FabSwingers.com forum: Are you a Pervert?

By *uliaChris OP Couple
over a year ago

westerham

I'm not going to define pervert. That's part of the question, what would you consider a pervert to be?

Or are you a Degenerate?

(Mr) before getting into this lifestyle, I thought I was bit of a pervert, now I don't think I am, although slightly degenerate maybe.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No I'm not pervert has negative connotations for me.

I consider myself normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've described myself as a pervert, I would say my behaviour deviated from whats considered "normal" etc etc

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

Yes most definitely! Lol

Will take any opportunity to look down a blouse or up a skirt, will always imagine naked a woman I'm attracted to or in some form of sexual act and will always watch someone else getting it on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a libertine!

It irritates me that any sexual liberation is usually described by language with a negative connotation. Eg. Deviant, perverted, debauched, degenerate, naughty...etc.

Unless you’re doing something illegal or immoral, I would encourage you to use affirming language for your sexual liberation!

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Yes. I’m reclaiming it. Perverted and proud!

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By *uliaChris OP Couple
over a year ago

westerham

Part of the reason for the question was I always found the American use of the word Degenerate hilarious, was it in the Breakfast Club or other 80s films?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a libertine!

It irritates me that any sexual liberation is usually described by language with a negative connotation. Eg. Deviant, perverted, debauched, degenerate, naughty...etc.

Unless you’re doing something illegal or immoral, I would encourage you to use affirming language for your sexual liberation!

Yes!! So much this. I am very liberated and confident with my sexual desires and proclivities. I refuse to use terminology that kink-shames.

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By *uliaChris OP Couple
over a year ago

westerham

"I’m a libertine!

It irritates me that any sexual liberation is usually described by language with a negative connotation. Eg. Deviant, perverted, debauched, degenerate, naughty...etc.

Unless you’re doing something illegal or immoral, I would encourage you to use affirming language for your sexual liberation!

We like using libertine definitely

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I consider my self inquisitive to sexual adventures and not a perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a libertine!

It irritates me that any sexual liberation is usually described by language with a negative connotation. Eg. Deviant, perverted, debauched, degenerate, naughty...etc.

Unless you’re doing something illegal or immoral, I would encourage you to use affirming language for your sexual liberation!

Absolutely agree. Having a high sex drive doesn't make you abnormal. Neither is being bi - everyone is somewhere on the spectrum; they just don't or can't acknowledge it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just me. I can't be anything else.

Other people call me a pervert though....they're the 'normals' though, that think missionary once a month keeps their lady happy

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I aspire to be a pervert (of the nicest kind of course)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at every one on the street Men Women TVCD and I play little game with my self, would I fuck then suck them eat her out anal or oral, I imagine just what they would be like on the end of my cock I am constantly horny for cock and cunt its just the way I am made up xxx Not perverted at all

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I've been called worse.Much worse...

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

My wife caught me wanking into her panties and called me perverted.

I guess that makes me a pervert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im a pervert because i like sex alot and looking a ladies pussys makes me a pervert then so be it!!

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By *otsMan
over a year ago

Higham

Well perhaps the question should have been....

Are you a pevert? or are you just a little kinky?

I think when I'm in the mood I fit into the latter no denying.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

What I used to think as a perversion, I now think is normality.

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By *uliaChris OP Couple
over a year ago

westerham

"Well perhaps the question should have been....

Are you a pevert? or are you just a little kinky?

I think when I'm in the mood I fit into the latter no denying.

That's why I phrased it as either pervert or degenerate. Are you a little bit degenerate maybe?

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By *adbutsanecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Calne

My wife occasionally tells me I’m a pervert and I just say “you say that like it’s a bad thing” ????????

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Perverted, to me, implies that something is wrong with the things one likes. Harmful to someone, for example.

I think adventurous sex is normal and healthy. I avoid using words like dirty, naughty, and filthy, when speaking about sex, as they perpetuate the idea that sex is something bad. It’s 2021, not 1950!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a ‘Cheeky perve’ is quite common to hear, sounds harmless.

However if you later find yourself outside their house having a wank, then the pervert connotation means something different

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Perverted, to me, implies that something is wrong with the things one likes. Harmful to someone, for example.

I couldn't agree more. If someone messages us and asks if we fancy some "naughty fun " it immediately turns me off. I'm 64, I want someone with a mature attitude to sex not someone who'll giggle if I say "vagina" .

We met someone socially once who got all adolescent about naturist beaches, it was really awkward.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think libertine is how I would describe myself

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Creative and adventurous

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

Id say im a kinkster rather than a perv x

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

I'm not a pervert. I'm observant

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I describe myself as liberated.

Using it as a positive term, I'm a kinky pervert (or a kinky prude depending on which side of the sliding scale I'm feeling it that day).

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

More window shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah and a massive sex pest apparently

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I always say there are two types of pervert,

A) a sick pervert. They are sick people who do nasty things that are non consensual (rapist, pedophiles and sadists)

and

B) a proud pervert, like me! Who just do taboo things of a sexual nature that goes against the norm with consensual adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do hope so..

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I don't think I am as I'm not distorting or corrupting anything or anyone, or leading anyone astray and I consider my sexual behaviour not to be beabnormal.

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By *plforme500Man
over a year ago

Shirley

"I'm not going to define pervert. That's part of the question, what would you consider a pervert to be?

Or are you a Degenerate?

(Mr) before getting into this lifestyle, I thought I was bit of a pervert, now I don't think I am, although slightly degenerate maybe. "

Yes

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"I’m a libertine!

It irritates me that any sexual liberation is usually described by language with a negative connotation. Eg. Deviant, perverted, debauched, degenerate, naughty...etc.

Unless you’re doing something illegal or immoral, I would encourage you to use affirming language for your sexual liberation!

Most of what I do with regards to BDSM is, by the letter of the law, illegal.

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By *ueanbullMan
over a year ago

castle point

Yes 100% quite like getting called one aswell during bedroom play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a libertine!

It irritates me that any sexual liberation is usually described by language with a negative connotation. Eg. Deviant, perverted, debauched, degenerate, naughty...etc.

Unless you’re doing something illegal or immoral, I would encourage you to use affirming language for your sexual liberation!

Thank you.

. This is nearly perfect For me.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

No. I would say I am a admirer with self control

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By *uliaChris OP Couple
over a year ago

westerham

I'm concluding from this scientific study thread that more men are perverts than women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What ever floats your boat.

If the other person is consensual and above the legal age of consent.

Who am I to cast the first stone.

Each to their own x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

For others, I would be.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Just open yo new ideas in no way perverted.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

sexually liberated, though I'm sure lots of grey men and women would call me a perv and I don't care tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perv and proud!

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Yes

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