FabSwingers.com forum: Dominate or submissive

By *aveieboy32 OP Man
over a year ago

Are you dominate or submissive ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you dominate or submissive ? "
neither

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Are you dominate or submissive ? neither

Neither

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Neither here, but very far from submissive nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally submissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominant sexually, though equally happy being neutral if people aren't into that side of things.

I'm laid back socially, which contrasts with my dominant side. But I've noticed the contrast with subs too - they tend to be quite outgoing and fiery socially.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Dominant & switch couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Personally I like to switch it up. Variety is the spice of life and all that.

Either way I'm very much into kink, although I do tend to lean more towards dominant than submissive. Maybe I've just never come across anyone who can make me behave myself though

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Sub

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By *tephbicdTV/TS
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Definitely sub

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Neither

But only 1 guy ever got me being submissive shame he moved away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom and sub x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly submissive, occasional dominance if I get the urge. It's fun being brought back to submission though

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

sub

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

With fab meets neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subbbbbbbbb

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

As a TV, most people think I should be submissive

... But I'm not, far from it, I'm dominant

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By *uicy mushroomMan
over a year ago

elephant and Castle

Love being tied up humiliated and dominated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smut - Dom, Slut - sub to me but switches and can be Domme to others, depends on who we are with and what’s agreed or the dynamics etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bratty subby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch but really want to let my sub side loose

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub with men, Dom with women xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominant with consenting negotiated play play partners, rope top on a more casual play basis

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

The perfect mix of both him dom, her sub

tho he does wish I had a bit of a dom side at times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dom but open to switch now again

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Switch..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm dominant but not a Dom. People get that abit confused normally.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Can do both, prefer submissive but I can’t if the guy or woman isn’t convincing enough.

I do enjoy dominating at times, but as above only with the right willing partner.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

100% switch

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Switch here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to switch it around and go with what feels comfortable at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sub, allllll day long

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Barrhead

Dominant with willing play partners.

Or relaxed and easy going otherwise.

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

Submissive for the right dominant, otherwise I am a snarling biting wolfie

with a hint of sadistic bitch thrown in for good measure

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By *B8912Man
over a year ago

Guiseley

Both, mainly dom but it depends who I’m with as I do enjoy being dom’d by the right lady.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I am Dominate

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By *incskittenWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Submissive in the bedroom only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs sub with men and switch with fem.

Mr is dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominant

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Dominant, always it’s not a choice. I tried sub a couple of times, it just feels so wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m submissive, but only with my Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can confirm that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We switch with each other.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"I’m submissive, but only with my Dom "

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch and love the submissive side but can be neutral too.

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By *ntman83Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Id say switch

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I can be either, depending on my mood and more so what company I am in !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch.

and its Very fun

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I'm definitely not submissive but I wouldnt class my self as dominating either.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

"Switch.

and its Very fun

Same!

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Neither for me too.

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By *perfectpair5050Couple
over a year ago

marlbourgh

Both sub been looking for a dom for a couple of years too many think they know what they’re doing but haven’t got a clue lol

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By *anCheshireMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Submissive here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither I'm Dave

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

100%submissive

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

Submissive to my partner only

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By *roticusCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Lucy 100% submissive. Ross 100% dom.

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

Sub

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

None of the above

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Neither.

Depends on situation.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

Submissive, but only with someone I trust 100%

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By *LKBBWMILFWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Switch x

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By *witch Roy-MrsKarenCouple
over a year ago

york

Were both switch at home but on nights out I'm always sub to Karen. Found it easier that way. Had a bad experience when first going to fetish events.

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By *EXY_PILOTMan
over a year ago

Manchester, North West, UK

"Are you dominate or submissive ? "

Dom, love sub people xX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you dominate or submissive ? "

Dominant but as in like taking control. Like to be the one dishing out the pleasure...

Depends what the situation calls for so can be DOMINANT in other ways, getting well into Bondage & Toys (Especially Fuck Machines) but do think a lot about someone greedy just doing their thing on me...

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

Switch. But then my name gives that away lol

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By *orfun8181Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Dominant myself x

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By *imandLiz14Couple
over a year ago

Needham

sub but only to Sir

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Vanilla to most, interesting to some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominant. I tried playing non dominant vanilla but found I was just being coy and finding new ways to instruct my partner. You can take the man away from dominance but....

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By *ulletguy005Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Switcg depending on the person

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Switch, but tend to be Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both switch.

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By *inkycdxxxTV/TS
over a year ago

wrexham

Definitely sub xx

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Switch

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

Sub here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely submissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submissive

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Neither with a random off fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submissive through and through ..

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Switch. Unfortunately, my size means partners almost exclusively want me to top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To the right person (and there have only been a handful in more than 20 years of having an interest) I'm submissive - to anyone else I'm an equal playing field kind of guy

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends entirely who I'm playing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very submissive. I like giving up control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do prefer to be submissive or lazy. Take your pick.

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By *inkycdxxxTV/TS
over a year ago

wrexham

Definitely sub xx

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By *liviaGTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

Can be both

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

I'm a.switch but mostly submissive

No pain or extreme unless I'm.woth a lady .. an I say that literally. No weird bondage spiky things or pvc masks

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Me and my wife change roles but we both prefer to be submissive

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

She's submissive, I'm dominant

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

Switch but more experienced as a sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a switch. And what role I adopt depends entirely on the person I am playing with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Kink mode I'm pretty much solidly submissive, neutral if that's not what we're doing......I have switched on a handful of occasions for very specific scenes, it was fun but it's never going to be my happy place !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

submissive and passive. but not there to be abused.

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By *egmelpoolMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I am submissive but can switch with the right person

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

I’m definitely submissive .... I would love to be a sissy Cuck to someone knows how to treat me that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Neither

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

Sub for the right master.

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By *erge69Man
over a year ago

Mepal

Dominant and on the lookout for a male sub

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

I'm submissive in the bedroom. I really like dominant men but I've never had my own Dom...

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Naturally submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question is incomplete, should be are you dominant, submissive or a switch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say a bit submissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub to men,dom to women,switch In a relationship

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Are you dominate or submissive ? "

I can be both.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for most people its relative. With the right person a normally dominant personality can become submissive and the reverse is also true. It's a spectrum and many things influence where you place in the spectrum.

For me, I think most people slot somewhere in the middle.

I'm also a bit weird about people calling themselves Doms or domme. And I mean no disrespect to anyone here. I'm not judging anyone from either side of the kneel. I'm just a pictureless egg on a forum.

My opinion of my dominance is irrelevant. It's how others perceive me thats important regards dominance. I might feel like the ultimate dom but if no one else thinks I am then I'm not am I?

Also If I behave differently to appear more dominant then I'm not a dominant. If I need to deepen my voice or speak more slowly or shout at people to make me look more bad ass then I am putting too much effort in the wrong places

And that's perfectly fine. Not everyone can be a dominant. It's more than sexual. Its being a leader too. A strong presence in everyday life. It's a fuck tonne of responsibility too. Being a top is just as good. Do your thang in the bedroom and dont worry about labels.

Like I said not trying to be disrespectful to anyone. I'm just riding my insomnia wave

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I switch, depending on who I am with and how aggressive I am feeling.

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By *stelle sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

sissytown

Sub

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Dominant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think for most people its relative. With the right person a normally dominant personality can become submissive and the reverse is also true. It's a spectrum and many things influence where you place in the spectrum.

For me, I think most people slot somewhere in the middle.

My opinion of my dominance is irrelevant. It's how others perceive me thats important regards dominance. I might feel like the ultimate dom but if no one else thinks I am then I'm not am I?

Like I said not trying to be disrespectful to anyone. I'm just riding my insomnia wave"

Pretty much this with a few other insignificant caveats and addendum. Good insight

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

By nature sub...but so is Mrs so I switch with her (and very much enjoy it).

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By *etasubTV/TS
over a year ago

West of Newcastle-upon-Tyne

Definitely prefer being submissive with women, men and TV's

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