FabSwingers.com forum: Is there a dress code for a meet?

By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

What do you wear for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rain mac n wellies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual but it depends where you are meeting

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By *ilverSwordMan
over a year ago

Belfast-ish

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By *ilverSwordMan
over a year ago

Belfast-ish

A condom and a mask

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"A condom and a mask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first public meet(s) with no play whatsoever on first occasion are in a Public posh Bar.

Dress code for the Missus is always a micro dress that comfortable shows her stocking tops!

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By *ilverSwordMan
over a year ago

Belfast-ish

"A condom and a mask

Sorry that gave me a chuckle

Jeans and a shirt usually.. Depends where we're meeting.. Could go super casual or full suit

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"A condom and a mask

Sorry that gave me a chuckle

Jeans and a shirt usually.. Depends where we're meeting.. Could go super casual or full suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was more active on here I’d love it when the wife of the couple I was meeting would ask me what I’d like her to wear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart/casual wear somewhere Inbetween depending on location, time etc.

Freshly showered & shaved, nails, hair and makeup all done and smelling divine!

Mmmm how I miss getting ready for a meet

Her x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Definitely smart casual would be the safe bet.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"What do you wear for a meet?"

Something i feel comfortable in and always lipstick, perfume and a smile.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Depends on where, but smart is the only option for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hard on

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"A hard on

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We turn up to socials smart casual we hope the people we meet do too. Definitely don't turn up in your work gear because you've nipped out "to do the banking" and you don't want your wife or employees to know what you're really doing.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Smart/casual wear somewhere Inbetween depending on location, time etc.

Freshly showered & shaved, nails, hair and makeup all done and smelling divine!

Mmmm how I miss getting ready for a meet

Her x"

Exactly this x and me too

x soon tho!! X

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I usually find tracksuit bottoms and a dinner stained t shirt works for me

Depends a lot on how well you already know or if at all the people you are meeting and where you are meeting, to how smartly you should dress.

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

Just a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart/casual wear somewhere Inbetween depending on location, time etc.

Freshly showered & shaved, nails, hair and makeup all done and smelling divine!

Mmmm how I miss getting ready for a meet

Her x"

I definitely overthink it and wonder is somewhere in between either too smart or too casual. Smart shoes, smart jeans and a fresh shirt is a good handrail to go off.

Trainers are a little too casual and a jacket can be a little too smart x

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By *ylonlickMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Our first public meet(s) with no play whatsoever on first occasion are in a Public posh Bar.

Dress code for the Missus is always a micro dress that comfortable shows her stocking tops!"
wow sounds perfect x

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Top hat and tails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart/casual wear somewhere Inbetween depending on location, time etc.

Freshly showered & shaved, nails, hair and makeup all done and smelling divine!

Mmmm how I miss getting ready for a meet

Her x

Exactly this x and me too

x soon tho!! X "

soooooon!

Her x

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Like I've come off the allotment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart/casual wear somewhere Inbetween depending on location, time etc.

Freshly showered & shaved, nails, hair and makeup all done and smelling divine!

Mmmm how I miss getting ready for a meet

Her x

I definitely overthink it and wonder is somewhere in between either too smart or too casual. Smart shoes, smart jeans and a fresh shirt is a good handrail to go off.

Trainers are a little too casual and a jacket can be a little too smart x"

I get that. Think you can judge by the person too if that makes sense, but can't go wrong with smart jeans, shirt etc.

For me jacket would probably be too smart but each to their own, as long as they look and smell divine

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love people that dress well and look trendy... I wouldn't say someone has certain type of clothes to meet but you know when someone makes the effort and is stylish... Classy on outside is classy on inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart/casual wear somewhere Inbetween depending on location, time etc.

Freshly showered & shaved, nails, hair and makeup all done and smelling divine!

Mmmm how I miss getting ready for a meet

Her x

I definitely overthink it and wonder is somewhere in between either too smart or too casual. Smart shoes, smart jeans and a fresh shirt is a good handrail to go off.

Trainers are a little too casual and a jacket can be a little too smart x

I get that. Think you can judge by the person too if that makes sense, but can't go wrong with smart jeans, shirt etc.

For me jacket would probably be too smart but each to their own, as long as they look and smell divine

Her x"

100% sometimes I even feel like I’ll be judged on my boxers and socks, I mean I know I am being judged on them. CK for safety just in case you’re wondering

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

You have to wear a condom..

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends where I'm going.

A masquerade ball gown gets you funny looks if you go bowling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My special corduroys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile, my favourite perfume & some killer heels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a nice top, leggings, bra, and heels xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear a top hat, dicky bow, tailed suit and a waistcoat as I am usually meeting straight from the gym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where, how well I've got to know them and what I'm/we're doing at the time really ...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"What do you wear for a meet?"

Whatever your mummy tells you?

Seriously, context related.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"My special corduroys

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"Top hat and tails"

That's when I'm slumming it

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By *ude boy 2017Man
over a year ago

Bolton

If I meet in a club it as been nude before now

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Crushed velvet smoking jacket and cravat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No beanie hats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creed Aventus

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By *ornytoad1362Couple
over a year ago

St. Austell

yes smart casuals is good we think so too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dark glasses and a stick on beard

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Hopefully a butt plug

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Last time I met anyone it was walking boots, fleece, waterproof trousers and a rain Mac.

V x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Depends where the meet is happening.

I can tell you what NOT to wear, tracksuit bottoms. Uuuurgh, instant turn off and would make me walk in the opposite direction.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No beanie hats.

Hope your interview went well!

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went smart casual, got told I was overdressed.....can't win..

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Thong, hold ups, bra, dress, make up, wig and heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart/casual wear somewhere Inbetween depending on location, time etc.

Freshly showered & shaved, nails, hair and makeup all done and smelling divine!

Mmmm how I miss getting ready for a meet

Her x"

Ohhh I miss getting dressed up

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Depends where the meet is happening.

I can tell you what NOT to wear, tracksuit bottoms. Uuuurgh, instant turn off and would make me walk in the opposite direction.

Mrs

Absolutely this.

I would wear something very different for a pub meet than one in a swinging club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart/casual wear somewhere Inbetween depending on location, time etc.

Freshly showered & shaved, nails, hair and makeup all done and smelling divine!

Mmmm how I miss getting ready for a meet

Her x

Ohhh I miss getting dressed up

Yup, tell me about it

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No beanie hats.

Hope your interview went well!

Her x"

I think so thank you

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Depends on the meet I guess is it at Costa for a coffee or is it in a pub for a drink or is it the first meet to play?

Either of the above I would make sure to be clean and smelling nice though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wearing a tracksuit or onesie, Holding a cigarette and can of special brew.. is a quality look..

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Spandex

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

"Wearing a tracksuit or onesie, Holding a cigarette and can of special brew.. is a quality look.. "

You missed the bling...... A screaming 2 year old on the left hip

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Funny enough If I am meeting a woman I always ask beforehand how she likes her guy to look, be it Italian suit, dress jacket, shirt and designer jeans, or totally casual because, you never get a second chance to make a first impression. It actually surprises me though how many women like men in suits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a pretty dress

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Funny enough If I am meeting a woman I always ask beforehand how she likes her guy to look, be it Italian suit, dress jacket, shirt and designer jeans, or totally casual because, you never get a second chance to make a first impression. It actually surprises me though how many women like men in suits. "

Clever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being asked what he should wear would put me off completely! Same as if people tell me what to wear though

I'm me and dress for me at that time! I like to meet the person not the clothes but your answer definitely made me think and come to a conclusion

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I think being asked what he should wear would put me off completely! Same as if people tell me what to wear though

I'm me and dress for me at that time! I like to meet the person not the clothes but your answer definitely made me think and come to a conclusion "

Each to their own, but it works for me every time. I been told so often about women being put off by guys on first dates looking like something the cat has dragged in after they have gone to a lot of trouble to look their best for the occasion. Other comments have been that asking how they like their chosen guy to look have been that it shows a consideration for how a woman feels before we have even met, and I've been told quote: "Clothes maketh the man" however I'll take on board what you say if I'm looking for a date down in Sennen Cove

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wearing a tracksuit or onesie, Holding a cigarette and can of special brew.. is a quality look..

You missed the bling...... A screaming 2 year old on the left hip"

I always miss something...

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Thank you for your positive comment op

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By *imandHer9396Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Wear something you would wear out with friends. Just be comfortable and you.

I think "last time I went to the pub and felt fantastic, what did I wear?"

Job done.

Hair, makeup, nails to fit the outfit, husband decides the underwear (or lack of

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I miss getting dressed up.

And men, little tip, make sure you pay attention to your hands. If you have scraggy dirty nails, they aren't coming near me. You can be full suited and booted, it still isn't going to happen.

Her x

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

I think a hygiene code is more important!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A short tight black satin dress with heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always expect guys to meet us dressed smart no trainers hoodies or sportwear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always social first so smart and subtly sexy...clubs on the other hand...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’d always make appropriate effort, looking smart is always something you can make more casual if that environment suits or changes, whereas the other way around is very difficult

A nice crisp shirt, a smile and good shoes are a good start.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Take an experts word for it. After the clothes come off, the best thing that a guy could be wearing is The Bleu Chanel, or similar quality aftershave, never fails!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something fabulous .... or slutty ... depends on my mood

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Something I feel comfortable in(which tends to be skinny jeans and a nice top with a leather jacket) nice underwear and a bit of makeup. So many nerves going on before a meet so would definitely opt for a “safe” outfit I feel comfortable in. Freya

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd hope guys dress for the conditions, as turning up in summer with theit igloo-appropriate wear is going to need some time for them to cool off. Shorts on a guy in summer is fine, to show off your legs well.

Grey joggers, if they show off your bulge, are always acceptable too.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

My long sleeved bowler hat and wellies.

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I'd go for smart casual. Nice shoes, jeans, a smart shirt. It tends to be my normal look anyway.

Would depend where and when though. I think there has to be an effort from both sides. I think things like trainers, tracksuits, leggings, t-shirts, etc are complete no's - unless required for practical reasons, if you're doing something sporty for example.

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales

Social meets in a bar or coffee shop I’ll always wear a well cut suit, open neck shirt, smart well polished shoes and a spray of Hugo Boss Bottled if it’s day time, Gaultier if it’s the evening.

It hurts nobody of you take a little care and make an effort, and you can never be over dressed but it’s easy to be under dressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

T shirt, Jeans and trainers

I don't dress any other way unless someone is tieing the knot or leaving this mortal planet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well..... dressed in clean clothes for a start. Jeans and polo shirt keep casual.

Instant turn off..... dirty tracking bottoms,a grungey jacket and _aseball cap. Which one gent turned up to meet miss hoolie wearing...... 45mins late just to add to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last meet I had I was in my leather trousers , waist coat, jacket & full length leather coat,she had a leather skirt & waist coat. Mind you it all came off very quickly lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual you can’t go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A condom and a mask

2 condoms and 2 masks , real safe sex .

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

If we are meeting for a social then Dee likes to wear a nice classy dress to show off her curves.

Shirt and jeans usually for me.

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By *eparrain1 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"If we are meeting for a social then Dee likes to wear a nice classy dress to show off her curves.

Shirt and jeans usually for me."

Showing curves is always attractive

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