old would you go for?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 53 been told that I look much younger but generally now I go for younger

That’ll be all that bracing Welsh wind that’s kept you looking young

Yeah..I'm far too near the Welsh border

Not near enough is what you really mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 53 been told that I look much younger but generally now I go for younger

That’ll be all that bracing Welsh wind that’s kept you looking young

Yeah..I'm far too near the Welsh border

Not near enough is what you really mean

I know what I mean!!!...bloody Welsh..always singing

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By *idewillyMan
over a year ago

southampton

Totally agree with popcorns comments...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 53 been told that I look much younger but generally now I go for younger

That’ll be all that bracing Welsh wind that’s kept you looking young

Yeah..I'm far too near the Welsh border

Not near enough is what you really mean

I know what I mean!!!...bloody Welsh..always singing

haha...na na na na naaaaaaa *pokes tongue out*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't really a cut off age for us... If the are attractive to us, age doesn't come into it.. Dame Helen mirren... I mean, just wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first couple meet, they were a bit older than what they said. Hubby and I had a chat and agreed to go ahead with the meet and we really enjoyed it. I was mid 20s and they must have been in there 60's xxxx

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

I love older women, and I'm 61 myself. Julie on the other hand likes young lads, and they definitely like her lol. I think men generally are attracted to older, I always have been

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

The youngest mrs played with is 59, the oldest 73.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I don't go above 40 these days x

Mrs N

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

21 was my youngest. X

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"21 was my youngest. X"

Lucky guy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 40.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrsinlove much prefers a man in his fifties or sixties who takes his time and makes her feel sexy and special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say it depends on the person but generally I’d say 21 minimum and 55 maximum for me

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

When I was younger, I’d of said age really matters.. I had a limit and stuck to it ..

But with age comes wisdom..

And I realise it’s the person that matters and age is totally irrelevant

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By *issysbee69Woman
over a year ago

Brandenburg

Oldest Male 55,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never really look at age and anyway the number of older women are becoming fewer by the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oldest Male 55, "

Thank you, you have given us some hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is, I've got the obligatory 18 - 99 on mine because all ages have definite benefits

Saying that though, the oldest woman I've made love to was 61 and she was absolutely gorgeous!

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By *ohnnyGentMan
over a year ago

london

Biggest age gap for me was when I was 21 and she was 42. I’ve always been more drawn to women who are older than me. With that said I’d say my limit would be 65ish. But it always depends on the person.

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX

Oldest I have been with is 56 was about 2 years ago and probably the best sex I have had

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

My profile age parameters are set at 40 - 80, In reality my choices would be ladies in their 60s some of whom I have had the pleasure of being sexually involved with much to my enjoyment.

B T W I am now in my early 80s but health issues will I think enforce my retirement from the scene in the not too distant future.

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By *harlie38Man
over a year ago

walsall

As long as there is a mutual attraction and similar taste in what you both want then age shouldn't be an issue.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

If she looks reasonable 72

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm set at 65 but tbh, it's all about the mind for me. Age is irrelevant if the mind is fun

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"As long as there is a mutual attraction and similar taste in what you both want then age shouldn't be an issue. "

Depends if there's an attraction....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested to see how many say 99. See this on so many profiles, I know it reflects their standpoint that age is irrelevant but is it, really?

Ours is 40. Ignore the 60 and the couples interest thingy, had to tick say/tick that for perving on the vids sake. Fab admin really should sort that."

But IF a 99 year old lady did offer a meet, would they be taken up on the offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had an 82

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But IF a 99 year old lady did offer a meet, would they be taken up on the offer?"

With the amount of desperate sex pests who give us decent guys a bad name i would say they would be flooded with others and someone would take it up for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it really doesn't matter, if the lady is fit, healthy, hot and sexy with a GSH and we are attracted to each other then it's all good X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested to see how many say 99. See this on so many profiles, I know it reflects their standpoint that age is irrelevant but is it, really?

Ours is 40. Ignore the 60 and the couples interest thingy, had to tick say/tick that for perving on the vids sake. Fab admin really should sort that.

But IF a 99 year old lady did offer a meet, would they be taken up on the offer?"

I often wonder this...

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think the attraction would have been there had she looked 53 rather than 30?"

Of course why not. If they are genuine and a nice person age and looks dont come close.

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

While I do have a preference on an age limit, it is something that I am not particularly bothered about. I am more interested in the person so if they interested me it wouldn’t bother me.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"A lot of guys do love older women. I guess it’s all about what you feel most comfortable with!

oldest I’ve “had” was 53, a very sexy lady that looked not a day older then 30. A question for men and women how old would you go for?"

My oldest meet was only 2 weeks older than me!

Although when I was 21 I did sleep with a mates mum (42) so does that count? Lol

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

1000 years (one thousand).

I`m of vampire so old age isn`t a problem for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they have their own hair and teeth !!

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe 50s, but generally up to 45 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to 60

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