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By *ausysodd OP   Man
over a year ago

w

Is dp/dvp abuse?

Just spoke to someone and asked out of curiosity if they have done it or are into it, and they said it was abuse and you'd only be into it if you like abusing women. Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is dp/dvp abuse?

Just spoke to someone and asked out of curiosity if they have done it or are into it, and they said it was abuse and you'd only be into it if you like abusing women. Thoughts?"

Well if all are consenting adults then clearly not

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By *ausysodd OP   Man
over a year ago

w


"Is dp/dvp abuse?

Just spoke to someone and asked out of curiosity if they have done it or are into it, and they said it was abuse and you'd only be into it if you like abusing women. Thoughts?

Well if all are consenting adults then clearly not "

Thats what i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrm... It's very popular, and pleasurable xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Abuse can take many forms and we'd each also be interested in different types of consensual pleasure, as well as not interested in others.

If people want and consent to it, it's not abuse

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I felt the same way about, anal, facials, bondage, flogging, Fisting and watersports at one point or another. I thought these things were all reflections reflections of the toxic, androcentric culture of Male domination of the porn industry..... Then at the instigation of a few broad minded and sensual women and couples my horizons were gradually expanded, and I discovered that these were not just the fantasies of patriarchal, masochistic men, but that different people derive pleasure from different things...

If dv or dp is done between consenting adults who all desire it and enjoy It I can't see how it could be construed as abusive in any way..... Whereas even the slightest sexual touch without complete mutual consent is absolutely abuse!

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Any women, especially on this site really enjoy both DP and/or DVP with their partners and in threesomes or foursomes.

Many women enjoy the feeling of two helmets rhythmically thrusting inside them, the ideal ending being that all three consenting adult participants cum together simultaneously.

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Do is something Rhiannon is looking forward to trying sometime and as long as the other person understands that she is in charge and stop means stop then no it's not abuse as it's something that she wants. Between consenting adults nothing is abuse as long as that consent is total and the situation is non harmful. As soon as consent is assumed then it becomes dangerous. It needs to be affirmed each step of the way. No excuses.

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By *ausysodd OP   Man
over a year ago

w

Thank you all for your input.

I had exactly the same thinking.

I think the other person had a very different perspective/thinking to what we all think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done DP and loved it (although a little awkward to start)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With consenting adults then clearly not. x

DVP is on my wish list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Errrm... It's very popular, and pleasurable xx"

Oh your dangerous

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

If that’s the case, then I love to be abused x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that’s the case, then I love to be abused x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amy loves DP, yet to try DVP though. I wouldn't say it abuse either when it's what the female wants, fulfilling a wish.

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By *BW BlondeWoman
over a year ago

Castleford

Done DVP, loved it, want to do it again and didn't feel I was being abused in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luv anal,dp. Dvp only done few times as its more difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love DVP!

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d suggest checking in them more often. See if everything is okay.

Consensual sex between adults is not abuse x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women love it if you don’t rush it..

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By *orsetCouple777Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I like DVP

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By *ranmrshCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Love dvp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top of my wish list this one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this just made me horny

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By *ornyj37Man
over a year ago

Devon

I have done dp and dvp with couples and it is amazing and most definitely not abuse x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is dp/dvp abuse?

Just spoke to someone and asked out of curiosity if they have done it or are into it, and they said it was abuse and you'd only be into it if you like abusing women. Thoughts?"

Dread to think what they’d say about DAP then - get their pitchfork out ?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Women love it if you don’t rush it.."

All of them ?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Is dp/dvp abuse?

Just spoke to someone and asked out of curiosity if they have done it or are into it, and they said it was abuse and you'd only be into it if you like abusing women. Thoughts?"

Rubbish. Love them both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is this abuse if everyone is consenting? We love both DP and DVP. Can't wait to do them again. We've a year to make up!!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"How is this abuse if everyone is consenting? We love both DP and DVP. Can't wait to do them again. We've a year to make up!!"
What fun it will be making up for that lost year of fun!

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I would relish the opportunity to partake in DVP although being a gentleman of a certain age I would suppose that it will have to remain a fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done both with consenting adults all good fun .not abuse .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is on our fuckit list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love dp and dvp and don't see anything wrong as long as parties consent, like with a lot of other kink play I like to participate in

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By *lcaza69Woman
over a year ago

north west

I enjoy dp, but not done dvp...yet. As long as it’s consensual, on my terms and not being pressured into it then how would it be abuse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the women's choice if they want to do it and enjoy it. How is that abuse

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham

Dvp is amazing with a beautiful lady whom consents to it that is not abuse at all I guess everyone has a view only other thing I’d add is it’s not as easy as porn films make it look lol or is that just me being useless and in need of more practice

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By *nmnMan
over a year ago

hastings

I've done DVP once and was fun for all involved. A massive turn on so it didn't last too long.

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

travel around a lot.

Done DP. Not dvp. DP was hard enough. Hardest pic to take ever !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is dp/dvp abuse?

Just spoke to someone and asked out of curiosity if they have done it or are into it, and they said it was abuse and you'd only be into it if you like abusing women. Thoughts?"

The person you spoke to is an imbecile, clearly.

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"Is dp/dvp abuse?

Just spoke to someone and asked out of curiosity if they have done it or are into it, and they said it was abuse and you'd only be into it if you like abusing women. Thoughts?

The person you spoke to is an imbecile, clearly. "

There’s many of those around lol x

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By *ornycouple1176Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Something the wife is very keen to explore.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Had my first DVP with my regular couple and certainly no one was complaining and wouldn’t consider it abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something the wife is very keen to explore. "

Happy to assist if you need a willing volunteer.

I've done both with a couple off here and it's safe to say that she was the one who wanted it. And enjoyed it judging by the sounds she made!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is dp/dvp abuse?

Just spoke to someone and asked out of curiosity if they have done it or are into it, and they said it was abuse and you'd only be into it if you like abusing women. Thoughts?

Dread to think what they’d say about DAP then - get their pitchfork out ? "

People need to get one t and have some fun ??

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By *ainbowCheesecakeCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Love DP. Dvp is something I'm yet to be able to take though. As long as all are clearly consenting it's never an issue. Xx

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By *icky and MandyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Mmmmm………..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be the other male in a dp situation if there any one looking for a open minded fun male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is dp/dvp abuse?

Just spoke to someone and asked out of curiosity if they have done it or are into it, and they said it was abuse and you'd only be into it if you like abusing women. Thoughts?"

If the lady asks for it, how can it be abuse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not abuse of man and women both agree to it and that’s what they like who can judge anyone else for their kinks

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