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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester

Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Body count! Scary as f..k

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Body count? Where do you bury them all?

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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Body count? Where do you bury them all?"

you guys cracking me up lmfao

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By *r_StockingtopsMan
over a year ago

Selby

Personally,I love a woman who keeps track!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Not for me

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Covid has kept our body count down to just each other in the last 12 months .

Although there was a quick double bj in the middle of summer. But don’t think that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Notches on the bed post sounds a bit better than body count

I'm not saying my number, and getting to a certain number isn't important to me. But it'll no doubt be far into 3 figures by the time I'm old xx

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By *othardandfreeMan
over a year ago

dd

Im impressed you can keep track. Maybe its a guy thing but i was about 21 years old when i lost count.

Too many nights out waking up wondering what happened in my early years is to blame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did anyone else read this and think of a more sinister meaning to body count??

Just me? Hmmm I'll get my coat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count?"

My body count is 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count?"

Body count? Are these bodies all under your patio, jeeze! Your patio must be huge

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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count?

Body count? Are these bodies all under your patio, jeeze! Your patio must be huge "

shhh can’t let people know where i hide them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea and dont really care.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

No. Quality over quantity.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I lost count ages ago!

I really can’t be bothered with the number either, I’d much rather meet people that I like and feel passionate about meeting than making up a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count

Not that I cared enough in the first place.

I shag people I like, not to increase a number on an arbitrary pointless list

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By *eo_72Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Lost count when I was was a 18-30 rep for 2 summers when I was in my early 20’s.. yes I was a slapper but was many many yrs ago

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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Lost count

Not that I cared enough in the first place.

I shag people I like, not to increase a number on an arbitrary pointless list"

everyone likes different things lmao wow

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By *unnyandDi68Couple
over a year ago

LEIGH

Were any of your "body count" "hung" men? Then you could just leave them dangling in the wind. No need to cut them down and bury them!

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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Were any of your "body count" "hung" men? Then you could just leave them dangling in the wind. No need to cut them down and bury them! "

lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

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By *unnyandDi68Couple
over a year ago

LEIGH

Alphabet much easier than counting!

But missed out on Xanthe was too young and daughter of a friend!!

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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with. "

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

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By *unnyandDi68Couple
over a year ago

LEIGH


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with. "

Great idea. A clicker could keep count!

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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

Great idea. A clicker could keep count! "

how have i not had this idea before hahah

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Body count ???? NO.

Personal we find it insulting to class any sex Make or female as a body count. But that’s your choice and good luck to you in reaching your target.

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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Body count ???? NO.

Personal we find it insulting to class any sex Make or female as a body count. But that’s your choice and good luck to you in reaching your target."

thanks,, out of curiosity why would it insult u? don’t wanna offend anyone by doing what i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Quality over quantity."

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count?

Body count? Are these bodies all under your patio, jeeze! Your patio must be huge "

Now now freddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still a virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

Great idea. A clicker could keep count! "

that isnt quite what I meant

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count?

Body count? Are these bodies all under your patio, jeeze! Your patio must be huge

Now now freddy "

Kruger or west?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count?

Body count? Are these bodies all under your patio, jeeze! Your patio must be huge

Now now freddy

Kruger or west?"

West the patio specialist

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle


"Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count?"

I did 28 in 2019 had 18 by lockdown at end of march last year from new year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Covid has kept our body count down to just each other in the last 12 months .

Although there was a quick double bj in the middle of summer. But don’t think that counts "

It counts....

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with. "

This just wow

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Body count ???? NO.

Personal we find it insulting to class any sex Make or female as a body count. But that’s your choice and good luck to you in reaching your target.

thanks,, out of curiosity why would it insult u? don’t wanna offend anyone by doing what i do"

You’re depersonalising people ... probably due to your age and lack of experience. I also think were you a man saying this you’d get ripped apart... double standards much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol"

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx"

Totally agree ... definitely concerning

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I did 28 in 2019 had 18 by lockdown at end of march last year from new year"

'I did' classy

People aren't objects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Body count ???? NO.

Personal we find it insulting to class any sex Make or female as a body count. But that’s your choice and good luck to you in reaching your target.

thanks,, out of curiosity why would it insult u? don’t wanna offend anyone by doing what i do

You’re depersonalising people ... probably due to your age and lack of experience. I also think were you a man saying this you’d get ripped apart... double standards much. "

Agreed.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"

I did 28 in 2019 had 18 by lockdown at end of march last year from new year

'I did' classy

People aren't objects."

He’s in his 40s too ...

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count?"
this is not a healthy way of looking at sex at all, something tells me that you need to stop thinking about how many people you want to sleep with and dive a bit deeper and think about what's making you want to make that decision in the first place

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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count? this is not a healthy way of looking at sex at all, something tells me that you need to stop thinking about how many people you want to sleep with and dive a bit deeper and think about what's making you want to make that decision in the first place"

i already know why haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count?

I did 28 in 2019 had 18 by lockdown at end of march last year from new year"

Men who say these things usually say it to hide the disappointing facts

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx"

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people"

Different people want different things. Leave it out now huh.

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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people"

i’m not tryna be in a relationship with anybody nor do i care about my reputation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people

i’m not tryna be in a relationship with anybody nor do i care about my reputation lol"

I’m older than her and I find the condescending worlds shameful

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people

Different people want different things. Leave it out now huh. "

The op has already said she’s damaged and getting veris from men in their 60s ... not something I’m comfortable with with a teenage girl. Surely protecting young people needs to be a thing at some point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people

Different people want different things. Leave it out now huh.

The op has already said she’s damaged and getting veris from men in their 60s ... not something I’m comfortable with with a teenage girl. Surely protecting young people needs to be a thing at some point? "

Supporting and not shaming usually helps

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people

Different people want different things. Leave it out now huh.

The op has already said she’s damaged and getting veris from men in their 60s ... not something I’m comfortable with with a teenage girl. Surely protecting young people needs to be a thing at some point?

Supporting and not shaming usually helps"

I’m not shaming I’m suggesting she needs help. Also the men should be ashamed of themselves

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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people

Different people want different things. Leave it out now huh.

The op has already said she’s damaged and getting veris from men in their 60s ... not something I’m comfortable with with a teenage girl. Surely protecting young people needs to be a thing at some point? "

that’s fair enough you feel like that, it’s too late for me to be protected tho lol, so i don’t need to be judged for what i became as a product of whatever may have happened, i don’t need protecting now, was a harmless post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people

Different people want different things. Leave it out now huh.

The op has already said she’s damaged and getting veris from men in their 60s ... not something I’m comfortable with with a teenage girl. Surely protecting young people needs to be a thing at some point?

Supporting and not shaming usually helps

I’m not shaming I’m suggesting she needs help. Also the men should be ashamed of themselves "

The men? What men? You should be ashamed of yourself, coming across quite the judgmental sexiest over there

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

I've got tik tok and follow @israelpadilla__ so officially down with the youngsters and the body count talk, pmsl. In the 50s but Mr Ns is much, much higher. Might start referring to it as 'kill rate'.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people

Different people want different things. Leave it out now huh.

The op has already said she’s damaged and getting veris from men in their 60s ... not something I’m comfortable with with a teenage girl. Surely protecting young people needs to be a thing at some point?

Supporting and not shaming usually helps"

Not to mention, i wasn't shaming. I was stating some pretty obvious truths. I didn't personally attack the op or insult her, I just gave a few honest opinions

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people

Different people want different things. Leave it out now huh.

The op has already said she’s damaged and getting veris from men in their 60s ... not something I’m comfortable with with a teenage girl. Surely protecting young people needs to be a thing at some point?

that’s fair enough you feel like that, it’s too late for me to be protected tho lol, so i don’t need to be judged for what i became as a product of whatever may have happened, i don’t need protecting now, was a harmless post "

At 19? You think it’s too late .... it’s never too late let alone when you’re a teenager. To go along this path saying your damaged and it’s too late is worrying. Sex is nothing to be ashamed of but the motivation behind it is sometimes damaging. I hope you have someone to talk to and please don’t believe it’s too late.

Xx

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people

Different people want different things. Leave it out now huh.

The op has already said she’s damaged and getting veris from men in their 60s ... not something I’m comfortable with with a teenage girl. Surely protecting young people needs to be a thing at some point?

Supporting and not shaming usually helps

I’m not shaming I’m suggesting she needs help. Also the men should be ashamed of themselves

The men? What men? You should be ashamed of yourself, coming across quite the judgmental sexiest over there

"

The 60 year old men wanking over a teenager yes they should be ashamed of themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unpopular opinion I'm sure but I think its quite sad that an attractive young girl as yourself OP has that mindset.

It shouldn't be about hitting the numbers, just click with who you click with.

some may say i’m damaged lol. i know not many people are keen on it but it’s what i’ve always known and liked- but let’s not get into it lol

No disrespect meant. Alot of us on here are old enough to be your parents and I'm sure I'm not alone when I say we would be concerned for you.

I know we all have our own kinks, but men are still going to be on the planet next year, there really is no rush xxxx

Not to mention that when young, reputations spread very quickly and they tend to stick. Young people don't want to get in a relationship with someone that has had sex with a large number of people

Different people want different things. Leave it out now huh.

The op has already said she’s damaged and getting veris from men in their 60s ... not something I’m comfortable with with a teenage girl. Surely protecting young people needs to be a thing at some point?

Supporting and not shaming usually helps

Not to mention, i wasn't shaming. I was stating some pretty obvious truths. I didn't personally attack the op or insult her, I just gave a few honest opinions "

Stating what other people think is just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else see it as a mission to have a big body count? I just want to get to 100, hopefully by the end of this year if summer goes well. It’s currently at 27, which for my age is okay considering covid fucked up its chances of growing for about a year. But now things are getting back to normal (slowly) I’m looking forward to going for it and letting my body count grow. What’s your body count? this is not a healthy way of looking at sex at all, something tells me that you need to stop thinking about how many people you want to sleep with and dive a bit deeper and think about what's making you want to make that decision in the first place

i already know why haha "

I say this from a good place, by putting sentences like this out in a forum you are putting yourself at risk. People will try and take advantage.

I don't know you or your story, but just keep yourself safe x

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Makes me a little sad to see you feel this way OP about been damaged goods. Just stay safe and don’t let anyone take advantage of you for the wrong reasons is all. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people..."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people..."

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I think I would go cock blind if I had to have sex with that many men in a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

"

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by..."

Because she refers to herself as damaged goods and that ‘it’s too late’ for her. If this doesn’t tell grown men that a teenage girl is vulnerable then I give up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Midichlorian count is as high a Yodas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

Because she refers to herself as damaged goods and that ‘it’s too late’ for her. If this doesn’t tell grown men that a teenage girl is vulnerable then I give up... "

What age are you classing as grown men? She's looking for 18 to 99 men....she could be meeting alot of 20yr old?? But no youve got it in your head she's meeting 60yr olds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by..."

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

Because she refers to herself as damaged goods and that ‘it’s too late’ for her. If this doesn’t tell grown men that a teenage girl is vulnerable then I give up...

What age are you classing as grown men? She's looking for 18 to 99 men....she could be meeting alot of 20yr old?? But no youve got it in your head she's meeting 60yr olds"

Look at the veris ... men in 30s, 40s 50s 60s. Would you be happy if this was your teenage daughter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

Because she refers to herself as damaged goods and that ‘it’s too late’ for her. If this doesn’t tell grown men that a teenage girl is vulnerable then I give up...

What age are you classing as grown men? She's looking for 18 to 99 men....she could be meeting alot of 20yr old?? But no youve got it in your head she's meeting 60yr olds

Look at the veris ... men in 30s, 40s 50s 60s. Would you be happy if this was your teenage daughter? "

Abuse me then block me? Low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me. "

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is"

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative...

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By *harliebucketMan
over a year ago

Fareham

Right there with you Kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative... "

You’re far too opinionated. The guy said don’t judge, he’s right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative... "

Try actually speaking to the op before filling up threads about her

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative...

You’re far too opinionated. The guy said don’t judge, he’s right. "

In your opinion I’m too opinionated .... oh the irony.

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

As you get older you stop seen the number been important and more the actual interactions.

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

H has lost count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative...

You’re far too opinionated. The guy said don’t judge, he’s right.

In your opinion I’m too opinionated .... oh the irony. "

It’s an observation not an opinion. You’re oxymoron personified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is"

I have no intention of messaging the OP. I've said my bit.

I'm off to eat cake.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

Because she refers to herself as damaged goods and that ‘it’s too late’ for her. If this doesn’t tell grown men that a teenage girl is vulnerable then I give up...

What age are you classing as grown men? She's looking for 18 to 99 men....she could be meeting alot of 20yr old?? But no youve got it in your head she's meeting 60yr olds

Look at the veris ... men in 30s, 40s 50s 60s. Would you be happy if this was your teenage daughter? "

Sorry your using the term teenage to imply something else.. technically she is 19 but I think your using the term teenage in an under-age manner....not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative...

Try actually speaking to the op before filling up threads about her"

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative...

You’re far too opinionated. The guy said don’t judge, he’s right.

In your opinion I’m too opinionated .... oh the irony.

It’s an observation not an opinion. You’re oxymoron personified "

Not in the slightest you thinking I’m too opinionated is your opinion not fact.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

Because she refers to herself as damaged goods and that ‘it’s too late’ for her. If this doesn’t tell grown men that a teenage girl is vulnerable then I give up...

What age are you classing as grown men? She's looking for 18 to 99 men....she could be meeting alot of 20yr old?? But no youve got it in your head she's meeting 60yr olds

Look at the veris ... men in 30s, 40s 50s 60s. Would you be happy if this was your teenage daughter?

Sorry your using the term teenage to imply something else.. technically she is 19 but I think your using the term teenage in an under-age manner....not good"

19 is teenage is it not? Nothing insinuating about it ... fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

I have no intention of messaging the OP. I've said my bit.

I'm off to eat cake..... "

Oh so your bit was just light hearted? Enjoy your cake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative...

You’re far too opinionated. The guy said don’t judge, he’s right.

In your opinion I’m too opinionated .... oh the irony.

It’s an observation not an opinion. You’re oxymoron personified

Not in the slightest you thinking I’m too opinionated is your opinion not fact. "

In your oxymoron opinion.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative...

You’re far too opinionated. The guy said don’t judge, he’s right.

In your opinion I’m too opinionated .... oh the irony.

It’s an observation not an opinion. You’re oxymoron personified

Not in the slightest you thinking I’m too opinionated is your opinion not fact.

In your oxymoron opinion. "

Think you need a dictionary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative...

You’re far too opinionated. The guy said don’t judge, he’s right.

In your opinion I’m too opinionated .... oh the irony.

It’s an observation not an opinion. You’re oxymoron personified

Not in the slightest you thinking I’m too opinionated is your opinion not fact.

In your oxymoron opinion.

Think you need a dictionary "

Really? Please enlighten me why? Maybe you do. If you think I’ve said something wrong, go and look it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

Because she refers to herself as damaged goods and that ‘it’s too late’ for her. If this doesn’t tell grown men that a teenage girl is vulnerable then I give up...

What age are you classing as grown men? She's looking for 18 to 99 men....she could be meeting alot of 20yr old?? But no youve got it in your head she's meeting 60yr olds

Look at the veris ... men in 30s, 40s 50s 60s. Would you be happy if this was your teenage daughter?

Sorry your using the term teenage to imply something else.. technically she is 19 but I think your using the term teenage in an under-age manner....not good

19 is teenage is it not? Nothing insinuating about it ... fact. "

Yes it is....but your not implying she's 19...you said teenage daughter...if she's over 18 she is an adult

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative...

You’re far too opinionated. The guy said don’t judge, he’s right.

In your opinion I’m too opinionated .... oh the irony.

It’s an observation not an opinion. You’re oxymoron personified

Not in the slightest you thinking I’m too opinionated is your opinion not fact.

In your oxymoron opinion.

Think you need a dictionary

Really? Please enlighten me why? Maybe you do. If you think I’ve said something wrong, go and look it up"

You do that ... i think you’ve said lots of things wrong

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

Because she refers to herself as damaged goods and that ‘it’s too late’ for her. If this doesn’t tell grown men that a teenage girl is vulnerable then I give up...

What age are you classing as grown men? She's looking for 18 to 99 men....she could be meeting alot of 20yr old?? But no youve got it in your head she's meeting 60yr olds

Look at the veris ... men in 30s, 40s 50s 60s. Would you be happy if this was your teenage daughter?

Sorry your using the term teenage to imply something else.. technically she is 19 but I think your using the term teenage in an under-age manner....not good

19 is teenage is it not? Nothing insinuating about it ... fact.

Yes it is....but your not implying she's 19...you said teenage daughter...if she's over 18 she is an adult"

She’s a teenager- does the term make you uncomfortable?

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over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

Haha no I’m 47 .... I’m fully capable of looking after myself and I don’t have 113 veris and think of myself as damaged goods. Massive massive difference.

Look if you think this a healthy attitude and everything is fine and no one is at risk or vulnerable me then that’s your prerogative...

You’re far too opinionated. The guy said don’t judge, he’s right.

In your opinion I’m too opinionated .... oh the irony.

It’s an observation not an opinion. You’re oxymoron personified

Not in the slightest you thinking I’m too opinionated is your opinion not fact.

In your oxymoron opinion.

Think you need a dictionary

Really? Please enlighten me why? Maybe you do. If you think I’ve said something wrong, go and look it up

You do that ... i think you’ve said lots of things wrong "

You think? So, in your opinion, right?! Again! Ha! So you clearly don’t know what an oxymoron is then

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By *ilkandhoneyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester

aight guys this got super out of hand, i’ve read all the replies but ain’t gona get involved anymore, would appreciate this whole thread just ending now peaceeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

I have no intention of messaging the OP. I've said my bit.

I'm off to eat cake.....

Oh so your bit was just light hearted? Enjoy your cake... "

Not light hearted. IMO she is vulnerable. In her own words she feels damaged. I wouldnt want her to be taken advantage of.

I could go on and on about this but ultimately she will do what she wants with who she wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has a right to be on this site,to look for what they want so stop judging people...

Im not sure anyone has judged the OP, quite the opposite. I see nowt but concern for her.

Why concern? Because she is 19? Because she knows what she wants? Because she is doing things differently to others? Has she asked for help? I think people here create fake concerns to give them something to be outraged by...

There are red flags all over her post.

Her age, mindset, she thinks shes damaged, etc etc. And yeah, seeing all her veris by webcam does alarm me. But no judgement here. I dont have kids but if I did I would be mortified my daughter was doing this. I am allowed to express concern. You are allowed to disagree with me.

Would your mum be mortified you were on here? And how many people watch others on the webcam? Loads i bet...maybe message the op privately instead of assuming what she is

I have no intention of messaging the OP. I've said my bit.

I'm off to eat cake.....

Oh so your bit was just light hearted? Enjoy your cake...

Not light hearted. IMO she is vulnerable. In her own words she feels damaged. I wouldnt want her to be taken advantage of.

I could go on and on about this but ultimately she will do what she wants with who she wants.

"

There it is....the answer...she will do what she wants with who she wants....goodnight

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