FabSwingers.com forum: Why do couples mainly show pics of the lady?

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

We’re more balanced than most. For us it’s cos Kitty takes more than me! I think we’ve a good balance though.

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people "

So how do you think the lady of a couple looking at such a profile will feel about just seeing pics of the lady? We know men are limited on underwear choice but it’s unfair. On our couples profile we won’t make contact with such a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people "

But you’re not in any of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oddly he’s gone

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Let’s be honest, ladies are generally more attractive then men... even a straight lady would (surely most of the time) agree, and like above said they have more poses positions and lingerie to pose in and men have ‘boxers and the old hold it straight to make it look longer’ to get them by

Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Let’s be honest, ladies are generally more attractive then men... even a straight lady would (surely most of the time) agree, and like above said they have more poses positions and lingerie to pose in and men have ‘boxers and the old hold it straight to make it look longer’ to get them by

Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile

I disagree. As the lady of a couple profile and I run our profile, it’s only fair I see pictures of the male.

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people

But you’re not in any of yours"

There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people

But you’re not in any of yours

There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video "

You the m or f

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I need to see clear pics of the male of the couple, not just their cock in the woman’s mouth.

If I like the look of the male I’ll contact the couple, if it’s mainly female pics then no contact will be made.

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people

But you’re not in any of yours

There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video

You the m or f"

Female but we are both here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people

But you’re not in any of yours

There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video

You the m or f

Female but we are both here "

How have you been on here over a year and had zero verification

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people

But you’re not in any of yours

There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video

You the m or f

Female but we are both here

How have you been on here over a year and had zero verification "

We have had meets arranged but then cancelled due to time wasters and we have been in lockdown the last year so can't arrange anything just now to get verifications

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile

I disagree. As the lady of a couple profile and I run our profile, it’s only fair I see pictures of the male. "

Very true, I was just stating my personal view, thanks for replying

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile

I disagree. As the lady of a couple profile and I run our profile, it’s only fair I see pictures of the male.

Very true, I was just stating my personal view, thanks for replying

No problem but my view is that if there are only mainly pics of the female, that couple are using her to attract the males of other couples so why aren’t they allowing females of other couples to see him? Lack of underwear etc is in my book an excuse for laziness on their part. It’s all about the female only wanting attention.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We are NOT a fake profile but our pics are mostly Rosie as we are looking to fulfil greedy girl fantasies and also Rosie loves the positive feed back her images provoke. If people want to see me ( Paul) then they simply have to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to keep it an even split of male/female photos.

I think more people on here are interested in what the female half looks like (what her body looks like) but as we are a package deal you need to see the entire package. No point being shy on here

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people "

Agree mostly, there's some well thought single male photos that could easily be incorporated to the M of couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason we have mainly pics of me is because Ady is not allowed to play only watch, we do supply face pics of us both though.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

We don't on our public pictures, it's very much 50/50. In our humble opinion that's how it should be. our private pics are more towards L. Reason, L likes to take pictures of herself. Scotsman is shite at taking a good pic!

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we have mostly wife as we looking for signal straight men

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

We always try to ensure a good balance of male & female pics, & look for other profiles that do the same.

So many profiles only have the female in pictures and possibly one or two dick pics/action shots of the male. There needs to be attraction for all involved & I generally need more than a penis portrait to base it on.

K (fem)

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi "

Why worry how others choose to present their profile?

If it doesn't suit you, simply move on to another that does!

We are only looking for straight, single guys so we tailor our profile to what we believe best suits that search.

Am I pig ugly? (nicely put by the way) Niki obviously doesn't think so.

Are we fake? No

Do I get involved? Yes, but I don't care what the other guy looks like because I don't want to kiss, bum or blow him, and presumably he wouldn't care what I look like, because we would both be focused on Niki.

I hope that explains why 99% of our pictures are of Niki.

If you were a single man, everyone would be telling you that if you're posting from a couple's point of view, then best use your couple's profile.

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Hey guys, thought we'd weigh in...when we started our profile it was a choice between having explicit pics with faces blurred and normal face pics in private, or going full on with faces (no nudity) in public and the dirtier stuff hidden for friends etc etc....as we decided have nothing to hide, we went with faces on display so potential contacts can see from the off whether there is an attraction

Of course not everyone is happy with this and that's totally understandable but we chose to have some of us together, some of just Paul and more of just Alyson as she takes a cracking selfie and looks gorgeous!

It is a tad frustrating when a couples profile shows only the lady but a simple question to ask for face pics is all that's needed to make a decision after a few messages have been exchanged....

The lady is generally who 'sells' the profile tho which is why we think a lot of profiles are very female oriented

Paul and Alyson x x

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people "

There are lots of imaginative male picture options other than boxers/dick pics.

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people

But you’re not in any of yours

There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video

You the m or f

Female but we are both here

How have you been on here over a year and had zero verification "

Stupid boy.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi "

Hi Bhubaysi.

For us it's because it's only her that plays, I watch 'her', so whether she plays with a male or female you wouldn't be a present for me as it's not yourself who's my focus. As I'm present I do send a face pic when a meet has been arranged and some have asked for me to join in so I don't think I'm pig ugly, lol, just going by the responses but that's for others to judge. But getting back to the question, ours is purely because it's her who's doing the playing on our set up regardless of who we meet. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi "

Everyone have their reasons but mainly because the female half is centre of attraction. We find it annoying when there’s no pictures of the male half showing on a couples profile as we predominantly seek couples to meet up with . All the best in searching what you’re looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only show pictures of me for privacy and because im the only one that plays. Let's face it, most men don't really care what the man looks like

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi "

We mainly have pictures of me on our profile as that’s how we prefer it

Od doesn’t enjoy taking pics of himself and he likes “showing” me off. He isn’t pig ugly, (far from it) and we definitely aren’t fake. If we talk to someone about meeting we would obviously share a picture of him if they ask. Freya

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi "

No dog in this fight. But I'd imagine simply because it's what they want and it's their profile. It's hard and pointless to guess at what motivates people and how they put their profiles together.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

more options for better pics in terms of variety with females than males

r&s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because females get far more attention than the males. I bet a topless male would get a lot less fabs than a topless female on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi "

Ours is hidden at the mo but has pics of us both. Yours only has your legs and feet and none of your body so a bit double standard i think asking this question.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

I hate when people say these sweeping generalisations.

We have a balance, but also, I have more lingerie and I'm the exhibitionist

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Wow this thread is helping with my filters. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’re more balanced than most. For us it’s cos Kitty takes more than me! I think we’ve a good balance though. "

We’d like to think we’re about the same

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

As above we do try to have a mix but we do love our photoshoots and Kiki's the poser

It's also quite hard to be as inventive as the ladies and not have them become too "samey"

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Hopefully there's sufficient (without face pics) to see both of our physiques and we would always include face pics if we wish to message someone that we find attractive.

We agree with a previous comment on here that's it's a bit hypocritical to call out couples for not having any pictures of the man. Perhaps if the man only posted pictures of his toes, fingernails and lower legs you'd be able to decide if you find him attractive and want to engage with them as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see the male half on couples profiles! Its different for hotwife couples or cuck couples but when the lady wants you as the fem to ‘seduce’ her parter thats hard to do if theres no pics of him to gauge initial attraction. Even with threesomes everyone needs to be attracted.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and agree, so many profiles have no pics of the male, we just avoid those profiles and don't respond to messages /winks from them.

As a straight woman, I need to see the male on a profile, it's up to the couple how they run their profile too and up in past experience we've chatted a while and then when I finally get to see the male, there's been no attraction to him.

I can see why couples who only look to meet men have no pics of the Mister, but think if you're seeking other couples, there should be 1 or 2 of the man.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

When I have photos up they are only of me as its only me who plays.

Did have a single female profile but it was changed so I don't really have a choice on the couples profile thing.

Plenty of reasons why only female pics are displayed, not just because someone is fake.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"When I have photos up they are only of me as its only me who plays.

Did have a single female profile but it was changed so I don't really have a choice on the couples profile thing.

Plenty of reasons why only female pics are displayed, not just because someone is fake.

Exactly, not one size fits all. Don't like a profile, just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our photo's are only of the Wife because it is only her that a Straight Single Male should be interested in. I being the male half only join in with pleasuring the wife!

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Finding a guy that's actually up to the job is hard enough

Getting a pic of him hard is even harder !

We're not cock spotters , but no cock pic , no meet

We've been caught out before !

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I understand the couple profiles that are just looking for men so only have photos of the female but I do want to see both the couple if they are looking for women or another couple.

Some single male profiles have brilliant photos of the man, not all dick pictures either so saying its because the female is more photogenic is a bit of a cop-out, plus you've got a photographer to get great shots of each other or use a tripod & timer to get you both in shot.

If I was in a couple I'd have so much fun, having a fun & sexy photo shoot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have more pics of me because Mark holds the camera! Might have to update but he is a lanky bugger! N xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile

As a straight woman in a couple I'm genuinely perplexed by this answer.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi "

Not this yet again. Just remember that people can use their profile however they want. If it works for them, that's fine. If it doesn't work for you, that's fine too. Just find another profile that does, there are plenty to choose from.

Isn't it a bit strange to look at a profile and think "It's not attracting me, they ought to change it so it does"?

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile

As a straight woman in a couple I'm genuinely perplexed by this answer. "

no! Even as a straight woman, you must fancy me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have more pics of me because Mark holds the camera! Might have to update but he is a lanky bugger! N xx"

Oh is he the only one with hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to have a good balance but inevitably more of M, she is much better to look at

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile

As a straight woman in a couple I'm genuinely perplexed by this answer.

no! Even as a straight woman, you must fancy me

. I understand the various combinations of couples but if a straight couple want to meet a straight couple it seems obvious to me that the women in those couples are going to be more interested in the men.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Oh and Mr can work away months at a time where he's not in an environment where he can take pics... so yeah, sometimes there's periods where there's more of me

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"I need to see clear pics of the male of the couple, not just their cock in the woman’s mouth.

If I like the look of the male I’ll contact the couple, if it’s mainly female pics then no contact will be made. "

Exactly us, I hate it when you're overloaded of beautiful pics of the women and then the odd one of her blowing him. I wanna see his face and not just have to take one for the team because his wife is hot lol x I hope we have a good balance on our profile, we're certainly trying lol x

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We just find you can be more creative with a female body for taking pictures. Also there's a much larger variety of outfits for ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr works in education and won’t risk public photos

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

We also wonder this so try and have a good balance

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile

I disagree. As the lady of a couple profile and I run our profile, it’s only fair I see pictures of the male. "

People run their profile as they see fit, not for other to think what is fair to them. If a profile is not for you then they are not for you. Not for anyone to preach what people should do or not to do because their expectations aren't met. We don't like genital pictures but we wouldn't dream of telling anyone their profile doesn't match what we expect. Fab is here for all, some people like some people don't, can not please everyone. A profile that matches what you are looking for is good and a profile you don't find what you are looking for is good also as people can move along

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Wow this thread is helping with my filters. Thank you. "
That works both ways ..You say you have a couples account with a friend well technically you aren’t a couple so that would put a lot of people off.You can’t really criticise how others choose to run their profiles when all your profile shows is that you like gin and you have nicely painted toe nails ..

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

There’s a few reasons I guess.

Ladies photograph better. They look sexier than guys!

Ladies can also take many pictures in different lingerie, outfits, positions etc. For a guy, after a few pictures it’s just being repetitive!

For us though, it’s both of these, plus mr like photography as a hobby, so tends to take more pictures. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow this thread is helping with my filters. Thank you. "

And with ours

so called cpls who are really just fb's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow this thread is helping with my filters. Thank you. That works both ways ..You say you have a couples account with a friend well technically you aren’t a couple so that would put a lot of people off.You can’t really criticise how others choose to run their profiles when all your profile shows is that you like gin and you have nicely painted toe nails .."

That was our reply also. No body shots, just legs and feet.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

That was our reply also. No body shots, just legs and feet. "

It’s against site rules to critique my profile when I’ve not asked for feedback. I asked why some couples don’t show pictures of their men. I am allowed to ask this from my single profile. If you don’t like the thread or my relationship with my good friend then pass by to a thread that suits you. Enjoy the rest of your day.

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

women are just nice to look at in general; for woman and men. Wether you’re a dabbling lady, fully Bi or a Lesbian they’d all prefer to see a lady in lingerie. Than a guy in crumpled boxers in a bedroom that needs tidying and a good hoover.

He has a few bum shots and a couple of cock shots in our private album. But mostly Me in stockings, heels and the odd basque her and there.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I guess it’s a case of the kind of connections that they’re looking for. If it’s female only connections, then it’s fair but if the male of the couple is involved, but there aren’t any pictures, then it starts to get questionable.

I do feel that if you’re both meeting but the male is an afterthought in the pictures, then you’re essentially ‘fishing’, using the one partner as bait.

Women get more attention, that’s the nature of the site, you only need to look at hot pics to understand that, but I think that it’s disingenuous to have a couples profile without pictures of both partners in rough parity

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Women are more attractive?

LvM

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Women are more attractive?

LvM"

Not to straight women

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I never put pics on this profile. Only Sam does. He takes all the pics so they are obviously going to be of me as well. We are happy how our profile is and don't really give a shit if people think it's too one sided. If you don't like it move on

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"I never put pics on this profile. Only Sam does. He takes all the pics so they are obviously going to be of me as well. We are happy how our profile is and don't really give a shit if people think it's too one sided. If you don't like it move on

Well said.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"I need to see clear pics of the male of the couple, not just their cock in the woman’s mouth.

If I like the look of the male I’ll contact the couple, if it’s mainly female pics then no contact will be made. "

This .... completely x

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"Women are more attractive?

LvM"

Nope not in the slightest

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

Simply, women pics get more likes than men pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi "

Because they are more attractive

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We have a good mix but we tend to have C as our profile pic as she attracts more people to our profile.

We also have a good number of couples pics so people can also see us together...

We don’t buy into guys being limited with pic choices...if you have a good imagination you have plenty of options

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

We normally mingle at parties and socials so you can see us both. If we chat on here we have face pics in our friends only. Everyone works differently that’s your choice. X

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Have another lady pic or two

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi "

We only have pics of the female because although we only meet as a couple, only she plays whilehubby doesn't. That's why.

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people "

Your correct plus women look more sexier

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I think we have a decent split, but as I tend to be the one taking the photos, it can be hard to be in them.

Also as we are not just looking to meet for sex, having naked photos of me is unlikely going to entice the sorts of people we want to meet.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"We normally mingle at parties and socials so you can see us both. If we chat on here we have face pics in our friends only. Everyone works differently that’s your choice. X"

Choice, freedom, respect, not rules, are what’s important when swinging

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

I'm a firm believer that if a profile catches your attention then a conversation should be started..during said conversation bring up the request to see a picture ..it's more than just physical to me...gotta know a good time can be had and that means conversation and laughter too..it's the main reason I prefer meeti_g couples in clubs / socials...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi "

The reality is that more often than not the male half of couples look like old boot leather. There are a lot of fakes too, some even manage to get verified.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a bizarre situation that has baffled me for ages, especially when people say that they are struggling to find the right woman or mf couples - it will generally be much harder to get the fullest chpice, if your sales tools are selling you well to others, such as guys, but not to all of the people who you want to meet.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people

Your correct plus women look more sexier "

Not to me they don’t. I guess you put photos on to attract your target audience so guess most couples who display more of the female are looking to attract straight males. Couples wanting bi females or couples will put photos on of both.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"It's a bizarre situation that has baffled me for ages, especially when people say that they are struggling to find the right woman or mf couples - it will generally be much harder to get the fullest chpice, if your sales tools are selling you well to others, such as guys, but not to all of the people who you want to meet. "

Exactly this ...

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I guess people are looking for different things or maybe they play more in clubs so they can see Mr face to face.

Their profile, their choice, as baffling as it is to everyone else.

We want to attract couples and singles so that’s why we have a selection of pics to (hopefully) entice our target audience(s)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess people are looking for different things or maybe they play more in clubs so they can see Mr face to face.

Their profile, their choice, as baffling as it is to everyone else.

We want to attract couples and singles so that’s why we have a selection of pics to (hopefully) entice our target audience(s)

Lovely photographs I might add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like this question is rhetorical

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

I guess people are looking for different things or maybe they play more in clubs so they can see Mr face to face.

Their profile, their choice, as baffling as it is to everyone else.

We want to attract couples and singles so that’s why we have a selection of pics to (hopefully) entice our target audience(s)

Oo I LOVE your photos .....

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

For us it's because I am the bi one and Dick is shy.

There are pictures of him and if we are arranging a meet more pictures of him are shown.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.

I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.

Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?

Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?

Bhubaysi "

Maybe they are only looking for single men so only put up pics of the lady? Maybe they think the ladies don't want to see the male half who knows

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I guess people are looking for different things or maybe they play more in clubs so they can see Mr face to face.

Their profile, their choice, as baffling as it is to everyone else.

We want to attract couples and singles so that’s why we have a selection of pics to (hopefully) entice our target audience(s)

Oo I LOVE your photos ..... "

Thank you

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By *erts NNCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We try to have a balanced selection of pictures but the only ones which get fabbed are of wifey...totally understandable!

When looking at other couples profiles if there are lots of pictures of the guy and they are all dick pics and only one half assed snap of the lady that usually is a warning sign for us x

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Maybe they are single women pretending to be couples so that they can get more offers to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have tried all different pics and always have a good response from all of them .. couples .. both bi or not .. single guys...and women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to do a mix of photos of us both and some of us together with abit of imagination.

We're planning on doing a few more photos tonight

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"We try to have a balanced selection of pictures but the only ones which get fabbed are of wifey...totally understandable!

When looking at other couples profiles if there are lots of pictures of the guy and they are all dick pics and only one half assed snap of the lady that usually is a warning sign for us x "

That’s become men out number women on here about 8 to 1 ....

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Our pics of me, always me on here and looking for a single guy

interested in me, not a couple.

Hope this makes sense x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because females generally look a billion times hotter than a bloke..!?

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By *iercedlotsCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

We have few pics of the male half as I like to play with girls, not gone full swap yet but might with the right couple. Mrs P

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Because females generally look a billion times hotter than a bloke..!? "

How will that work with a straight female of another couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't need to ask for photos of the man , it is about achieving a four way match after all. I'd like to think that ours provide enough to stop time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have few pics of the male half as I like to play with girls, not gone full swap yet but might with the right couple. Mrs P"

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By *exyfuncouple74Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

We try an keep a balance of both partners in our profile pics. From experience, there are lots of lovely ladies on here, but the male partner doesn't come up to the same standard (maybe that's why there aren't so many male photos?).

For some couples, the lady gets the final say on meets, so it's important that there are plenty of male photos in couples' profiles.

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