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By *irtyold man OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Ladies i am unusual in that it takes me 1hr of sex before i can orgasam.reason for this bad chialdhood so can never fully relax to orgasam.ive had many women say arnt you enjoying it you havent cum but i am rock hard.do women prefer fast orgasam or 1hr like me

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

No one wants to have sex non stop for an hour, it will get painful

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Do you mean an hour of penetration?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one wants to have sex non stop for an hour, it will get painful"

I'd happily take that

Be disappointed with less

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By *irtyold man OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Yes it takes me 1hr of slow deep sensual penatration before i get worked up inough to cum

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Wow stamina ....! I’d be dead

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By *irtyold man OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Thanks s1ren some women like it long and slow but sum think somthing is rong if its not over in 30mins

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Is this a look at me I'm a sex machine thread

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By *irtyold man OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Its not stamina like the song relax when you want to cum .i finde it hard to relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the warning, I'll cross you off the list, dont want a hour of that

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Thanks for the warning, I'll cross you off the list, dont want a hour of that "

I was about to say, i think this post will put a lot of people off meeting the OP.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"No one wants to have sex non stop for an hour, it will get painful

I'd happily take that

Be disappointed with less"

An hour of non stop penetration....you'd actually enjoy that?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Wow stamina ....! I’d be dead "

I’d be bored.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Wow stamina ....! I’d be dead

I’d be bored."

Excellent bring your egg timer you've pulled

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Wow stamina ....! I’d be dead

I’d be bored."

Found this funny

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Wow stamina ....! I’d be dead

I’d be bored."

If it was the one same position amd little verbal interactionx i think anyone would get bored.

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

Yeah, I’ve often thought about 10-20 mins is probably the ideal length of time (although I could be quite a long way out - it’s not as though I tend to be looking at my watch!)

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By *eneralPMan
over a year ago

other

I get the feeling the OP is looking for some reassurance.

In the sense of how long I guess some may be pleased and some may find it too much, if you connect with somebody it will be somebody that no doubt understands what you have to do. Conversely; if a woman took that long to orgasm then a lot of guys would give up, the expectation is that we don’t and that’s absolutely right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I can go for an hr be lucky to get 30 min

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Its not stamina like the song relax when you want to cum .i finde it hard to relax "

How long does it take when wanking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow stamina ....! I’d be dead

I’d be bored.

Found this funny "

Perhaps they meant ...boned

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By *irtyold man OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley

For those who think its funny or a stunt .just try having the first ten years of youre life having youre minde and body broken and you will have probs relaxing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I would be bored too.

Not what you want to hear OP, but its the truth.

I come here for fun and that doesnt sound like it.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Wow stamina ....! I’d be dead

I’d be bored."

Well may a book or tv on I’m thinking

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"No one wants to have sex non stop for an hour, it will get painful

I'd happily take that

Be disappointed with less

An hour of non stop penetration....you'd actually enjoy that?"

I wouldn’t. I had that once, almost an hour and a half of penetration in missionary, no variation. I was bored stiff, and pretty sore by the end of it, because I got dry. He was so pleased with himself for how long he’d lasted that I didn’t have the heart to tell him.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

As for OP, as you have a psychological problem that causes this, I think you should probably consider therapy. Whether that should be a trauma therapist, a sex therapist, or both, I don’t know. But I do think you’d benefit from it.

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"As for OP, as you have a psychological problem that causes this, I think you should probably consider therapy. Whether that should be a trauma therapist, a sex therapist, or both, I don’t know. But I do think you’d benefit from it."

^ this

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"As for OP, as you have a psychological problem that causes this, I think you should probably consider therapy. Whether that should be a trauma therapist, a sex therapist, or both, I don’t know. But I do think you’d benefit from it.

^ this"

There’s such a stigma around having therapy of any kind, even now, but it’s been incredibly beneficial for me over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All to serious for me, im off

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By *ltcouple941Couple
over a year ago

Hell

Is it an hour to the exact second? Like Cinderella or Shrek with the curse at midnight?

*clock strikes* blam.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Most of my psychological and sexual issues stem from being abused by a very sick couple as a kid. The guilt and shame associated will never entirely go away, but seeking counselling / therapy will help a lot if you haven't already done so please do it as soon as possible.

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By *irtyold man OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I struggle full stop so I understand x I'm sorry you had this experience x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions"

I think you’ve misunderstood the majority of the comments. No-one said they prefer “wham bam”, but an hour of penetrative sex without any oral or other stimulation becomes boring and even painful for a lot of women. Worse than that, many women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex. Also three orgasms in an hour doesn’t seem like a great outcome for most women, honestly.

If you don’t want to pursue therapy, that’s up to you, but it’s not ok to get passive aggressive when women say they don’t like to have sex the way you describe it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for OP, as you have a psychological problem that causes this, I think you should probably consider therapy. Whether that should be a trauma therapist, a sex therapist, or both, I don’t know. But I do think you’d benefit from it."

Totally agree.

T

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions

I think you’ve misunderstood the majority of the comments. No-one said they prefer “wham bam”, but an hour of penetrative sex without any oral or other stimulation becomes boring and even painful for a lot of women. Worse than that, many women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex. Also three orgasms in an hour doesn’t seem like a great outcome for most women, honestly.

If you don’t want to pursue therapy, that’s up to you, but it’s not ok to get passive aggressive when women say they don’t like to have sex the way you describe it."

Passive aggressive?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions

I think you’ve misunderstood the majority of the comments. No-one said they prefer “wham bam”, but an hour of penetrative sex without any oral or other stimulation becomes boring and even painful for a lot of women. Worse than that, many women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex. Also three orgasms in an hour doesn’t seem like a great outcome for most women, honestly.

If you don’t want to pursue therapy, that’s up to you, but it’s not ok to get passive aggressive when women say they don’t like to have sex the way you describe it.

Passive aggressive? "

Yes. The whole tone of the post I quoted was one of “you’re all in the wrong for not liking it”.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions

I think you’ve misunderstood the majority of the comments. No-one said they prefer “wham bam”, but an hour of penetrative sex without any oral or other stimulation becomes boring and even painful for a lot of women. Worse than that, many women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex. Also three orgasms in an hour doesn’t seem like a great outcome for most women, honestly.

If you don’t want to pursue therapy, that’s up to you, but it’s not ok to get passive aggressive when women say they don’t like to have sex the way you describe it.

Passive aggressive?

Yes. The whole tone of the post I quoted was one of “you’re all in the wrong for not liking it”."

The "tone" of the written word is subjective and open to vast misinterpretation. Nowhere in his written word does he say "you're all in the wrong for not liking it"

They are your words,,, as are passive aggressive.

Which in my opinion are OTT

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions"

Think you need to report your “specialist”, their job is to extract information, not plant it.

Sorry OP you are starting to come across incongruent.

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