FabSwingers.com forum: Orgasm delay/Denial

By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

I know it may be niche but is there anyone who has practised it or want to explore it?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"I know it may be niche but is there anyone who has practised it or want to explore it?"
I practised this with my last partner, when I finally let her orgasm it was huge

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I know it may be niche but is there anyone who has practised it or want to explore it? I practised this with my last partner, when I finally let her orgasm it was huge"

it is amazing yes

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Not denial, but delaying. Makes for a more explosive orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something we enjoy, as in her denying or delaying me. Edging and teasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've used orgasm control in the past with play mates to the point I could make them cum with a few simple words

Love some good orgasm conditioning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a love/hate relationship with denial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From these forums I’ve learned it’s something that needs pre agreed or your getting a black eye

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"i have a love/hate relationship with denial

Px"

Why? X

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"From these forums I’ve learned it’s something that needs pre agreed or your getting a black eye

Absolutely!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It's sadly a trigger for me. Saw someone begin to do this with a partner and I totally freaked out, wasn't even mentally able to put together what happened for three days.

But I know my partner does enjoy it with another of her partners

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its awesome.

Count down from 30 and randomly pull he wand away.

Recite a poem and randomly pull the wand away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s rather amaziing x

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

[Removed by poster at 01/04/21 20:24:20]

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"I know it may be niche but is there anyone who has practised it or want to explore it?"

I think you know my thoughts

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"From these forums I’ve learned it’s something that needs pre agreed or your getting a black eye

Show off! Lol

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I like denial (chastity) then delayed orgasm so horny. Occasional edging always adds another dimension of despair/desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is tough to stop when you are 99% there! proper discipline that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice with a number of FB'S over the years!

Absolutely adore it!!!

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

I have explored denial in relationships within a bum context.....

The actual denial or prolonging doesn't make my orgasm stronger ....but the mental side of being denied is intense

It's personally hard for me though as with a partner I don't orgasm frequently.... so mostly they limit my solo play .... bastards lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby did it too me a few weeks back, 2hours late we were still fucking like crazy

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Yes we love it

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Yes we love it "
it is hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a similar note, ruining orgasms. I love it as a punishment. So hot.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"On a similar note, ruining orgasms. I love it as a punishment. So hot. "
naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a similar note, ruining orgasms. I love it as a punishment. So hot. naughty "

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"On a similar note, ruining orgasms. I love it as a punishment. So hot. naughty

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I have explored denial in relationships within a bum context.....

The actual denial or prolonging doesn't make my orgasm stronger ....but the mental side of being denied is intense

It's personally hard for me though as with a partner I don't orgasm frequently.... so mostly they limit my solo play .... bastards lol

It is incredible

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

In Cuckolding I have experienced being cut off or denied oral and anal with a partner, and had restrictions placed on PIV but the other guy gets everything. Quite the mind fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried edging, and delayed cum (for me) wasn’t the biggest fan, didn’t feel like I had any stronger orgasm, and just got frustrated. I’m pretty quick at recovering though, so to me it felt like it was wasted.

Now forced sex (nothing like that, but made to have sex) is prob my cup of tea, once I’ve cummed, I’m made to put it back in, having to really concentrate and force myself to perform, until I cum again, and the cycle repeats, biology does get the better of you in the end, but I’ve found this 10x the turn on than edging/ delayed etc.

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By *allyacdMan
over a year ago

Chichester

I enjoy edging and delaying it. Builds to a larger more enjoyable orgasm

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I enjoy edging and delaying it. Builds to a larger more enjoyable orgasm "

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I have explored denial in relationships within a bum context.....

The actual denial or prolonging doesn't make my orgasm stronger ....but the mental side of being denied is intense

It's personally hard for me though as with a partner I don't orgasm frequently.... so mostly they limit my solo play .... bastards lol

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it may be niche but is there anyone who has practised it or want to explore it?"

That’s not niche - many men and women do it. Men to themselves to improve technique for lasting longer and to women for pleasure.

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I find it very hard to hold back.... because it takes me forever to cum anyhow if I need to cum I’m doing it ... hah regardless if the guy tries to tease nah I’m not having it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it very hard to hold back.... because it takes me forever to cum anyhow if I need to cum I’m doing it ... hah regardless if the guy tries to tease nah I’m not having it lol "

Same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this just been at the edge but not quite getting what you want just makes it even better when you do

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

At the time of build up I may hate you for it, but when it happens, my god it’s amazing!!!!

But FYI when it happens it’s going to get wet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to try definitely

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"At the time of build up I may hate you for it, but when it happens, my god it’s amazing!!!!

But FYI when it happens it’s going to get wet!! "

Yes

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I find it very hard to hold back.... because it takes me forever to cum anyhow if I need to cum I’m doing it ... hah regardless if the guy tries to tease nah I’m not having it lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy orgasm training its fun when you get to the point when you can control them with your voice thats when it starts getting really good

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I do enjoy orgasm training its fun when you get to the point when you can control them with your voice thats when it starts getting really good

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I think it’s rather amaziing x"

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'd be interested in this but I can also get grumpy and find it eventually hard to cum so there would have to be someone skilled playing me and likely restraints involved so that I can't slouch off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i always use delaying as part of my play, nothing more exciting than a women begging for you

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

Definately delay but not denial. I must also be asked permission before she comes.

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"I'd be interested in this but I can also get grumpy and find it eventually hard to cum so there would have to be someone skilled playing me and likely restraints involved so that I can't slouch off! "

Yes. Best not to deny women their orgasm nor delay for too long. There's a small window.

Cucks on the other hand should not orgasm and be punished if they do without permission. xx

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

This can be hazardous to your health.

I did it to a girlfriend years ago, she kneed me in the eye.

It is dangerous, you have been warned lol

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"I know it may be niche but is there anyone who has practised it or want to explore it?"

I did this with my ex, I would play with her, give her oral and even fuck her, and if she was about orgasm I'd stop and not let her.. Until I was ready for her too.. Her orgasm were crazy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a nice part of a session to have to beg for it xxxxxx

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"I think it’s a nice part of a session to have to beg for it xxxxxx"

That's not the way she looked at it.. Until she was allowed to orgasm.. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s a nice part of a session to have to beg for it xxxxxx"

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I know it may be niche but is there anyone who has practised it or want to explore it?

I did this with my ex, I would play with her, give her oral and even fuck her, and if she was about orgasm I'd stop and not let her.. Until I was ready for her too.. Her orgasm were crazy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sub edges 3 times and may cum on the 4th if I am not present. It has made her orgasms more controlled and certainly more intensive

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"My sub edges 3 times and may cum on the 4th if I am not present. It has made her orgasms more controlled and certainly more intensive "

It does

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By *akeitwet99Man
over a year ago

leeds

Edging for me takes it to a whole new level

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

I love being edged, my favourite thing. A mistress i served domestically used to edge me as a reward for good cleaning. Sometimes she used to edge me and then give me a ruined orgasm. I hated it but equally it also massively turned me on.

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By *wistedbambi69Woman
over a year ago

Somerset

Orgasm delaying/edging is so much fun. I like giving and receiving

When giving I like to tie and then tease for at least an hour before finally letting them cum...they usually cum hard

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Orgasm delaying/edging is so much fun. I like giving and receiving

When giving I like to tie and then tease for at least an hour before finally letting them cum...they usually cum hard

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

"Orgasm delaying/edging is so much fun. I like giving and receiving

When giving I like to tie and then tease for at least an hour before finally letting them cum...they usually cum hard

Longest I’ve been tied was 45 mins. I’d love to be tied for well over an hour

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Love either delay or denial. Especially if I have been kept locked in chastity. Deliciously cruel to be denied and relocked.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Explored it , loved it, need more

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Denial can be a fun game to play.... but I much prefer forced orgasms..... bring on the rope and the Hitachi

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I was caged for 12 weeks and then allowed to cum, the biggest organ I've ever known

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I was caged for 12 weeks and then allowed to cum, the biggest organ I've ever known

That is some control!

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

"I was caged for 12 weeks and then allowed to cum, the biggest organ I've ever known

That is some control!"

Don't know how I did it, especially with all the teasing throughout

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I was caged for 12 weeks and then allowed to cum, the biggest organ I've ever known

That is some control!

Don't know how I did it, especially with all the teasing throughout

wow

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I think it’s a nice part of a session to have to beg for it xxxxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a similar note, ruining orgasms. I love it as a punishment. So hot. "

Sounds like hell!!!!

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

It features frequently in our play time, luna loves it.

Mr Hayes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Orgasm delaying/edging is so much fun. I like giving and receiving

When giving I like to tie and then tease for at least an hour before finally letting them cum...they usually cum hard

That sounds an amazing experience x

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We use this loads, edging for a few hours makes for really intense squirting orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use it a lot when building up the pussy, clit,g-spot stimulation but ease back to build up further and keep edging through a session until they are a begging wet trembling mess and then quick hard penetration with the permission to finally release has an amazing effect to feel

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"We use this loads, edging for a few hours makes for really intense squirting orgasms"

Very true

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By *eadyforanything999Couple
over a year ago

aldershot

Love edging / delaying but not got into ruined orgasms (willing to try if anyone is offering..). Im starting to train my OH to delay and she finds it so hard (which makes the release so much more intense). Much more training to do. Any tips very welcome..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to have a woman tease and edge me for hours before granting me release. Just need to find someone who wants to do it!

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"On a similar note, ruining orgasms. I love it as a punishment. So hot.

Sounds like hell!!!! "

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Love edging another guy or edging with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hell of a lot of fun if done properly

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Fuck yes!

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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I regularly deny Mr, he is more often than not in a chastity cage, and is let out for edging sessions. On the flip side, I love it when he controls my orgasms, denial, delay edging etc. Also love the idea of “forced orgasms”

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I regularly deny Mr, he is more often than not in a chastity cage, and is let out for edging sessions. On the flip side, I love it when he controls my orgasms, denial, delay edging etc. Also love the idea of “forced orgasms”

Good combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it done to me a few times. Edged or ordered to edge then denied an orgasm. Every day for a week. By the end of a week of that, I was a horny wreck.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

It works

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Not for me, being denied orgasm seems to make me agressive

Hubby on the other hand, loves being edged.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

It requires a lot of practise and discipline; but is well with the effort. Females partner having multiple orgasms, then massive ejaculation onto her cervix.

When I would eventually tell my partner that I wanted to cum she would lean back and massage my helmet with her cervix. Thirty seconds and I was gone.

It is slightly easier if fem partner takes first cum load in her mouth with BJ.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"It requires a lot of practise and discipline; but is well with the effort. Females partner having multiple orgasms, then massive ejaculation onto her cervix.

When I would eventually tell my partner that I wanted to cum she would lean back and massage my helmet with her cervix. Thirty seconds and I was gone.

It is slightly easier if fem partner takes first cum load in her mouth with BJ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this!

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Love this!"

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