FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys and ideas / toys

By *enuinemidscouple OP Couple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

We have met a few single guys before and whilst the meet itself has been ok, we often find it rather normal.

Not sure if it’s us but do any single guys ever take along toys or sexy clothing that they would like the F to wear or similar ?

We often ask what the guest would like to do and most of the time it’s the normal bog standard replies.

Just seems like it’s the couple who makes the effort. The fem who normally dresses sexily and the guy just turns up and go

Not exactly the fantasy and fun that it could be - or maybe it’s just us

By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

I wouldn’t dream of using others toys but thats just me!

Do you talk about what is expected of them before they arrive? What he is needed for, what he can cant do?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think that could be something that is spoken about before the meet or repeat meets

When I have meet couples previously and that has turned into a regular thing. We brought different toys/clothing/roles play

By *he Jizz PlayerMan
over a year ago

Hatfield

Most of these things can be sorted out beforehand if there is something that either party wants, or doesn't want.

I am easy going but there a couple of things that I would not entertain so it pays to discuss so as not to disappoint.

However, I find that starting such a discussion about what people would like does carry the risk of the recipient thinking this is someone getting off on fantasizing with sex talk and might think I am a time wsaster.