FabSwingers.com forum: Neighbour

By *verageman81 OP Man
over a year ago

lerwick

Just found out the couple who live next door are on here. Haven't done anything about it other as a wink but they claim to be bi and that turns me on something crazy. Always fantasised about her she is middle 50s and very hot. He is quite a good looking guy probably around 60. Should I write them a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to lose its a free country and if they are on here then you have every right. I would be polite and mention you would keep discretion and things to yourself as being so close they will need to know they can trust you and that you wont blab to folk. Good luck

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why is it always guys that post these questions?!

Do what you like but be prepared for them to say no thank you. Some don't like to meet people close to home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't want to know my neighbours were on here nor would I want to be contacted by them ... don't get me wrong, we all get on brilliantly but private life is just that!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It depends how public they are about it. As you can see we are quite open about our lifestyle so if a friend or neighbour asked we would be happy to talk about it. We wouldn't necessarily want to play with all our neighbours but we would happily chat about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say , don’t message !

Instead be friendly with them and invite them for drinks.

It’s much easier to read their mood and slowly you can take it to the next level from there.

Hope that works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads always come with a 'discretion is key' vibe.

The way I see it is you may be compatible, you may not. They may want to play with someone they know, they may not.

However, you will never know unless someone makes a move. I would say, if you want to go for it then go for it, but in the interests of clarity then be completely upfront about who you are. No one likes the 'I know you, but won't tell you who I am messages'

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Wish people would grow up if you're interested say hi though fab see if they like your self and if they do not like you For Whatever reason stay away.

But grow some balls and live with your decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't want to know my neighbours were on here nor would I want to be contacted by them ... don't get me wrong, we all get on brilliantly but private life is just that! "

But they are on a sex site so OP has every right to contact them. If they say no then fair enough but unless they have filteres they are fair game to approach on here. I personelly wont play that close myself but i would be polite in my reasons if approached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't want to know my neighbours were on here nor would I want to be contacted by them ... don't get me wrong, we all get on brilliantly but private life is just that! "

I'd agree with this to be honest

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Just found out the couple who live next door are on here. Haven't done anything about it other as a wink but they claim to be bi and that turns me on something crazy. Always fantasised about her she is middle 50s and very hot. He is quite a good looking guy probably around 60. Should I write them a message? "
. I would message them saying Hi and mention that you find them attractive and that you think you have seen them in the area and send them a face picture with the message so they know who you are.You say that on their profile they say they are bi and that turns you on crazy but your profile says straight which maybe a reason for them not to be interested in you.

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By *aralewisCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Well if they got face showing then feel free to msg

But if they discreet and you guessed its them just be polite and invite them for a few drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a hot wife couple on here from a few doors down from where I used to live,they knew I was on here, would occasionally bump into them when walking past their house, we'd exchange a few pleasantries but never mentioned fab or swinging. Now I've moved they've decided to block me. I presume they didn't want to do it when they might see me & cause embarrassment,now I'm ten miles away they think I won't see them,I have however seen them in Tesco's more than once,so if I'm tempted to tell them what I think about being blocked could still be a bit awkward.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I second this. Instant block. Way too close for comfort!

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Why is it always guys that post these questions?!

Because women can see how it’s going to play out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez of course send them a msg lol ...

Think of how handy it would be... Your next door neighbours... Hopefully you'll get a positive reply

Best Of Luck OP

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By *verageman81 OP Man
over a year ago

lerwick

Thanks for the replies think ill just leave it. That seems to be the most positive comments. Don't want to ruin my friendship with them

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By *amesleonard12345Man
over a year ago

heathrow/feltham/sunbury

Yes I think it be best not to say anything

And just be a good neighbour

My road are all on a WhatsApp group and all get on well there 2 our 3 neighbours I would love to be on here but it’s to close to home lol still be nice to see there photos lol

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