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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think I’m looking for a needle in a hay stack

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Your profile is your shop window and is a reflection of you and what you want. If you think that's what your profile is doing then it's perfect the way it is.There is no point in changing it to suit others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s the things it’s not doing much . makes me look like a nob which I do t think I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just updated it

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"That’s the things it’s not doing much . makes me look like a nob which I do t think I am "

You have only had the profile 4 weeks and it's a lockdown. You should not expect to have made any progress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s the things it’s not doing much . makes me look like a nob which I do t think I am

You have only had the profile 4 weeks and it's a lockdown. You should not expect to have made any progress. "

I agree with this.

Put a bit of thought in your pics and profile and prepare it for when we are allowed to meet.

If I was on our couple's profile,

Personally We are not a huge fan of cock pics. You have some nice face pics there. Use them as you are brave enough to show what you look like so embrace it. Already you stand out from the crowd showing them. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just updated it "
iv had a profile before couldn’t keep away

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

I would say show you are more than a cock, 75% cock pics might put some people off.

Maybe look at a few comma's to help it make more sense and poss re wright no.3

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you put a

Cock pic up you get 10 plus views and for a face none . The struggles

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"When you put a

Cock pic up you get 10 plus views and for a face none . The struggles"

Have a look, I'd bet 20p and a packet of skittles those views are from mainly men when you put up a cock pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is very true

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By *ebaucherouspoetMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"When you put a

Cock pic up you get 10 plus views and for a face none . The struggles

Have a look, I'd bet 20p and a packet of skittles those views are from mainly men when you put up a cock pic."

Don't risk the skittles, it's a loaded bet!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"When you put a

Cock pic up you get 10 plus views and for a face none . The struggles

Have a look, I'd bet 20p and a packet of skittles those views are from mainly men when you put up a cock pic.

Don't risk the skittles, it's a loaded bet!"

I know the shizzle

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Do you think I’m looking for a needle in a hay stack "

Where do you intend on looking?

What actions will you be taking once restrictions are lifted and it's deemed safe to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of double standards always telling guys to make the profile stand out yada yada yet load of women dont fill it out or write fill in later. No matter how good your profile is you will just mainly end up with timewasters im afraid. Stick to the forums for the genuine types. Best wishers

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Lot of double standards always telling guys to make the profile stand out yada yada yet load of women dont fill it out or write fill in later. No matter how good your profile is you will just mainly end up with timewasters im afraid. Stick to the forums for the genuine types. Best wishers"

The only women I know who have fill in later are ones that are taking the piss.

The fill in later, 9 times out of 10 will be a man pretending to be a woman in order to get some convo at all or someone getting their kicks at the expense of an unsuspecting dude with cock in hand who thinks he's talking to a woman, OR, someone using the site to escort etc.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Lot of double standards always telling guys to make the profile stand out yada yada yet load of women dont fill it out or write fill in later. No matter how good your profile is you will just mainly end up with timewasters im afraid. Stick to the forums for the genuine types. Best wishers

The only women I know who have fill in later are ones that are taking the piss.

The fill in later, 9 times out of 10 will be a man pretending to be a woman in order to get some convo at all or someone getting their kicks at the expense of an unsuspecting dude with cock in hand who thinks he's talking to a woman, OR, someone using the site to escort etc.

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Oh, the piss takey fill in laters.... I've been here 5 years and have probably seen it 3 times. I don't trawl womens profiles by the hundred though, so can't give an accurate number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of double standards always telling guys to make the profile stand out yada yada yet load of women dont fill it out or write fill in later. No matter how good your profile is you will just mainly end up with timewasters im afraid. Stick to the forums for the genuine types. Best wishers

The only women I know who have fill in later are ones that are taking the piss.

The fill in later, 9 times out of 10 will be a man pretending to be a woman in order to get some convo at all or someone getting their kicks at the expense of an unsuspecting dude with cock in hand who thinks he's talking to a woman, OR, someone using the site to escort etc.

Oh, the piss takey fill in laters.... I've been here 5 years and have probably seen it 3 times. I don't trawl womens profiles by the hundred though, so can't give an accurate number."

Sadly you do get a lot trust me. I make it quiet clear i wont stand for timewasters but those who put mo effort into there profile are just as bad in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think I’m looking for a needle in a hay stack "

"Oh poor me! I swear I'm not doing this so everyone will look at my profile.. Honest!" #Yawn #Boring #PointlessHashtags

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Lot of double standards always telling guys to make the profile stand out yada yada yet load of women dont fill it out or write fill in later. No matter how good your profile is you will just mainly end up with timewasters im afraid. Stick to the forums for the genuine types. Best wishers

The only women I know who have fill in later are ones that are taking the piss.

The fill in later, 9 times out of 10 will be a man pretending to be a woman in order to get some convo at all or someone getting their kicks at the expense of an unsuspecting dude with cock in hand who thinks he's talking to a woman, OR, someone using the site to escort etc.

Oh, the piss takey fill in laters.... I've been here 5 years and have probably seen it 3 times. I don't trawl womens profiles by the hundred though, so can't give an accurate number.

Sadly you do get a lot trust me. I make it quiet clear i wont stand for timewasters but those who put mo effort into there profile are just as bad in my book."

I just did a little experiment. Searched 100 profiles of women looking for men in any age group (wanted to keep it as fair as possible) in a 200 miles radius to me.

There was 1 fill in later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lot of double standards always telling guys to make the profile stand out yada yada yet load of women dont fill it out or write fill in later. No matter how good your profile is you will just mainly end up with timewasters im afraid. Stick to the forums for the genuine types. Best wishers

The only women I know who have fill in later are ones that are taking the piss.

The fill in later, 9 times out of 10 will be a man pretending to be a woman in order to get some convo at all or someone getting their kicks at the expense of an unsuspecting dude with cock in hand who thinks he's talking to a woman, OR, someone using the site to escort etc.

Oh, the piss takey fill in laters.... I've been here 5 years and have probably seen it 3 times. I don't trawl womens profiles by the hundred though, so can't give an accurate number.

Sadly you do get a lot trust me. I make it quiet clear i wont stand for timewasters but those who put mo effort into there profile are just as bad in my book.

I just did a little experiment. Searched 100 profiles of women looking for men in any age group (wanted to keep it as fair as possible) in a 200 miles radius to me.

There was 1 fill in later."

Maybe but out of those 100 profiles over 50 or more will be timewasters who probably wont meet ( pre or post covid )

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Lot of double standards always telling guys to make the profile stand out yada yada yet load of women dont fill it out or write fill in later. No matter how good your profile is you will just mainly end up with timewasters im afraid. Stick to the forums for the genuine types. Best wishers

The only women I know who have fill in later are ones that are taking the piss.

The fill in later, 9 times out of 10 will be a man pretending to be a woman in order to get some convo at all or someone getting their kicks at the expense of an unsuspecting dude with cock in hand who thinks he's talking to a woman, OR, someone using the site to escort etc.

Oh, the piss takey fill in laters.... I've been here 5 years and have probably seen it 3 times. I don't trawl womens profiles by the hundred though, so can't give an accurate number.

Sadly you do get a lot trust me. I make it quiet clear i wont stand for timewasters but those who put mo effort into there profile are just as bad in my book.

I just did a little experiment. Searched 100 profiles of women looking for men in any age group (wanted to keep it as fair as possible) in a 200 miles radius to me.

There was 1 fill in later.

Maybe but out of those 100 profiles over 50 or more will be timewasters who probably wont meet ( pre or post covid )"

What constitutes a time waster to you?

Just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of things but to keep it brief someone who aranges dates times etc so you take time out especially for that then no shows without a polite msg or goes cold once you have traveled. As part of a couples profile years ago this was very frustrating.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Lots of things but to keep it brief someone who aranges dates times etc so you take time out especially for that then no shows without a polite msg or goes cold once you have traveled. As part of a couples profile years ago this was very frustrating."

Yeah, my description is someone who arranges a meet and doesn't show without any comms.

I didn't think that many women would actually arrange a meet and then ghost.

Not one that has veris etc and a decent amount of communication beforehand.

I've had to bail before because of work and I've cancelled due to not feeling great.

I dunno, that's a massive amount you're claiming that really doesn't sound correct. Again, I'm heading down the "man pretending to be woman" route for the number to be that high. Most of the women I know wouldn't do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of things but to keep it brief someone who aranges dates times etc so you take time out especially for that then no shows without a polite msg or goes cold once you have traveled. As part of a couples profile years ago this was very frustrating.

Yeah, my description is someone who arranges a meet and doesn't show without any comms.

I didn't think that many women would actually arrange a meet and then ghost.

Not one that has veris etc and a decent amount of communication beforehand.

I've had to bail before because of work and I've cancelled due to not feeling great.

I dunno, that's a massive amount you're claiming that really doesn't sound correct. Again, I'm heading down the "man pretending to be woman" route for the number to be that high. Most of the women I know wouldn't do that."

You maybe right. a lot of the do called "women" are probably guys for some strange reason and i suspect that a lot of people the fantasy is better as when the reality of a meet is there they bottle it. If someone changes there mind thats fine but i find it rude and timewasting if no msg is sent. A few years ago a women sent a msg 5 mins before she was due to arrive and just said sorry i have lost my nerve and i respected her so much for that as sending that msg took more bottle than any meet.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"When you put a

Cock pic up you get 10 plus views and for a face none . The struggles"

Most people say they want to see the person not the cock!

If all your window is cock then what do you think people will do? Move on I suspect is the answer. You have been here for 5 weeks all of which were in lockdown what is it you are expecting to happen? 99% of genuine people on here would not meet durin lockdown so expecting meets is unrealistic and if found out may result in a ban from the site.

Take the advice given or don't that's your choice but we would not meet a profile that was mainly cock pics and lots of others on here are of the same view.

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By *liviaGTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

Any advise for me how to take profile pic ?

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"Any advise for me how to take profile pic ? "

Ask a good friend to help, or try a tripod and timer

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your photos don't give viewers much of a guide how you would look in person if meeting, so they'll be unsure if they look at it. People move on, until a profile gives them more certainty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So any pointers made a few tweaks I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Annual review lol any fancy giving one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Annual review lol any fancy giving one "

Your profile is great, it looks perfect to me. No need to make any changes.

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Self identify as a woman, then you can say how shit all men are in your status, say how you hate all men in your profile, delete all the messages you get cos "oops I pressed wrong button please send again" whilst also apparently looking to meet some of the men you hate. Sorted

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Do you think I’m looking for a needle in a hay stack "

I would 100% change your profile pic...messy back grounds is a thing in here and not many folk like that at all.

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By *liviaGTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

That's good idea.. if I find some one to take pic of me

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Do you think I’m looking for a needle in a hay stack

I would 100% change your profile pic...messy back grounds is a thing in here and not many folk like that at all."

I agree worst I’ve seen

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By *JAM...Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Do you think I’m looking for a needle in a hay stack

I would 100% change your profile pic...messy back grounds is a thing in here and not many folk like that at all."

My thoughts exactly no woman gonna fling there legs up in that room it's fucking filthy lol

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By *liviaGTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

Plz any advise for my profile ??

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