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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Pornography has been shown to weaken commitment in marriages because it creates an utterly false impression of what a normal body looks like and what sexual behavior is really about."

Discuss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a big statement.

Not done us any harm at all

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Think marriage is more detrimental to your sex life

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By *hrobinsonMan
over a year ago

Bridgnorth

I prefer amateur to plastic porn as the studio stuff is completely unrelatable.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I would assume it would depend on your sexual maturity and the type of porn you where watching.

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend


"Think marriage is more detrimental to your sex life "

Speak for yourself ours has got better since we are married, but we are lucky!

Porn has not damaged our relationship. We use it together to show eachother something we like, or watch it together. My husband watches it on his own which I have no issue with. I'm not a size 4 (more like a 14), he adores my body the way it is, watching porn hasn't changed that.

Equally, I love his body. Porn hasn't changed that for me either.

Normal healthy bodies, no matter the size, and a happy healthy person, is what is attractive to us. Be that a size 4 or 24, if you are happy, so are we. Porn hasn't changed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We watch it occasionally sometimes more sometimes less.

We sometimes use it as a shopping list of things I would like to do or try. So it probably has developed our sex life rather than hindered it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hasn't done us any harm. However, lately we've been watching our own homemade porn.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We don't watch it. The real thing is so much better than watching a Lady acting to feed her kids and buy some more powder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer amateur to plastic porn as the studio stuff is completely unrelatable."
This, totally. real amateur porn only.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

It can be corrupting

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Nope we both enjoy porn most nights. have a great sex life.porn does give you ideas as a couple to try out or scenarios wed like to try. So for us it works

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I think you would have to be a very weak-minded person to think porn is reality.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"It can be corrupting "

This I agree with.

After watching many male/male porn videos, and finding they really turn me on, I decided to look for a bi mmf.

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By *rGenuineMan
over a year ago

Purley

Judging by a lot of videos on here most people seem to think that leaving your socks on and pounding a woman to within an inch of her life is actually sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We watch it together... Never did us any harm..... Wobble wibble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much of it is just plain nasty and misogynistic these days and frankly boring...always better when you know the lady is genuinely enjoying herself...most on here can distinguish porn from reality and enjoy it accordingly...deeply uneasy about the impact on impressionable young people

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"I would assume it would depend on your sexual maturity and the type of porn you where watching."

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


""Pornography has been shown to weaken commitment in marriages because it creates an utterly false impression of what a normal body looks like and what sexual behavior is really about."

Discuss... "

I can appreciate that Porn creates a false impression of what constitutes “normal sexual behaviour” in some people.

Based on this, and the perception that their partner is somehow holding back or withholding something, I can see that leading to strains on commitment.

However I would suggest that couples that have a strong relationship where they can be open and honest about their sex life are unlikely to be as affected (if at all) by the use of Porn than those couples where their sex life (or lack thereof) is already a threat to the relationship

I don’t believe Porn has a massive affect on body image, unlike social media, entertainment (music, TV and Film) and other advertising channels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it. Gets us off jointly and severally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we sometimes watch it together, other than that then no, doesnt really do anything for either of us, but if people want to then dont have a problem with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching it or being in it?

I wouldn't say it's a negative influence no, it gets you horny and gives ideas. I do prefer amateur as it's more relatable. Xx

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I don't think it would, us guys know majority of it is false and fake we also all have our favourite type of woman we find sexy. It can definitely be used as a positive in the correct way and spice thi gs up for some.

One thing it can do though is maybe blur the line of what is expected during sex. Especially to the less experienced and younger viewer. Also it is way too easy to access.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think there's an association between the media images and body confidence etc, that will spill over to porn too. It's more about the creation of unrealistic sexual expectations that's the problem imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal experience I’d say in a past relationship the sex life wasn’t great and turned to porn for my ‘fix’ rather than dealing with the problem.

So I’d say porn can be harmful if used in the wrong way, if it’s replacing sex and stopping dealing with why that’s become the substitute (I was younger)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you dont watch a horror movie and go out and kill or a hero movie and fly same with porn its entertainment nothing more nothing less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! We are who we are and embrace that.

Wouldn't wish to be anybody else

Her x

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I find watching porn boring

Yet am really turned on naughty chatting or texting ..

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Watching it or being in it?

I wouldn't say it's a negative influence no, it gets you horny and gives ideas. I do prefer amateur as it's more relatable. Xx"

I do like amateur...man coming to fix the boiler...etc better than monotonous pounding...

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"It can be corrupting "

Completely agree with this. The porn industry is evil. Above all, it normalises sexual violence, and loads both men and women with ridiculous expectations and pressures to do things which may not be safe or suitable.

Also, it ramps up the stimulus required to excite. Young becomes teen. Teen becomes 'barely legal', and we all know the progression thereafter. Porn deals in taboos and extremes, and humans cannot be trusted to keep certain things within the realm of fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the individuals watching it I gues.

I will say that there’s never enough kissing ... xx

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"So much of it is just plain nasty and misogynistic these days and frankly boring...always better when you know the lady is genuinely enjoying herself...most on here can distinguish porn from reality and enjoy it accordingly...deeply uneasy about the impact on impressionable young people "

This

Imagine being a teenage boy, and your first experience watching sex involves seeing a woman on her knees gagging, being slapped, spat on, and roughly used by a group of men with their hands around her neck. It’s degrading and dehumanising.

Porn sends a message. It’s one that does nothing for the way men see women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be corrupting

Completely agree with this. The porn industry is evil. Above all, it normalises sexual violence, and loads both men and women with ridiculous expectations and pressures to do things which may not be safe or suitable.

Also, it ramps up the stimulus required to excite. Young becomes teen. Teen becomes 'barely legal', and we all know the progression thereafter. Porn deals in taboos and extremes, and humans cannot be trusted to keep certain things within the realm of fantasy."

Again with the double standards with you freaky anti porn people. If your relationships and behaviours are affected by porn stop watching it. But your baseless arguments are antiquated and founded in puritanical bullshit.

Other than penetration. There is nothing represented in porn that is not shown everywhere else. Sexual abuse and violence toward women is all over tv and movies. The entire entertainment industry is about warping your expectations about yourself and selling you a fantasy version of you. The porn industry is not evil anymore than any other industry trying to sell us a product and your save the children argument only exists because parents won't blame themselves. Anyone with a child under the age of eighteen is responsible for their input so if your child is fat, violent or addicted to porn then that is the problem of the parent and not society.

Also I do have to point out the irony of you attacking the women in the porn industry by calling them evil while you plaster your gorgeous body over a sex site. I am telling my mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I am 38 years old. Been with my wife nearly 20 years and all porn did for us is make it better.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"It can be corrupting

Completely agree with this. The porn industry is evil. Above all, it normalises sexual violence, and loads both men and women with ridiculous expectations and pressures to do things which may not be safe or suitable.

Also, it ramps up the stimulus required to excite. Young becomes teen. Teen becomes 'barely legal', and we all know the progression thereafter. Porn deals in taboos and extremes, and humans cannot be trusted to keep certain things within the realm of fantasy.

Again with the double standards with you freaky anti porn people. If your relationships and behaviours are affected by porn stop watching it. But your baseless arguments are antiquated and founded in puritanical bullshit.

Other than penetration. There is nothing represented in porn that is not shown everywhere else. Sexual abuse and violence toward women is all over tv and movies. The entire entertainment industry is about warping your expectations about yourself and selling you a fantasy version of you. The porn industry is not evil anymore than any other industry trying to sell us a product and your save the children argument only exists because parents won't blame themselves. Anyone with a child under the age of eighteen is responsible for their input so if your child is fat, violent or addicted to porn then that is the problem of the parent and not society.

Also I do have to point out the irony of you attacking the women in the porn industry by calling them evil while you plaster your gorgeous body over a sex site. I am telling my mum."

I think the nude selfies of a middle aged mum in her own home aren’t comparable to the exploitation of the porn industry!

Also, when did I attack women? I can't seem to find it in either of my posts.

Women are the greater victims of pornography, not the perpetrators.

I work in gynae. Porn actresses' bodies, minds, and lives are often used up by their profession. I’ve also seen, on a daily basis, the after effects of mens' steadily increasing expectations of women, due to porn consumption.

It’s great if watching porn doesn’t affect what you do, personally. The same cannot be said of everybody else.

Also, blaming the parents of minors exploited by porn is more than a little glib, don’t you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Again with the double standards with you freaky anti porn people. If your relationships and behaviours are affected by porn stop watching it. But your baseless arguments are antiquated and founded in puritanical bullshit.

Other than penetration. There is nothing represented in porn that is not shown everywhere else. Sexual abuse and violence toward women is all over tv and movies. The entire entertainment industry is about warping your expectations about yourself and selling you a fantasy version of you. The porn industry is not evil anymore than any other industry trying to sell us a product and your save the children argument only exists because parents won't blame themselves. Anyone with a child under the age of eighteen is responsible for their input so if your child is fat, violent or addicted to porn then that is the problem of the parent and not society.

Also I do have to point out the irony of you attacking the women in the porn industry by calling them evil while you plaster your gorgeous body over a sex site. I am telling my mum."

I think the greatest irony is your use of 'baseless arguments'. One can spot a weak argument easily when the opener is simply ad hominem. If you want to prove someone wrong you actually have to refute it and use evidence rather than call them names.

I'd love to see how you can prove that the claim 'porn normalises sexual violence' is baseless. Puritanical attitudes have nothing to do with it, since it's beyond the anecdotal.

"There is nothing represented in porn that is not shown everywhere else" is an easily debunked claim. One quick search of xhamster would have your point neatly swept aside, let alone what might lurk in the dark web.

It's not wrong to say that the entertainment industry is about warping expectations, it's the product of the TV Industrial Complex, but that does not make porn right.

The OP asked us about damage to marriage because of unrealistic expectations; I find it hard to comment since each marriage exists on its own merits. What I can say is that any form of porn forms a dopamine chase which can alter the perception and receipt of pleasure.

The false equivalence of porn vs consumer marketing is a misnomer. How can one compare the physical exploitation of a porn actress to someone selling us a TV set?

The straw man argument also prevails in your post, positing that someone who calls porn evil is also calling women in the porn industry evil is at least mildly disingenuous.

Finally, there's no ironical comparison between porn and someone posting their pictures here. While images on here can be considered pornographic, they are not part of the porn industry. The individual choice to posting an erotic image is not really comparable to the mass-market of porn. Whether looking at her gorgeous body has a negative impact on your marriage is another matter and between you and your conscience.

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Nr Brighton 1 till 5pm areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

Lots of strong and interesting options.

I like porn personally, but 100% nothing ever beats the real thing.

And although I watch it thankfully its never affected my between the sheets performances impo.

T.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I think porn is fine, I think most people take it for what is and are intelligent enough not to take too seriously, and just use it as entertainment.

They can learn from it in a good way and broadens their minds.

I'm more inclined to think it keeps men from doing harm to women, if their watching it they're not out pestering women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Pornography has been shown to weaken commitment in marriages because it creates an utterly false impression of what a normal body looks like and what sexual behavior is really about."

Discuss... "
I’m surprised at that answer. I thought it could maybe put pressure on ppl to try do the same etc. Personally it’s always helped me but rarely watched with a partner. But the bodies bit I disagree with coz they have all different shapes and sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it or leave it but when horny it’s a life saver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of you listen now because I am only going to say this once. Before you all get on your morals about the exploitation of women in the porn industry try actually talking to a performer about their experiences instead of projecting your own judgements on them. Oh and attractive mum lady, by saying that porn is evil you are in fact condemning the women who choose that work. And to consumer argument man clearly pretending he is not a consumer. Porn is a consumer industry like any other. If all you fucked up misogynist boys want to fuck their stepmother and spit on people then the industry will reflect that. But as with everything you are responsible for what you consume and there for what is created.

There is just as much porn about loving couples and consent but if you are not seeing that well that is on you not porn.

Grow up, stop generalizing nuance subjects you know very little about and actually gain some knowledge first. Before you start ranting right wing talking points and calling it feminism.

Oh and before ya'all clap back on that last comment here are my credentials. Two behind the scenes podcasts my favourite beings Asa Akira's show and a few friends and an ex partner in the British porn industry. So if porn is evil then evil pays very well and makes some people very happy. Hail Satan, evil is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think porn educates you and makes you want for experiences.

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By *onguesandpunsMan
over a year ago

East Midlands


"So much of it is just plain nasty and misogynistic these days and frankly boring...always better when you know the lady is genuinely enjoying herself...most on here can distinguish porn from reality and enjoy it accordingly...deeply uneasy about the impact on impressionable young people

This

Imagine being a teenage boy, and your first experience watching sex involves seeing a woman on her knees gagging, being slapped, spat on, and roughly used by a group of men with their hands around her neck. It’s degrading and dehumanising.

Porn sends a message. It’s one that does nothing for the way men see women."

I could not agree more with all of this. A huge amount of modern 'mainstream' porn involves watching women being slapped either in the face or bum, hands around the throat, having a cock forced right down their throat, spat on, called a dirty bitch or a whore etc etc. Female porn actors often look in pain in scenes too, which is deeply disturbing. I tend to either watch amateur or vintage porn as there tends to be a level of intimacy and/or mutual enjoyment that's sadly lacking in modern porn. Just awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Pornography has been shown to weaken commitment in marriages because it creates an utterly false impression of what a normal body looks like and what sexual behavior is really about."

Discuss... "

Porn has done nothing to change how is think sexual behaviour is or should be. It fulfills fantasy which i know is unrealistic.

BUT i realise its had a significant effect on desensitisation to seeing a naked body or sex.

Somethings that should turn me on don't any more. Which means I have definitely watched too much.

So I'm trying to wean (i sound addicted) myself off it. To reset my self.

Easier said than done !

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"I think porn educates you and makes you want for experiences."

I think you’ve unwittingly proven my point very succinctly, my friend.

If this is what the man in the street thinks, porn is more dangerous than even I imagined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call them specialist movies or even sometimes, research films. It hasn't warped my ideas on sex. The navy did that for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think porn educates you and makes you want for experiences.

I think you’ve unwittingly proven my point very succinctly, my friend.

If this is what the man in the street thinks, porn is more dangerous than even I imagined."

To majority maybe.

But then there's self control and mutual agreement.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Judging by a lot of videos on here most people seem to think that leaving your socks on and pounding a woman to within an inch of her life is actually sexy."

I’ve noticed this too and it’s not sexy at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it damages your relationship if you are watching it and the person you are married to hates it or takes it personally.

I watch porn because I'm horny and I want to cum, not because I am only attracted to that body type or want to fuck the people I'm watching.

The only thing it's gave me an unreal expectation of is work men

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"I think porn is fine, I think most people take it for what is and are intelligent enough not to take too seriously, and just use it as entertainment.

They can learn from it in a good way and broadens their minds.

I'm more inclined to think it keeps men from doing harm to women, if their watching it they're not out pestering women."

Look at the biggest porn consumers: single men who cannot get a partner, this includes the incel community. It leads to terrible misogyny, hatred, and resentment. Even acts of violence.

Porn doesn’t make some men think, 'well, I’ve had a great orgasm, so it’s all out of my system!'. It makes some hanker after the real thing.

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"Think marriage is more detrimental to your sex life "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst there does need to be some aesthetic attraction to what we are watching, we watch porn more for the acts being carried out and the situations they are set in, rather than what the people look like that are carrying them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much of it is just plain nasty and misogynistic these days and frankly boring...always better when you know the lady is genuinely enjoying herself...most on here can distinguish porn from reality and enjoy it accordingly...deeply uneasy about the impact on impressionable young people

This

Imagine being a teenage boy, and your first experience watching sex involves seeing a woman on her knees gagging, being slapped, spat on, and roughly used by a group of men with their hands around her neck. It’s degrading and dehumanising.

Porn sends a message. It’s one that does nothing for the way men see women.

I could not agree more with all of this. A huge amount of modern 'mainstream' porn involves watching women being slapped either in the face or bum, hands around the throat, having a cock forced right down their throat, spat on, called a dirty bitch or a whore etc etc. Female porn actors often look in pain in scenes too, which is deeply disturbing. I tend to either watch amateur or vintage porn as there tends to be a level of intimacy and/or mutual enjoyment that's sadly lacking in modern porn. Just awful. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of you listen now because I am only going to say this once. Before you all get on your morals about the exploitation of women in the porn industry try actually talking to a performer about their experiences instead of projecting your own judgements on them. Oh and attractive mum lady, by saying that porn is evil you are in fact condemning the women who choose that work. And to consumer argument man clearly pretending he is not a consumer. Porn is a consumer industry like any other. If all you fucked up misogynist boys want to fuck their stepmother and spit on people then the industry will reflect that. But as with everything you are responsible for what you consume and there for what is created.

There is just as much porn about loving couples and consent but if you are not seeing that well that is on you not porn.

Grow up, stop generalizing nuance subjects you know very little about and actually gain some knowledge first. Before you start ranting right wing talking points and calling it feminism.

Oh and before ya'all clap back on that last comment here are my credentials. Two behind the scenes podcasts my favourite beings Asa Akira's show and a few friends and an ex partner in the British porn industry. So if porn is evil then evil pays very well and makes some people very happy. Hail Satan, evil is good."

Duning-Krüger Effect in full force here. The fallacy of the argument from personal experience, throw in a straw man, a non-sequitur, and a sweeping generalisation and you’ve got an argument that would make a sieve look watertight.

So you think it’s not the job of a consumer to check what they consume isn’t morally bankrupt?

The industry reflecting the desires of a consumer group is not the same thing as the industry exploiting those that portray those desires. These are two separate issues and to conflate them is misleading. For the record I take issue with both the subject matter and the exploitation. That does not mean all porn content is wrong or that all actresses are exploited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of you listen now because I am only going to say this once. Before you all get on your morals about the exploitation of women in the porn industry try actually talking to a performer about their experiences instead of projecting your own judgements on them. Oh and attractive mum lady, by saying that porn is evil you are in fact condemning the women who choose that work. And to consumer argument man clearly pretending he is not a consumer. Porn is a consumer industry like any other. If all you fucked up misogynist boys want to fuck their stepmother and spit on people then the industry will reflect that. But as with everything you are responsible for what you consume and there for what is created.

There is just as much porn about loving couples and consent but if you are not seeing that well that is on you not porn.

Grow up, stop generalizing nuance subjects you know very little about and actually gain some knowledge first. Before you start ranting right wing talking points and calling it feminism.

Oh and before ya'all clap back on that last comment here are my credentials. Two behind the scenes podcasts my favourite beings Asa Akira's show and a few friends and an ex partner in the British porn industry. So if porn is evil then evil pays very well and makes some people very happy. Hail Satan, evil is good.

Duning-Krüger Effect in full force here. The fallacy of the argument from personal experience, throw in a straw man, a non-sequitur, and a sweeping generalisation and you’ve got an argument that would make a sieve look watertight.

So you think it’s not the job of a consumer to check what they consume isn’t morally bankrupt?

The industry reflecting the desires of a consumer group is not the same thing as the industry exploiting those that portray those desires. These are two separate issues and to conflate them is misleading. For the record I take issue with both the subject matter and the exploitation. That does not mean all porn content is wrong or that all actresses are exploited."

You were suppose to listen up it won’t be repeated silly

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"All of you listen now because I am only going to say this once. Before you all get on your morals about the exploitation of women in the porn industry try actually talking to a performer about their experiences instead of projecting your own judgements on them. Oh and attractive mum lady, by saying that porn is evil you are in fact condemning the women who choose that work. And to consumer argument man clearly pretending he is not a consumer. Porn is a consumer industry like any other. If all you fucked up misogynist boys want to fuck their stepmother and spit on people then the industry will reflect that. But as with everything you are responsible for what you consume and there for what is created.

There is just as much porn about loving couples and consent but if you are not seeing that well that is on you not porn.

Grow up, stop generalizing nuance subjects you know very little about and actually gain some knowledge first. Before you start ranting right wing talking points and calling it feminism.

Oh and before ya'all clap back on that last comment here are my credentials. Two behind the scenes podcasts my favourite beings Asa Akira's show and a few friends and an ex partner in the British porn industry. So if porn is evil then evil pays very well and makes some people very happy. Hail Satan, evil is good.

Duning-Krüger Effect in full force here. The fallacy of the argument from personal experience, throw in a straw man, a non-sequitur, and a sweeping generalisation and you’ve got an argument that would make a sieve look watertight.

So you think it’s not the job of a consumer to check what they consume isn’t morally bankrupt?

The industry reflecting the desires of a consumer group is not the same thing as the industry exploiting those that portray those desires. These are two separate issues and to conflate them is misleading. For the record I take issue with both the subject matter and the exploitation. That does not mean all porn content is wrong or that all actresses are exploited."

I really love you, you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean comic books aren't real?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of you listen now because I am only going to say this once. Before you all get on your morals about the exploitation of women in the porn industry try actually talking to a performer about their experiences instead of projecting your own judgements on them. Oh and attractive mum lady, by saying that porn is evil you are in fact condemning the women who choose that work. And to consumer argument man clearly pretending he is not a consumer. Porn is a consumer industry like any other. If all you fucked up misogynist boys want to fuck their stepmother and spit on people then the industry will reflect that. But as with everything you are responsible for what you consume and there for what is created.

There is just as much porn about loving couples and consent but if you are not seeing that well that is on you not porn.

Grow up, stop generalizing nuance subjects you know very little about and actually gain some knowledge first. Before you start ranting right wing talking points and calling it feminism.

Oh and before ya'all clap back on that last comment here are my credentials. Two behind the scenes podcasts my favourite beings Asa Akira's show and a few friends and an ex partner in the British porn industry. So if porn is evil then evil pays very well and makes some people very happy. Hail Satan, evil is good.

Duning-Krüger Effect in full force here. The fallacy of the argument from personal experience, throw in a straw man, a non-sequitur, and a sweeping generalisation and you’ve got an argument that would make a sieve look watertight.

So you think it’s not the job of a consumer to check what they consume isn’t morally bankrupt?

The industry reflecting the desires of a consumer group is not the same thing as the industry exploiting those that portray those desires. These are two separate issues and to conflate them is misleading. For the record I take issue with both the subject matter and the exploitation. That does not mean all porn content is wrong or that all actresses are exploited.

I really love you, you know?"

Best. Comment. Ever.

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By *ourneforfunMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"All of you listen now because I am only going to say this once. Before you all get on your morals about the exploitation of women in the porn industry try actually talking to a performer about their experiences instead of projecting your own judgements on them. Oh and attractive mum lady, by saying that porn is evil you are in fact condemning the women who choose that work. And to consumer argument man clearly pretending he is not a consumer. Porn is a consumer industry like any other. If all you fucked up misogynist boys want to fuck their stepmother and spit on people then the industry will reflect that. But as with everything you are responsible for what you consume and there for what is created.

There is just as much porn about loving couples and consent but if you are not seeing that well that is on you not porn.

Grow up, stop generalizing nuance subjects you know very little about and actually gain some knowledge first. Before you start ranting right wing talking points and calling it feminism.

Oh and before ya'all clap back on that last comment here are my credentials. Two behind the scenes podcasts my favourite beings Asa Akira's show and a few friends and an ex partner in the British porn industry. So if porn is evil then evil pays very well and makes some people very happy. Hail Satan, evil is good."

Exactly, I prefer the amateur stuff myself, and I know some of those women are definitely in it for the love of sex, as I met a woman on here a few times, who went on to have a career in porn, and there is another active user who Ive seen having fun on studland beach as well as seeing her amateur videos online.

Yes there are probably some bad people exploiting others, but I believe its the minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think marriage is more detrimental to your sex life "

BRAVO!

from the both of us.. Best comment in AGES!

Px

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"All of you listen now because I am only going to say this once. Before you all get on your morals about the exploitation of women in the porn industry try actually talking to a performer about their experiences instead of projecting your own judgements on them. Oh and attractive mum lady, by saying that porn is evil you are in fact condemning the women who choose that work. And to consumer argument man clearly pretending he is not a consumer. Porn is a consumer industry like any other. If all you fucked up misogynist boys want to fuck their stepmother and spit on people then the industry will reflect that. But as with everything you are responsible for what you consume and there for what is created.

There is just as much porn about loving couples and consent but if you are not seeing that well that is on you not porn.

Grow up, stop generalizing nuance subjects you know very little about and actually gain some knowledge first. Before you start ranting right wing talking points and calling it feminism.

Oh and before ya'all clap back on that last comment here are my credentials. Two behind the scenes podcasts my favourite beings Asa Akira's show and a few friends and an ex partner in the British porn industry. So if porn is evil then evil pays very well and makes some people very happy. Hail Satan, evil is good.

Exactly, I prefer the amateur stuff myself, and I know some of those women are definitely in it for the love of sex, as I met a woman on here a few times, who went on to have a career in porn, and there is another active user who Ive seen having fun on studland beach as well as seeing her amateur videos online.

Yes there are probably some bad people exploiting others, but I believe its the minority."

Only a tiny minority of guns are used in public shootings. It doesn’t mean stricter gun control isn’t necessary.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Any kind of restriction to porn or guns even will only lead to them going underground.

Then there is no control at all.

I see porn like listening to your favourite music it's entertainment nothing more nothing less.

The Vikings didn't have porn to inspire them,yet they still graped and pillaged.

Men have always had unreal expectations of women sexually since day one. Porn isn't the cause it's more like the effect.

Grape purpose typo.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester


"Any kind of restriction to porn or guns even will only lead to them going underground.

Then there is no control at all.

I see porn like listening to your favourite music it's entertainment nothing more nothing less.

The Vikings didn't have porn to inspire them,yet they still graped and pillaged.

Men have always had unreal expectations of women sexually since day one. Porn isn't the cause it's more like the effect.

Grape purpose typo.

"

Woman: Help! I've been graped!

Police: Who was it?

Woman: Well...there was a bunch of 'em!

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud


"Think marriage is more detrimental to your sex life "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that porn is great for your sex life xx it makes us better at sex

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

My sister found my parents porn stash when we/she was about twelve. I've been watching porn ever since. It's not effected my sex life or opinions on women in the slightest. I've learned a great few things from watching porn. Also just because I watch Mmmmmf bi orgies and trans porn doesn't mean that I want to participate. It started out as healthy curiosity and it's stayed that way.

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