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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

I read somewhere that for a lot of females male penis penetration simply does not do it for them. Only engage really cos it seems right and to please there guy?

If this is so ... what are we guys doing wrong ? And what gets you off with guy other than penetration?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to the individual and find out what they like, everyone is different.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It isnt a case of doing anything wrong, it is just a fact, some can climax through penetration some cant, some can't climax on their back some can, each woman is different

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"

I read somewhere that for a lot of females male penis penetration simply does not do it for them. Only engage really cos it seems right and to please there guy?

If this is so ... what are we guys doing wrong ? And what gets you off with guy other than penetration?"

These type of women like it up the bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Posts directions to the clitoral area*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman is different... and never believe all you read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speak to the individual and find out what they like, everyone is different."

this!

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Perhaps less reading op!

I read all sorts and most of it collapses under scrutiny

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"Every woman is different... and never believe all you read "
Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Posts directions to the clitoral area*"

Do you have a map?

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Hhhmm?

Thanks for the swift replies was,nt sure how this query would be received to be honest.

Then ....I in agreement that talking to the lady is key. However when and if you should raise subject could be the issue.

I) if to early female may? perceive guy as a bit odd.

II) Could female be offended as to suggestion from guy that he senses she is not enjoying it or worse faking it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read somewhere a lot of females love penetration and it's not just about the orgasm....

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

For me foreplay is the bestest fun , penetration is the icing on the cake , the intimate part

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Personally you can have a lot more fun at times with kissing, oral, fingers and toys. Learn to be more tactile, a light stroke down the body can be exhilarating. This is why some people enjoy being blindfolded, restrained, etc. It heightens your senses and every touch is unexpected.

Penetrative sex can be amazing but it can also be over in a few minutes. You can spend hours bringing your partner to climax if you learn a few techniques.

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"Personally you can have a lot more fun at times with kissing, oral, fingers and toys. Learn to be more tactile, a light stroke down the body can be exhilarating. This is why some people enjoy being blindfolded, restrained, etc. It heightens your senses and every touch is unexpected.

Penetrative sex can be amazing but it can also be over in a few minutes. You can spend hours bringing your partner to climax if you learn a few techniques. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What? I love penetration, much more satisfying xx

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hhhmm?

Thanks for the swift replies was,nt sure how this query would be received to be honest.

Then ....I in agreement that talking to the lady is key. However when and if you should raise subject could be the issue.

I) if to early female may? perceive guy as a bit odd.

II) Could female be offended as to suggestion from guy that he senses she is not enjoying it or worse faking it..

"

I think you're over analysing.

No-one can absolutely answer your questions other than the partner you're engaged with.

The answers may come from direct conversation, intuition and experience of the individual.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I love penetration if it's not someone banging away, with their tongue hanging out, trying to make themselves-or me- come.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hhhmm?

Thanks for the swift replies was,nt sure how this query would be received to be honest.

Then ....I in agreement that talking to the lady is key. However when and if you should raise subject could be the issue.

I) if to early female may? perceive guy as a bit odd.

II) Could female be offended as to suggestion from guy that he senses she is not enjoying it or worse faking it..

"

If you're planning a meet with someone initiate a conversation (if they don't) along the lines of "how do you like things to go? I like x, y and z. How do you feel about that?"

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By *owhambamMan
over a year ago

clacton

Penetration can be very satisfying, but there is so much more to having a memorable experience than just pushing ahead (pardon the pun). Even at the point of penetration you can tease your partners senses no need to rush that’s for sure.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I rarely reach orgasm through penetration, but I still enjoy it!

I tend to get there through oral and fingers etc but the penetration still feels amazing.

Every woman is different, talk to her even if it feels awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely reach orgasm through penetration, but I still enjoy it!

"

This goes for guys as well, rarely makes me orgasm but feels amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As it is for guys as well as women that what one person enjoys, the next person might not enjoy. But just because a woman may not orgasm from penetration doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy it, I’ve been with someone who can’t orgasm from penetration but loved the feeling and got really turned on by it, but just needed clit stimulation without penetration to orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read somewhere a lot of females love penetration and it's not just about the orgasm.... "

This is most definitely the case for me. I just love to be fucked. The orgasm is a separate thing for me entirely. I can cum from penetration alone, however it's very rare and I've only managed it when indulging in a little self lovin But the penetration is still my favourite part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read somewhere a lot of females love penetration and it's not just about the orgasm....

This is most definitely the case for me. I just love to be fucked. The orgasm is a separate thing for me entirely. I can cum from penetration alone, however it's very rare and I've only managed it when indulging in a little self lovin But the penetration is still my favourite part "

That's definitely the case for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe everything you read, OP!

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By *yphodMan
over a year ago

London


"For me foreplay is the bestest fun , penetration is the icing on the cake , the intimate part "

For me the foreplay is the intimate part penetration is the more animalistic part.

Even with penetration different women like different things. Some like to be banged hard some like is slow and soft.

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By *superfuse663Man
over a year ago

manchester


"*Posts directions to the clitoral area*"

Could get Tony christie and Peter Kay on an Amarillo spoof..."I'm on my way to clitoral area. Pretty soon you'll be biting your pillow"

Or maybe not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Posts directions to the clitoral area*

Could get Tony christie and Peter Kay on an Amarillo spoof..."I'm on my way to clitoral area. Pretty soon you'll be biting your pillow"

Or maybe not"

Dreaming dreams of blowing your load, sweet orgasm waits for me. Sha la la la la la la

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By *superfuse663Man
over a year ago

manchester


"*Posts directions to the clitoral area*

Could get Tony christie and Peter Kay on an Amarillo spoof..."I'm on my way to clitoral area. Pretty soon you'll be biting your pillow"

Or maybe not

Dreaming dreams of blowing your load, sweet orgasm waits for me. Sha la la la la la la "

Christmas number one right there, imagine it would be hard to radio edit though

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Personally you can have a lot more fun at times with kissing, oral, fingers and toys. Learn to be more tactile, a light stroke down the body can be exhilarating. This is why some people enjoy being blindfolded, restrained, etc. It heightens your senses and every touch is unexpected.

Penetrative sex can be amazing but it can also be over in a few minutes. You can spend hours bringing your partner to climax if you learn a few techniques. "

One of the main reasons we prefer to soft swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop forcusing on the end game. I prefer foreplay to last a long time. Tease her to the point that is gagging for you to penetrate her or she will rip your clothes off and ride you. Fucking is the end game. Foreplay winds you both up to the point you cannot hold back the fucking any longer. Pleasure her well first and most women will give you the ride of your life mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Posts directions to the clitoral area*

Do you have a map?"

I have a highlighter pen

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

It’s always interesting to explore individual experiences that is not always about penetrative sex. Exploring connected intimacy that is non penetrative can not only yield sexual pleasure of unimaginable intensity; but it reminds us to celebrate our partners too.

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

As the others have said everyone is different. But most women would normally like something inside them during play. Which could be fingers, tongue, toy or even a cock.

Not many can cum from just a cock inside them. Although had a few playmates who did & they can make you feel like a fucking sex god! lol

If you're playing with a woman respond to what she's telling you. If she wants your cock to fuck her you'll soon know about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Posts directions to the clitoral area*"

Hmm, I popped into WH Smiths, but they didn't have any maps with that area on it. Are you sure that it's in the UK and if so, do you have a post code as I can try the post office

On a more serious note OP. Each woman is different so it's best to go with the flow and find out what works for that lady. Most will soon tell you if you are pouncing about or not and if you don't know where her clit is then learn, same as her G spot

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I can cum quite easily with clitoral stimulation but for me to cum from penetration it needs a certain frequency of movement.

Basically I need a hard pounding with the cock pulling virtually right out and slamming back in for me to cum but when I do it's like a train.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always give a lady plenty of fore play and attention.

Often make s her cum without penetration, then penetrate if she wishes.

Must please the lady first and foremost

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By *iBloomCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthen

For those ladies who don't come from penetration but say they still love it, I'm curious to know what you get out of it? Mrs. B says it'd feel odd if it wasn't building up to anything.

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