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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We joined Fab a week before the first covid lockdown happened last year.

With things changing this year with vaccines and restrictions been lifted we are looking to lose our swinging virginity at somepoint this year

Any words of wisdom from the group before we set off on our swinging journey

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Go at your own pace. Head to organised socials and clubs when allowed....most of all...enjoy x

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Go at your own pace. Head to organised socials and clubs when allowed....most of all...enjoy x"

As above

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah we seen a post on scottish forum about a possible social July August time x

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Tread fairly carefully on here as a lot of time wasters with fake profiles ,I personally would say look to go a social or club ,And sense your surroundings chat with more experienced couples ,you will have no pressure to play and go at your own pace , but if you do decide to use this site really have a good look and verifications and the verifications of those that have verified,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Never be afraid to say no

Never "take one for the team"

People will tell you "but everybody does x, y or z. It means you're a proper swinger". They're lying

Talk about it before, during and after.

Don't rely on secret signs of your partner spotting that you're not comfortable with something. Just speak up or ask for a private chat.

It's a fun hobby, don't take it seriously and enjoy

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/kinkycj

This is one of the best places in Scotland very friendly and chilled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/kinkycj

This is one of the best places in Scotland very friendly and chilled. "

We had spoken about going there before covid bit us in the bum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you some good advice so far x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, CJs is a great place to start. You are under no pressure to participate in anything, even if you just go, have a few drinks and a look around, you'll have a great night meeting and chatting to new people.

Another wee bit of advice for your first time, maybe go to a "couples and single females" night, they aren't quite as intense as the regular party nights.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

All perfect advice.

Agree your limits, don't be afraid to say no and most of all enjoy the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only do what your both comfy with.

At your pace.

Just because your at a party does not mean you have to do something your no ready for.

At end of day its about enjoyment.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We would also go with take it easy and try a club. A club is a great place to see the scene and socialise with like minded others in a safe space. Plus you have the option of doing a bit of speed dating in one night rather than arranging lots of separate introductory dates over different nights. So a lot more chance of finding what your looking for. Or simply enjoy the night, step back and just enjoy meeting new people and watching the action. Along as you communicate and go at the slowest persons speed you'll have a lovely time. Also do a bit of research into your first club. Not all clubs are the same. Find the right one for you. Plus there is loads of information on here and don't be scared to ask on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, we will be keeping an eye on CJs when it opens x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would also suggest starting off with a social, there’s no hurry so get to know people through messages and trust your instincts.

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