FabSwingers.com forum: 'straight' guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can anyone explain why when a single guys profile states they are looking to meet other men (M and MM), does it also say they are straight? I've seen this so many times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they just want a friendly beer with another guy...

Wolf

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Because they are in denial!!

They'll happily recieve a bj from another male, doesn't make them Bi though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the same straight men who are only friends with TV/TS - LOL

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

From the number of offers I've had from 'straight' guys their bi but claiming to be straight as they perceive doing so will improve their chances. Although why you would not change the selection of whom your looking for as well. Although I found my preference incorrectly set after one profile text edit but I suspect that was down to profile editing on a touch screen and fast finger syndrome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmao "Oh hey guys this is my new pub friend. We met on a swinging site and just decided to go for a drink."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they are in denial!!

They'll happily recieve a bj from another male, doesn't make them Bi though

and they might give a bj if the mood takes them - Still definately not bi though

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By *winging In The RainMan
over a year ago

St Helens / Liverpool

Yes I get lots of messages from supposedly 'straight' men, even when it says on my profile that I'm not interested. I don't see what people have to hide, this is a swinging website after all

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you will get the usual pish about being straight as they don't fancy men, want to date a man or live happily ever after with a man's cock up him...

but the odd bj is ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens !

Being a bi fella is still frowned upon by many and social conditioning tells us it's not right.

Admitting you like cock can be a headfuck and it doesn't come easy

On sites like this, many people will state whatever they think might get them more shags than the alternatives available to them.

I like cock, am not ashamed by it, but contrary to what Blonde Caz thinks, I DO NOT MINCE !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lmao "Oh hey guys this is my new pub friend. We met on a swinging site and just decided to go for a drink.""

That's exactly what I thought too! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, ye, love to read the veris of men who just randomly go for socials with other men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lmao "Oh hey guys this is my new pub friend. We met on a swinging site and just decided to go for a drink."

That's exactly what I thought too! Lol"

well if you believe that, then ya'll believe owt. I'm off back to my flower pressing now.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone explain why when a single guys profile states they are looking to meet other men (M and MM), does it also say they are straight? I've seen this so many times! "

Some aren't really straight!

Some are just fantasising!

Some believe any holes (or mouths!) a goal.

Some believe getting chummy with another bloke on here will mean he'll introduce them to all his friends and meets. (Believe me - this happens!!)

Oh - and some have no idea which boxes they were ticking when they set up their profile because they'd just been dumped by their GF and had consumed their own bodyweight in stella!

And then there's those in denial! lol

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By *ouple4funnewCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"lmao "Oh hey guys this is my new pub friend. We met on a swinging site and just decided to go for a drink.""

haha

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Some believe getting chummy with another bloke on here will mean he'll introduce them to all his friends and meets. (Believe me - this happens!!)

ain't that the truth

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Is the answer... because at the end of the day there are so many thick ignorant cunts on here who do not understand sexuality unless it fits into 3 neat boxes, that you may as well tick a box at random because whatever you do tick it won't stop the arrogant shitheads coming along in the forum and tell you 100% what your sexuality is even though they don't have the first fucking clue about what makes you tick.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Some believe getting chummy with another bloke on here will mean he'll introduce them to all his friends and meets. (Believe me - this happens!!)

ain't that the truth

Isn't that what a lot of couples have been doing for decades?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about getting verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met lots of guys at tv clubs who claim to be straight but fuck tv's. They justify this stance by saying that they fuck guys who dress like girls. Usually the sex is totally one sided with them as they really don't want anything to do with me. So they just want something vaguely feminine to unload into basically.

Genuinely bi guys are usually fine but Alot of guys won't put it on a profile as it does narrow your chances of meeting females/couples. Homophobia is still rife and there's Alot of guys in couples who think Bi means that we're all screaming queens who will be unable to resist touching their willies. And there's Alot of women who think it makes us less macho or crap in the sack with them. In a way being bi has more stigma attached than being gay.

Personally I think being Bi means you know the best and worst of all sexual activities, and is fucking awesome.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"It happens !

Being a bi fella is still frowned upon by many and social conditioning tells us it's not right.

Admitting you like cock can be a headfuck and it doesn't come easy

On sites like this, many people will state whatever they think might get them more shags than the alternatives available to them.

I like cock, am not ashamed by it, but contrary to what Blonde Caz thinks, I DO NOT MINCE !

I'll check it out at the Manc social....I'm googling saunter and mince and checking the difference - get practising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think being Bi means you know the best and worst of all sexual activities, and is fucking awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are we to judge anyway ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the two guys that verify each other but say they're straight and had an mmf with a lady who left the site

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

"It happens !

Being a bi fella is still frowned upon by many and social conditioning tells us it's not right.

Admitting you like cock can be a headfuck and it doesn't come easy

On sites like this, many people will state whatever they think might get them more shags than the alternatives available to them.

I like cock, am not ashamed by it, but contrary to what Blonde Caz thinks, I DO NOT MINCE !

I'll check it out at the Manc social....I'm googling saunter and mince and checking the difference - get practising

You'll have to report back Caz.

I reckon Bussy minces in his pink fluffy mules all round manchester

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

"Have met lots of guys at tv clubs who claim to be straight but fuck tv's. They justify this stance by saying that they fuck guys who dress like girls. Usually the sex is totally one sided with them as they really don't want anything to do with me.

I found reading that quite sad really. Hope you pick better meets than some of them divs who make you feel like that

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

They hedging their bets ... or just want choice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens !

Being a bi fella is still frowned upon by many and social conditioning tells us it's not right.

Admitting you like cock can be a headfuck and it doesn't come easy

On sites like this, many people will state whatever they think might get them more shags than the alternatives available to them.

I like cock, am not ashamed by it, but contrary to what Blonde Caz thinks, I DO NOT MINCE !

I'll check it out at the Manc social....I'm googling saunter and mince and checking the difference - get practising

You'll have to report back Caz.

I reckon Bussy minces in his pink fluffy mules all round manchester

they're not mules

they are kitten heel sling backs

and as stated earlier, I DO NOT MINCE !

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

You'll have to report back Caz.

I reckon Bussy minces in his pink fluffy mules all round manchester

they're not mules

they are kitten heel sling backs

and as stated earlier, I DO NOT MINCE !"

I bet you've got the pink fluffy robe to match as well?

And pfffft @ kitten heels! What are you? A man or a mincer ooops I meant mouse

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By *rryTMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Perhaps they're not sure. Most blokes who haven't had a bi experience are likely to class themselves as straight.

Doesn't mean nothing else could ever happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll have to report back Caz.

I reckon Bussy minces in his pink fluffy mules all round manchester

they're not mules

they are kitten heel sling backs

and as stated earlier, I DO NOT MINCE !

I bet you've got the pink fluffy robe to match as well?

And pfffft @ kitten heels! What are you? A man or a mincer ooops I meant mouse "

i've never had the ankles for stilettos

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Plenty of straight guys love to play with cock, some great blowjobs have been had..

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

"Plenty of straight guys love to play with cock, some great blowjobs have been had.."

that doesn't make sense to me, sorry.

I am curious about playing with women, doesn't mean I am totally straight or bi or gay, and unfortunately there isn't as much stigma attached to being a bi fem on here, so why is there stigma attached to bi men? (probably really naive of me to wonder, but I don't get it)

Me being bi-curious does not mean I am after EVERY female that comes within 10 feet of me. So why should it be seen as that about a bi male?

I have heard of being 'orally bi' so why not admit you are 'orally bi' instead of being straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty of straight guys love to play with cock, some great blowjobs have been had..

that doesn't make sense to me, sorry.

Me being bi-curious does not mean I am after EVERY female that comes within 10 feet of me. So why should it be seen as that about a bi male?

I have heard of being 'orally bi' so why not admit you are 'orally bi' instead of being straight?"

Genius idea!

Now why didn't I think of that sooner?

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

"Plenty of straight guys love to play with cock, some great blowjobs have been had..

that doesn't make sense to me, sorry.

Me being bi-curious does not mean I am after EVERY female that comes within 10 feet of me. So why should it be seen as that about a bi male?

I have heard of being 'orally bi' so why not admit you are 'orally bi' instead of being straight?

Genius idea!

Now why didn't I think of that sooner?

Apologies for being daft, just don't get the whole hoo harr about bi men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels can make socialising easier sometimes but personally, I think they suck! I say I'm straight and people judge. I say I'm bi and people judge. To make it easier, I just say I'm sexual. Not hetero, not homo, not bi, just sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty of straight guys love to play with cock, some great blowjobs have been had..

that doesn't make sense to me, sorry.

Me being bi-curious does not mean I am after EVERY female that comes within 10 feet of me. So why should it be seen as that about a bi male?

I have heard of being 'orally bi' so why not admit you are 'orally bi' instead of being straight?

Genius idea!

Now why didn't I think of that sooner?

Apologies for being daft, just don't get the whole hoo harr about bi men"

You're not daft! Everyone else is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found reading that quite sad really. Hope you pick better meets than some of them divs who make you feel like that "

Oh yes, I soon refined my shag filter and its guys who know what they're doing only now!

As for the whole orally-bi thing, it's fine as long as the people who use the term actually give AND receive. Met people who say orally-bi to mean they don't mind a guy giving them a blowjob! What a shock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dave here.

I'm fully bi and frankly don't give a damn (think I've heard that somewhere before lol) what people think of me.

If that means that some couples don't want to meet because they're unsure of it, then fine, it's their choice and you move on.

This is why we meet at Chams on a Monday night where there is no judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im mainly straight but get the odd bi mo thinking of changing my profile cos fed up of straight guys messaging me anyone else get this problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will be whatever they think you want them to be if it means they can get their rocks off.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

I'm quite honest about being bi, I'm happy playing with cock or pussy, preferably both! Not everyone likes it though and that's their preference, a boring world if we all liked the same.

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

"Can anyone explain why when a single guys profile states they are looking to meet other men (M and MM), does it also say they are straight? I've seen this so many times! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty of straight guys love to play with cock, some great blowjobs have been had..

that doesn't make sense to me, sorry.

Me being bi-curious does not mean I am after EVERY female that comes within 10 feet of me. So why should it be seen as that about a bi male?

I have heard of being 'orally bi' so why not admit you are 'orally bi' instead of being straight?

Genius idea!

Now why didn't I think of that sooner?

Apologies for being daft, just don't get the whole hoo harr about bi men"

Quite honestly its because some men think that if that accidentally see or touch another guys cock that they'll suddenly be bi or ever worse, gay! *shock*

I agree with you, just because I play with guys in a mff situation sometimes, doesn't make me bi, straight, gay or whatever. I don't walk down the street looking at other guys thinking how hot they are but I sure as hell do it looking women! and yet, I'll happily suck another guy off in a mmf threesome meet so what does that make me?

Actually, who cares what anyone thinks it makes, I'm enjoying myself and not putting any labels on myself or anyone else means you get the best of all worlds!

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By *TR8HUNTERMan
over a year ago

midlands

makes me laff i love str8 men lol

but yes says str8 and they no thanks read im str8 im jus cheeky so do msg

but then i see they have met tvs n cds lol

mmm they still have a cok lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I figure straight would mean only being interested in the opposite sex. Straight/hetero obviously meaning a man + woman combo. Therefore if they have anything with a man or even a TV/TS then they aren't straight at all. They are bi. The only reason bi guys probably lie about being straight is because some women won't meet bi guys because some women just want the type of guy who likes to dominate woman and not one who's submissive and has an exception for guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I figure straight would mean only being interested in the opposite sex. Straight/hetero obviously meaning a man + woman combo. Therefore if they have anything with a man or even a TV/TS then they aren't straight at all. They are bi. The only reason bi guys probably lie about being straight is because some women won't meet bi guys because some women just want the type of guy who likes to dominate woman and not one who's submissive and has an exception for guys."

Can't answer for any other woman looking for straight guys but personally I have my own reasons and they have got fuck all to do with being dominated !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard that bi guys are apparently more likely to contract diseases or whatever as well but I didn't want to use that reason because i've not really bothered to look into it.

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By *ucycuteTV/TS
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

"Can anyone explain why when a single guys profile states they are looking to meet other men (M and MM), does it also say they are straight? I've seen this so many times! "

Also may straight guys wanting to meet tv which confuses me also xx When asked I normally get the reply "my friend or folk I know are on here so didn't want them to know"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard that bi guys are apparently more likely to contract diseases or whatever as well but I didn't want to use that reason because i've not really bothered to look into it."

Utter bollocks. If you use protection you have the same chances as anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard that bi guys are apparently more likely to contract diseases or whatever as well but I didn't want to use that reason because i've not really bothered to look into it.

Utter bollocks. If you use protection you have the same chances as anyone else.

And that's where the problem lies.

Many guys still only see condoms as contraception but they can't get another guy pregnant so where's the problem?

When we used to go to a swinging club, Trace would have to tell at least one guy a night "Yes you do need to use a condom!".

I, on the other hand, only ever had one woman say that I didn't have to use a condom to have sex with her, I told her that I did.

We also used to frequent a local gay club, had some great nights but the tales the gay guys told us about straight/bi guys would send shivers down your spine!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard that bi guys are apparently more likely to contract diseases or whatever as well but I didn't want to use that reason because i've not really bothered to look into it.

Utter bollocks. If you use protection you have the same chances as anyone else.

And that's where the problem lies.

Many guys still only see condoms as contraception but they can't get another guy pregnant so where's the problem?

When we used to go to a swinging club, Trace would have to tell at least one guy a night "Yes you do need to use a condom!".

I, on the other hand, only ever had one woman say that I didn't have to use a condom to have sex with her, I told her that I did.

We also used to frequent a local gay club, had some great nights but the tales the gay guys told us about straight/bi guys would send shivers down your spine!

XXXX"

Wow!

You mean condoms are for more than stopping you get pregnant???

Hold the front page!!!!!!

Jeez - sometimes i'm truly, truly amazed at some of the things I read in the forums!

Cos of course - I heard there were these little white pills women could take to stop that - so they could fuck as many straight guys as they wanted without condoms!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There not enough actually willing to follow through other than a bit of chat,pic swap etc...most just like the fantasy but I'm Happy to help out anymore interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard that bi guys are apparently more likely to contract diseases or whatever as well but I didn't want to use that reason because i've not really bothered to look into it.

Utter bollocks. If you use protection you have the same chances as anyone else.

And that's where the problem lies.

Many guys still only see condoms as contraception but they can't get another guy pregnant so where's the problem?

When we used to go to a swinging club, Trace would have to tell at least one guy a night "Yes you do need to use a condom!".

I, on the other hand, only ever had one woman say that I didn't have to use a condom to have sex with her, I told her that I did.

We also used to frequent a local gay club, had some great nights but the tales the gay guys told us about straight/bi guys would send shivers down your spine!

XXXX

Wow!

You mean condoms are for more than stopping you get pregnant???

Hold the front page!!!!!!

Jeez - sometimes i'm truly, truly amazed at some of the things I read in the forums!

Cos of course - I heard there were these little white pills women could take to stop that - so they could fuck as many straight guys as they wanted without condoms!!

Well despite your inane sarcasm..... and you know what they say about sarcasm.....we think you have the sense to know exactly what we mean.

Those gay guys actually see the "straight/bi guys" as the biggest risk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not being bi/ straight/ gay/ male/ female that makes someone risky.

Being risky makes them risky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also used to frequent a local gay club, had some great nights but the tales the gay guys told us about straight/bi guys would send shivers down your spine!

Having frequented a gay sauna before visiting Chams as a couple, I can equally comment that the gay guys are just as bad as the straight/bi guys within that club. You put any group of gay guys together and safety flies out the window. So I'm sorry, but the comment that Bi guys are more at risk than anyone else is rubbish. As the above post states, being risky is what makes anyone a risk, regardless of sex or orientation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard that bi guys are apparently more likely to contract diseases or whatever as well but I didn't want to use that reason because i've not really bothered to look into it.

Utter bollocks. If you use protection you have the same chances as anyone else.

And that's where the problem lies.

Many guys still only see condoms as contraception but they can't get another guy pregnant so where's the problem?

When we used to go to a swinging club, Trace would have to tell at least one guy a night "Yes you do need to use a condom!".

I, on the other hand, only ever had one woman say that I didn't have to use a condom to have sex with her, I told her that I did.

We also used to frequent a local gay club, had some great nights but the tales the gay guys told us about straight/bi guys would send shivers down your spine!

XXXX

Wow!

You mean condoms are for more than stopping you get pregnant???

Hold the front page!!!!!!

Jeez - sometimes i'm truly, truly amazed at some of the things I read in the forums!

Cos of course - I heard there were these little white pills women could take to stop that - so they could fuck as many straight guys as they wanted without condoms!!

Well despite your inane sarcasm..... and you know what they say about sarcasm.....we think you have the sense to know exactly what we mean.

Those gay guys actually see the "straight/bi guys" as the biggest risk!"

I do have the sense to know what you mean!

And i've been in this earth long enough to meet enough straight, bi, male, female, singles and couples to know that sexual orientation bears no relation to attitude to risk.

I've met many a single female and 'straight' couple who have suggested that as i seem such a responsible guy - common sense should go out the window.

Yes I was being sarcastic - but only as I'm sick to the back teeth of people making broad generalisations about people without taking the time to consider each and every one of them as individuals.

And to treat them with the equal respect they deserve!

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