FabSwingers.com forum: Polyamory

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whos ever thought and it, wanted to try it or are a little unsure of its meaning. Well it's what we desire, have tried and want more

a guy, lady or even a couple. To really get intimate with, build real connections inside and outside the bedroom. Push boundaries and have fun with all involved. Fancy it? Let us know your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would first need to find a partner, but yeah why not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would first need to find a partner, but yeah why not

Not at all, can be a couple with a single m/f

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The definitely, I have a lady friend with who I went to dinner with, bowling, swingers club etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok cool. Yeah weve done it a little with a couple of guys. Met up, had drinks gone to a club then shared the hotel room with after, deffo fun esp lots of wondering hand

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

Depends just how poly you mean. So many people have differing views of what they'd want from it.

We'd love to find another couple to have a relationship with, explore as everyone wanted and allow feelings to develop whilst always keeping your primary relationship safe. Enjoy sharing between the 4 in any combination of 2, 3 or 4.

Mixing socialising with play as it suited.

Not many couples wanting to go that far though and take the time needed. Not sure fab is the right place to find it unless you just get damn lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends just how poly you mean. So many people have differing views of what they'd want from it.

Mixing socialising with play as it suited.

Not many couples wanting to go that far though and take the time needed. Not sure fab is the right place to find it unless you just get damn lucky. "

Sounds as if we may have just got lucky then

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

We were lucky enough for find a small group that played together and socialized, even luckier to peel off with one of the couples in particular. It was more than just casual swinging, but it’s been a long time since we had that. Lead to much better sex and more adventurous too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trouble that I've found is that most people aren't very good at a romantic relationship with one person, let alone two!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I was in a poly relationship with 3 women years ago, two had a primary it worked for a while

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

"The trouble that I've found is that most people aren't very good at a romantic relationship with one person, let alone two! "

Its finding the people who accept that they are only yours and you theirs for the time you are together. No possesiveness is hard to find!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The trouble that I've found is that most people aren't very good at a romantic relationship with one person, let alone two!

Its finding the people who accept that they are only yours and you theirs for the time you are together. No possesiveness is hard to find!"

That's fairly easy on here but also just casual ... polyamory is more about an actual relationship and most just can't do one hahaha

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I had my first experience with polyamory 8 years ago. I've now been exclusively polyamorous for 3 years and have no intention of returning to monogamy again

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

"The trouble that I've found is that most people aren't very good at a romantic relationship with one person, let alone two!

Its finding the people who accept that they are only yours and you theirs for the time you are together. No possesiveness is hard to find!

That's fairly easy on here but also just casual ... polyamory is more about an actual relationship and most just can't do one hahaha "

We've discovered we can, but finding others that can too is a challenge! Jury is still out if it's easier to find with singles or a committed couple.

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Yes this is what I’m after. Lots of different types of Poly so it’s about finding those that align with your desires. Boundary pushing, dynamics in and out of the bedroom - it’s a really interesting and appealing lifestyle to me.

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By *edonisticHandfulWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

I would like to but I'm not sure hubby is so keen, though we have talked about having a mutual girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes this is what I’m after. Lots of different types of Poly so it’s about finding those that align with your desires. Boundary pushing, dynamics in and out of the bedroom - it’s a really interesting and appealing lifestyle to me."
. This is something my wife has been interested in pursuing too but need to find the right person.

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

"Yes this is what I’m after. Lots of different types of Poly so it’s about finding those that align with your desires. Boundary pushing, dynamics in and out of the bedroom - it’s a really interesting and appealing lifestyle to me.. This is something my wife has been interested in pursuing too but need to find the right person. "

It's all about the connection, understanding and honesty, this sort of arrangement would suit me, great friends. Sharing life's up and downs as well as great fun x

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By *pun84Man
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I would first need to find a partner, but yeah why not

Not at all, can be a couple with a single m/f"

Tried this n was soooo hot n fucking wild I was saying other week how I'd do it again x message me if you want to chat more etc

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

A close, open, sexual/non-sexual friendship with another couple in various combinations 2/3/4 with no jealousy is about as good as it gets. (Speaking from experience)

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

Not in a mad panic hurry to find that special zing! We figure if it happens, it'll happen naturally when it does and then we can work it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to date a married women her husband fully new and she would send him photos and not just the intimate stuff things like dinner out even went on holiday to croatia for a week with her I never met the husband only saw him when I picked her up he would kiss her and say good by at there door and then she would walk over to my car. not to sure what title our relationship would have been called, went on about 1 and half years

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By *ohnThomas1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *ohnThomas1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"The trouble that I've found is that most people aren't very good at a romantic relationship with one person, let alone two! "

Great name, shame I can't explore you profile. X

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By *winger coupleCouple
over a year ago

Reading Berkshire

We love the idea of poly, would love to find a right female.

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By *oney2024Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We both love the thought of another couple that we can have a poly relationship with. Where all are comfortable with over night separate stays, weekends away with the others partner and totally relaxed sensual passionate fun. Finding this is more difficult than just fancying it though. 4 people on the same wavelength to that emotional level is nigh on impossible. X We keep looking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think poly is the ideal, and it does seem to be becoming more mainstream. Great to see so many people here up for it but as several have said, it's really difficult to find the right person or couple. The couples I've met have all been very nice people but none have gelled in that way. Never too, late, I hope.

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