FabSwingers.com forum: Couples: how did you start your swinging lifestyle.

By *awksBoy OP Man
over a year ago

Colchester

I’m interested in how people started swinging. I can understand singles - you only have to consider yourself and make that decision. But for couples, how and when did you have ‘that’ conversation which started your swinging lifestyle. Was it the male partner who described his fantasy of watching his partner, or the lady for example? Was it while having dinner, or whilst watching a porn film? Did you agree in going to a club first, or inviting people around to yours or a hotel.

Naturally, I don’t expect too many details, but it would be interesting to find out how and why.

By *hesexpistolsCouple
over a year ago

Kent

For us it was a buildup. Our sex life has always been very intense (we met each other after unhappy marriages and discovered what sex is meant to feel like!), eventually decided we needed an outlet... started up swapping dirty pics and videos on Craigslist (feels so teenager like now!), then moved to voyeurism, clubs, soft swing and eventually full swing, but the whole thing unfolded over a few years... x

By *andy 1Couple
over a year ago

northeast

we r nudists and years ago went for a walk in the sand dunes striped of and the rest is history

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Husband caught me having a bit of a d*unken snog in the kitchen with another woman (3 days into our relationship) so obviously realized I was bi at that point

We joined fab with a view of bi fem fun & own partner fun (soft swap) and it kinda went from there after many trips to clubs and meets on here. Now we are full blow full swap sex maniacs

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few conversations over a year or so then 1 night a male colleague of my wifes sent her a dirty message we decide she should play along and she liked it so slowly went from there.