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By *ewly-Bi2024 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford

1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

Each to their own buddy for some reason they didn't want to communicate with you and that's their choice. Move along to the next one and happy hunting

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's completely normal

just because she's on here behaving as she pleases doesn't mean that she will be attracted and interested in someone, regardless of what she's doing with anyone else.

We are all looking for something different and although many people might feel they are are what someone looking for it isn't necessarily a mutual feeling.

If your message goes unanswered or is deleted it's best just to keep looking for somebody who does feel in tune with you.

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By *r. JoystickMan
over a year ago

London

Women & couples get so many messages.

It takes a lot of time if you reply to every single one. Although this may not apply to you, even if they do politely decline, many men (or other couples, women etc) will still send another response expecting a reply.

It is just easier to delete; from that it's fairly obvious they do not have a returned interest in your profile.

Not a big deal, for me anyway.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

Did you consider reading her profile? Or did you simply think “I judge that the men she’s met before aren’t as good as me, therefore if she’s gone with them she’ll definitely go with me”? That’s not how this works. Maybe she’s only interested in older men, maybe she didn’t fancy you, maybe all sorts of things. But one thing you can be absolutely sure about - who a woman has met before, and your opinion of those people, are completely irrelevant to whether she might want to meet you.

Not to mention it’s an unpleasant attitude to have anyway. I’ve had plenty of messages displaying the same attitude, and it gets them blocked every time.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

Did you consider reading her profile? Or did you simply think “I judge that the men she’s met before aren’t as good as me, therefore if she’s gone with them she’ll definitely go with me”? That’s not how this works. Maybe she’s only interested in older men, maybe she didn’t fancy you, maybe all sorts of things. But one thing you can be absolutely sure about - who a woman has met before, and your opinion of those people, are completely irrelevant to whether she might want to meet you.

Not to mention it’s an unpleasant attitude to have anyway. I’ve had plenty of messages displaying the same attitude, and it gets them blocked every time."

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

Did you consider reading her profile? Or did you simply think “I judge that the men she’s met before aren’t as good as me, therefore if she’s gone with them she’ll definitely go with me”? That’s not how this works. Maybe she’s only interested in older men, maybe she didn’t fancy you, maybe all sorts of things. But one thing you can be absolutely sure about - who a woman has met before, and your opinion of those people, are completely irrelevant to whether she might want to meet you.

Not to mention it’s an unpleasant attitude to have anyway. I’ve had plenty of messages displaying the same attitude, and it gets them blocked every time.

This exactly "

100% agreed just an awful entitled attitude. "She has pictures sucking limp dicks ergo she should be interested in sucking mine so why hasn't she replied?“

Definitely not the attitude somebody who is genuinely into and a valued part of the swinging lifestyle.

KJ

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

Started to write a whole speal about "entitlement". Decided best not to...

Simple answer - every individual has the option to decline, delete, block whoever they want to. It is their personal choice.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

As she is sucking the dicks, how can you see they are limp ?

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

This kind of attitude will get a guy blocked by me everytime. I have photos on my profile with different guys but it doesn't mean I want to communicate with the whole fab community x

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

This kind of attitude will get a guy blocked by me everytime. I have photos on my profile with different guys but it doesn't mean I want to communicate with the whole fab community x"
Quite right Mrs N, never assume anything here OP

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By *eparrain1Man
over a year ago

Stone


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

This kind of attitude will get a guy blocked by me everytime. I have photos on my profile with different guys but it doesn't mean I want to communicate with the whole fab community x"

well said Mrs N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

Is what normal?

Many women get 100's of messages and can't reply to them all.

Just because a woman has sucked some dicks it doesn't mean she will suck everyone who asks.

Welcome to the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

Did you consider reading her profile? Or did you simply think “I judge that the men she’s met before aren’t as good as me, therefore if she’s gone with them she’ll definitely go with me”? That’s not how this works. Maybe she’s only interested in older men, maybe she didn’t fancy you, maybe all sorts of things. But one thing you can be absolutely sure about - who a woman has met before, and your opinion of those people, are completely irrelevant to whether she might want to meet you.

Not to mention it’s an unpleasant attitude to have anyway. I’ve had plenty of messages displaying the same attitude, and it gets them blocked every time."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As she is sucking the dicks, how can you see they are limp ? "

And they got a meet and presumably are verified, so they must be doing something right.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I don't understand what you are confused about.

1) After browsing images, reda profile and don't assume because you have a chance of 'getting in there', why would you pressume this?

2) Re-read the profile and check to see if you are a match.

3)Forget about recieving a message and get on with your life, is she replies then, good for you.

4) Take the message being deleted as a polite, no thank you.

5) Don't make a forum post about the fact that a woman chose not to message you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"As she is sucking the dicks, how can you see they are limp ?

And they got a meet and presumably are verified, so they must be doing something right. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

Started to write a whole speal about "entitlement". Decided best not to...

Simple answer - every individual has the option to decline, delete, block whoever they want to. It is their personal choice.

"

That’s the word that was pressing on my mind, there seems to be a whole popular culture of it now in all fields.

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By *eparrain1Man
over a year ago

Stone


"As she is sucking the dicks, how can you see they are limp ?

And they got a meet and presumably are verified, so they must be doing something right. "

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By *areasRockinghorsepooWoman
over a year ago

my happy place

I prefer older men. Op's profile didnt appeal to me....guess i am not normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it normal for a woman to have a choice in this day and age

Funny enough yes it's not the 1950s

Now put your big boy pants on and move on

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By *exyMPCouple
over a year ago

SOUTHEND-ON-SEA


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

Your one & only pic is one of you giving people the bird !! Not exactly enticing to women.

Makes us think you've got a bit of an attitude. Just a thought

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By *areasRockinghorsepooWoman
over a year ago

my happy place


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

Your one & only pic is one of you giving people the bird !! Not exactly enticing to women.

Makes us think you've got a bit of an attitude. Just a thought"

I think its the wrong finger but was also my first thought.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

Shocking attitude! Not a true swingers attitude is that! Women can suck who or what type of penis they want and it’s not for a random man on Fab to judge or expect. Shocking!!!!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Maybe they took their time with their profile and had full well written ones

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

As the cuck in a cuckold marriage for 30 years one thing that’s most important in getting a wife to suck your cock as the ‘other guy’ is attitude !

We’ve met some idiots over the years and some really nice guys, looks and physical attraction is always good, but if there’s one thing that’s pretty much guaranteed to have your wife sucking on a guys cock it’s if he treats her with respect.

Before Covid19 we met a very handsome guy in his late 30’s with a very good sized manhood, but over some drinks in a hotel bar we realised that the guy was a complete idiot and my wife was completely turned off by him.

Reading the OP’s comments reminded me of the attitude of that guy !

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By *uxuriantCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

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By *uxuriantCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Women & couples get so many messages.

It takes a lot of time if you reply to every single one. Although this may not apply to you, even if they do politely decline, many men (or other couples, women etc) will still send another response expecting a reply.

It is just easier to delete; from that it's fairly obvious they do not have a returned interest in your profile.

Not a big deal, for me anyway. "

Spot on answer. Simply too many to reply to every day, especially when you’re not currently looking for anything. Also so many messages that say something along the lines of “Hey...”. If you’re going to write make it relevant.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

1) See an entitlement post

2) Browse profile, notice 1 photo an 1 line of profile info, nothing specific. Thought, I might as well delete my profile now, how can I have a change at meeting anybody if I'm up against this.

3) Didn't look at anymore profiles.

4)Applied to become a monk.

5)My penis just dropped off, is that normal?

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By *eparrain1Man
over a year ago

Stone


"As the cuck in a cuckold marriage for 30 years one thing that’s most important in getting a wife to suck your cock as the ‘other guy’ is attitude !

We’ve met some idiots over the years and some really nice guys, looks and physical attraction is always good, but if there’s one thing that’s pretty much guaranteed to have your wife sucking on a guys cock it’s if he treats her with respect.

Before Covid19 we met a very handsome guy in his late 30’s with a very good sized manhood, but over some drinks in a hotel bar we realised that the guy was a complete idiot and my wife was completely turned off by him.

Reading the OP’s comments reminded me of the attitude of that guy !"

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

Ahhhh, the old "I believe my cock is better than his cock" mentality and assuming you know what someone else wants.

Hate to break it to ya pickle, assumption based on nothing more than YOUR perception of a couple of pictures backfired big time.

Do you really think she would be displaying photos of something she wasn't really into but "settled for" until something *better* landed in her inbox?

Did you think it was a case of "oh blimey, it's happened again oh well, while you're here I'll take a quick pic anyway for my profile"

People display what they are into, how they want to be seen, hopefully some personality. It really isn't that hard to decipher if you're looking at them as people with multiple layers and preferences rather than a mouth you want your dick in.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

Did you consider reading her profile? Or did you simply think “I judge that the men she’s met before aren’t as good as me, therefore if she’s gone with them she’ll definitely go with me”? That’s not how this works. Maybe she’s only interested in older men, maybe she didn’t fancy you, maybe all sorts of things. But one thing you can be absolutely sure about - who a woman has met before, and your opinion of those people, are completely irrelevant to whether she might want to meet you.

Not to mention it’s an unpleasant attitude to have anyway. I’ve had plenty of messages displaying the same attitude, and it gets them blocked every time."

Exactly this x

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

She has sex with men and is on fab therefore she must want to bang me.

Just urgh .......

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

You have 1 photo and barely anything on your profile? Maybe put a bit of effort in first?! If you'd have messaged us with that profile I'm sorry but we would have deleted too, if you can't make an effort why should someone welcome you into their relationship or a single woman be interested when she can't see anything about you?

Food for thought x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

You have 1 photo and barely anything on your profile? Maybe put a bit of effort in first?! If you'd have messaged us with that profile I'm sorry but we would have deleted too, if you can't make an effort why should someone welcome you into their relationship or a single woman be interested when she can't see anything about you?

Food for thought x "

Coz he has a cock that gets hard innit.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"1) See an entitlement post

2) Browse profile, notice 1 photo an 1 line of profile info, nothing specific. Thought, I might as well delete my profile now, how can I have a change at meeting anybody if I'm up against this.

3) Didn't look at anymore profiles.

4)Applied to become a monk.

5)My penis just dropped off, is that normal?"

Need some gorilla glue?

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"1) See an entitlement post

2) Browse profile, notice 1 photo an 1 line of profile info, nothing specific. Thought, I might as well delete my profile now, how can I have a change at meeting anybody if I'm up against this.

3) Didn't look at anymore profiles.

4)Applied to become a monk.

5)My penis just dropped off, is that normal?

Need some gorilla glue? "

1) I think I will post like this today.

2) I have duck tape.

3) Do they sell in Asda.

4) I hope I don't get my hands and cock stuck together.

5) could someone hold my penis while I glue it back.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

I think you've highlighted a problem that many men have. They see a girl having fun, assume she's easy and therefore they must be in with a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the cuck in a cuckold marriage for 30 years one thing that’s most important in getting a wife to suck your cock as the ‘other guy’ is attitude !

We’ve met some idiots over the years and some really nice guys, looks and physical attraction is always good, but if there’s one thing that’s pretty much guaranteed to have your wife sucking on a guys cock it’s if he treats her with respect.

Before Covid19 we met a very handsome guy in his late 30’s with a very good sized manhood, but over some drinks in a hotel bar we realised that the guy was a complete idiot and my wife was completely turned off by him.

Reading the OP’s comments reminded me of the attitude of that guy !"

Respect means everything.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"1) See an entitlement post

2) Browse profile, notice 1 photo an 1 line of profile info, nothing specific. Thought, I might as well delete my profile now, how can I have a change at meeting anybody if I'm up against this.

3) Didn't look at anymore profiles.

4)Applied to become a monk.

5)My penis just dropped off, is that normal?

Need some gorilla glue?

1) I think I will post like this today.

2) I have duck tape.

3) Do they sell in Asda.

4) I hope I don't get my hands and cock stuck together.

5) could someone hold my penis while I glue it back."

1.Yes they sell it in asda.

2.Ducktape not usually too good in wet areas so might become unstuck quickly.

3.Hope for your sake you don't stick then together too, would be an embarrassing conv in A&E

4.While in Asda get some kitchen tongs to help

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

I think you've highlighted a problem that many men have. They see a girl having fun, assume she's easy and therefore they must be in with a chance.

"

That’s definitely part of it as well. I don’t have a huge number of veris, not compared to some who’ve been here a lot longer, but because they’re mostly from different people there’s a certain type of man that will assume I “put it about” a lot and will meet anyone who asks (though if I did that I’d have 1,000 veris). They don’t consider the context or the fact that they’re not all individual meets, they just think I’m “easy”. And they do get angry if I’m not “easy” for them.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"1) See an entitlement post

2) Browse profile, notice 1 photo an 1 line of profile info, nothing specific. Thought, I might as well delete my profile now, how can I have a change at meeting anybody if I'm up against this.

3) Didn't look at anymore profiles.

4)Applied to become a monk.

5)My penis just dropped off, is that normal?

Need some gorilla glue?

1) I think I will post like this today.

2) I have duck tape.

3) Do they sell in Asda.

4) I hope I don't get my hands and cock stuck together.

5) could someone hold my penis while I glue it back.

1.Yes they sell it in asda.

2.Ducktape not usually too good in wet areas so might become unstuck quickly.

3.Hope for your sake you don't stick then together too, would be an embarrassing conv in A&E

4.While in Asda get some kitchen tongs to help"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

I think you've highlighted a problem that many men have. They see a girl having fun, assume she's easy and therefore they must be in with a chance.

That’s definitely part of it as well. I don’t have a huge number of veris, not compared to some who’ve been here a lot longer, but because they’re mostly from different people there’s a certain type of man that will assume I “put it about” a lot and will meet anyone who asks (though if I did that I’d have 1,000 veris). They don’t consider the context or the fact that they’re not all individual meets, they just think I’m “easy”. And they do get angry if I’m not “easy” for them."

I had a joke verification summary on my profile. It said I had 253,938 meets. Men used to ask me how I found the time..... and please could they meet me.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

I think you've highlighted a problem that many men have. They see a girl having fun, assume she's easy and therefore they must be in with a chance.

That’s definitely part of it as well. I don’t have a huge number of veris, not compared to some who’ve been here a lot longer, but because they’re mostly from different people there’s a certain type of man that will assume I “put it about” a lot and will meet anyone who asks (though if I did that I’d have 1,000 veris). They don’t consider the context or the fact that they’re not all individual meets, they just think I’m “easy”. And they do get angry if I’m not “easy” for them."

It's the same mentality as that of the guys who see a girl in a sexy dress and assume she's easy and there for the taking. She's not. Just a girl who likes to dress up.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Really not sure exactly what you are confused about OP, clearly she just wasn't interested in you.

K

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

Hopefully you are no longer confused OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for her mate, onwards n upwards

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

We get a lot of messages from all sorts of people most of them we don't reply to but do read. Reason? Most of them are, she's hot can I fuck her?

Nice cock I'd like to suck it.

Does she play alone?

Wanna fuck?

And the list goes on.

There are people that will reply and take these offers on, mainly guys but woman won't. Its all about how you message someone and what your profile pics are like, we wouldn't want to meet someone sticking their finger up.

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By *LAchillesMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

Of course it’s normal. Why would you think it’s not? So many self deluded men on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal? "

Yeah this is totally normal.

Literally happens all the time.

I guess it’s a question of being a buyer’s market. On this site men are the commodities.

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

normal fab life! lol

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I’m not sure what point you are trying to make.

Should women bow down and behold your magnificent self?

I’m surprised you don’t get mobbed wherever you go or perhaps you just have an over inflated opinion of yourself.

Is this confusing?

I’m confused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

Your one & only pic is one of you giving people the bird !! Not exactly enticing to women.

Makes us think you've got a bit of an attitude. Just a thought

I think its the wrong finger but was also my first thought. "
it might be his limp dick size

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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire


"1. See an interesting profile

2. Browse the images, notice female is sucking cock of multiple older men with mostly limp penises, and assume from this I surely must have a strong chance of getting in there.

3. Send a message, nothing vulgar.

4. Check messages next day to find they have been deleted.

5. Confused, is this normal?

Did you consider reading her profile? Or did you simply think “I judge that the men she’s met before aren’t as good as me, therefore if she’s gone with them she’ll definitely go with me”? That’s not how this works. Maybe she’s only interested in older men, maybe she didn’t fancy you, maybe all sorts of things. But one thing you can be absolutely sure about - who a woman has met before, and your opinion of those people, are completely irrelevant to whether she might want to meet you.

Not to mention it’s an unpleasant attitude to have anyway. I’ve had plenty of messages displaying the same attitude, and it gets them blocked every time."

This, and then some!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Change your attitude and make more of an effort.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's not the first time I've seen the nature of this entitled confusion on the forum. To be honest from the attitude I don't see any confusion as to out come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps those older men had interesting profiles with a selection of pictures and more than 10 words of text. I wouldn't bother replying to such an empty profile unless your initial message was particularly charming.

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