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"Personally mate I do go for the 40+ range as I’m more into experienced genuine couples. But I’ve more made the thread for any genuine lads. But I do get where your coming from, although 34 ain’t that old lol " 34, to me, is peak rutting age You have that extra experience (both in bed and in life), you're generally in decent shape, you're at an age where you aren't a kid but aren't old You must see the struggles genuine younger lads have on here, there are multiple threads every day So, billing yourself as a younger lad might actually work against you, people might see the thread title and not even bother to look at your profile, or look and be disappointed because you're 10-15 years older than what they're looking for I'm sorry if it sounds like I am nit picking, I am genuinely trying to be helpful 'Guy in his prime' just has a much better ring to it than 'younger lad' and will, maybe, peak more interest  | |||
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"I’ve been here for a while now, and I’ve sent many off face pics, exchanged many of messages. I feel that a lot of couples have the guard up an rightly so. But this threads here for those genuinely looking for meets post lockdown "I can't imagine why. You have tasteful pics and nice profile, but I wouldn't consider you a 'young lad' tbh. But I suppose compared to an old girl like me you are lol! | |||
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"Most young guys don't have a clue how to approach a couple. So many messages saying fancy a fuck? Or can she deep throat me? Or many other random things. I don't mind these comments when we've been talking a while but if that's your opening line then no thanks. (older guys do this too I know!) they also think that they can approach us as a means to pop thier 3sum cherry lol and although that is a turn on sometimes you want someone who you feel you don't have to guide and look after and educate them on the rules and etiquette of joining a couple. I would much rather have a guy join us who has experience, is mentally mature and is in it for pleasing everyone and not just himself or ticking another box for him to brag about to his mates in the vauxhall corsas outside McDonald's. There are always exceptions to the rule but give me a man in his 30s and 40s anyday x Plus I hate messages that say w/e or v/w/e like dude I can see from the dick pic you sent me even though my profile asks for no straight up dick pics lol plus just cus you have a big one doesn't mean you know how to use it!! Rant over hahahahahahaha x " Exactly this | |||
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"Most young guys don't have a clue how to approach a couple. So many messages saying fancy a fuck? Or can she deep throat me? Or many other random things. I don't mind these comments when we've been talking a while but if that's your opening line then no thanks. (older guys do this too I know!) they also think that they can approach us as a means to pop thier 3sum cherry lol and although that is a turn on sometimes you want someone who you feel you don't have to guide and look after and educate them on the rules and etiquette of joining a couple. I would much rather have a guy join us who has experience, is mentally mature and is in it for pleasing everyone and not just himself or ticking another box for him to brag about to his mates in the vauxhall corsas outside McDonald's. There are always exceptions to the rule but give me a man in his 30s and 40s anyday x Plus I hate messages that say w/e or v/w/e like dude I can see from the dick pic you sent me even though my profile asks for no straight up dick pics lol plus just cus you have a big one doesn't mean you know how to use it!! Rant over hahahahahahaha x " Great feed back haha, all taken onboard, although I don’t feel I’m ever rude in my opening message, usually get as far as face pic an then nothing! An I wouldn’t class myself ugly? But each to their own. But is a very common thing. I just want clubs to re open ha  x | |||
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"I’ve been here for a while now, and I’ve sent many off face pics, exchanged many of messages. I feel that a lot of couples have the guard up an rightly so. But this threads here for those genuinely looking for meets post lockdown
I can't imagine why. You have tasteful pics and nice profile, but I wouldn't consider you a 'young lad' tbh. But I suppose compared to an old girl like me you are lol! "Really appreciate the kind feed back, but the struggle is real  an we’re only as old as we feel. I see your profile not looking for single lads | |||
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"Most young guys don't have a clue how to approach a couple. So many messages saying fancy a fuck? Or can she deep throat me? Or many other random things. I don't mind these comments when we've been talking a while but if that's your opening line then no thanks. (older guys do this too I know!) they also think that they can approach us as a means to pop thier 3sum cherry lol and although that is a turn on sometimes you want someone who you feel you don't have to guide and look after and educate them on the rules and etiquette of joining a couple. I would much rather have a guy join us who has experience, is mentally mature and is in it for pleasing everyone and not just himself or ticking another box for him to brag about to his mates in the vauxhall corsas outside McDonald's. There are always exceptions to the rule but give me a man in his 30s and 40s anyday x Plus I hate messages that say w/e or v/w/e like dude I can see from the dick pic you sent me even though my profile asks for no straight up dick pics lol plus just cus you have a big one doesn't mean you know how to use it!! Rant over hahahahahahaha x Exactly this " I know right?? Lol x I know they have to learn and have a first as everyone does but there are ways to message couples, they forget that when they message us we are husband and wife and mutual respect has to be earnt and boundaries respected so don't come in saying I'd love to join you and fuck you senseless, like yeah mate you might do but you gotta arouse our minds first!!! I'm the love of his life so don't come in being disrespectful cus hell just tell you to F off, I'm worth more to him than that lol x hopefully anyway hahaha x | |||
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"Most young guys don't have a clue how to approach a couple. So many messages saying fancy a fuck? Or can she deep throat me? Or many other random things. I don't mind these comments when we've been talking a while but if that's your opening line then no thanks. (older guys do this too I know!) they also think that they can approach us as a means to pop thier 3sum cherry lol and although that is a turn on sometimes you want someone who you feel you don't have to guide and look after and educate them on the rules and etiquette of joining a couple. I would much rather have a guy join us who has experience, is mentally mature and is in it for pleasing everyone and not just himself or ticking another box for him to brag about to his mates in the vauxhall corsas outside McDonald's. There are always exceptions to the rule but give me a man in his 30s and 40s anyday x Plus I hate messages that say w/e or v/w/e like dude I can see from the dick pic you sent me even though my profile asks for no straight up dick pics lol plus just cus you have a big one doesn't mean you know how to use it!! Rant over hahahahahahaha x Great feed back haha, all taken onboard, although I don’t feel I’m ever rude in my opening message, usually get as far as face pic an then nothing! An I wouldn’t class myself ugly? But each to their own. But is a very common thing. I just want clubs to re open ha x"I've just checked your profile and looks good to me? I liked your bio too and if you were local to us and messaged us then I would reply back, I can't comment on the attraction side as obviously that's private pics but I guess you just have to Wade through the mud to find the diamonds x x | |||
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"Most young guys don't have a clue how to approach a couple. So many messages saying fancy a fuck? Or can she deep throat me? Or many other random things. I don't mind these comments when we've been talking a while but if that's your opening line then no thanks. (older guys do this too I know!) they also think that they can approach us as a means to pop thier 3sum cherry lol and although that is a turn on sometimes you want someone who you feel you don't have to guide and look after and educate them on the rules and etiquette of joining a couple. I would much rather have a guy join us who has experience, is mentally mature and is in it for pleasing everyone and not just himself or ticking another box for him to brag about to his mates in the vauxhall corsas outside McDonald's. There are always exceptions to the rule but give me a man in his 30s and 40s anyday x Plus I hate messages that say w/e or v/w/e like dude I can see from the dick pic you sent me even though my profile asks for no straight up dick pics lol plus just cus you have a big one doesn't mean you know how to use it!! Rant over hahahahahahaha x Exactly this I know right?? Lol x I know they have to learn and have a first as everyone does but there are ways to message couples, they forget that when they message us we are husband and wife and mutual respect has to be earnt and boundaries respected so don't come in saying I'd love to join you and fuck you senseless, like yeah mate you might do but you gotta arouse our minds first!!! I'm the love of his life so don't come in being disrespectful cus hell just tell you to F off, I'm worth more to him than that lol x hopefully anyway hahaha x " Totally agree, is a great privilege being welcomed in to a couples relationship. We’re not all that bad  I can see why couples guards are up tho! Do people really message like that ha  | |||
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"Most young guys don't have a clue how to approach a couple. So many messages saying fancy a fuck? Or can she deep throat me? Or many other random things. I don't mind these comments when we've been talking a while but if that's your opening line then no thanks. (older guys do this too I know!) they also think that they can approach us as a means to pop thier 3sum cherry lol and although that is a turn on sometimes you want someone who you feel you don't have to guide and look after and educate them on the rules and etiquette of joining a couple. I would much rather have a guy join us who has experience, is mentally mature and is in it for pleasing everyone and not just himself or ticking another box for him to brag about to his mates in the vauxhall corsas outside McDonald's. There are always exceptions to the rule but give me a man in his 30s and 40s anyday x Plus I hate messages that say w/e or v/w/e like dude I can see from the dick pic you sent me even though my profile asks for no straight up dick pics lol plus just cus you have a big one doesn't mean you know how to use it!! Rant over hahahahahahaha x Great feed back haha, all taken onboard, although I don’t feel I’m ever rude in my opening message, usually get as far as face pic an then nothing! An I wouldn’t class myself ugly? But each to their own. But is a very common thing. I just want clubs to re open ha x
I've just checked your profile and looks good to me? I liked your bio too and if you were local to us and messaged us then I would reply back, I can't comment on the attraction side as obviously that's private pics but I guess you just have to Wade through the mud to find the diamonds x x "West Midlands isn’t far  | |||
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"Most young guys don't have a clue how to approach a couple. So many messages saying fancy a fuck? Or can she deep throat me? Or many other random things. I don't mind these comments when we've been talking a while but if that's your opening line then no thanks. (older guys do this too I know!) they also think that they can approach us as a means to pop thier 3sum cherry lol and although that is a turn on sometimes you want someone who you feel you don't have to guide and look after and educate them on the rules and etiquette of joining a couple. I would much rather have a guy join us who has experience, is mentally mature and is in it for pleasing everyone and not just himself or ticking another box for him to brag about to his mates in the vauxhall corsas outside McDonald's. There are always exceptions to the rule but give me a man in his 30s and 40s anyday x Plus I hate messages that say w/e or v/w/e like dude I can see from the dick pic you sent me even though my profile asks for no straight up dick pics lol plus just cus you have a big one doesn't mean you know how to use it!! Rant over hahahahahahaha x Exactly this I know right?? Lol x I know they have to learn and have a first as everyone does but there are ways to message couples, they forget that when they message us we are husband and wife and mutual respect has to be earnt and boundaries respected so don't come in saying I'd love to join you and fuck you senseless, like yeah mate you might do but you gotta arouse our minds first!!! I'm the love of his life so don't come in being disrespectful cus hell just tell you to F off, I'm worth more to him than that lol x hopefully anyway hahaha x Totally agree, is a great privilege being welcomed in to a couples relationship. We’re not all that bad I can see why couples guards are up tho! Do people really message like that ha "It's tough as a couple cus both have to be onboard and feel safe and happy and attracted x those were the nice ones I've had some vile messages that I wanna reply with "does your mother know you talk to people like that" but then I'd be an old frumpy Karen hahaha x | |||
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"Most young guys don't have a clue how to approach a couple. So many messages saying fancy a fuck? Or can she deep throat me? Or many other random things. I don't mind these comments when we've been talking a while but if that's your opening line then no thanks. (older guys do this too I know!) they also think that they can approach us as a means to pop thier 3sum cherry lol and although that is a turn on sometimes you want someone who you feel you don't have to guide and look after and educate them on the rules and etiquette of joining a couple. I would much rather have a guy join us who has experience, is mentally mature and is in it for pleasing everyone and not just himself or ticking another box for him to brag about to his mates in the vauxhall corsas outside McDonald's. There are always exceptions to the rule but give me a man in his 30s and 40s anyday x Plus I hate messages that say w/e or v/w/e like dude I can see from the dick pic you sent me even though my profile asks for no straight up dick pics lol plus just cus you have a big one doesn't mean you know how to use it!! Rant over hahahahahahaha x Great feed back haha, all taken onboard, although I don’t feel I’m ever rude in my opening message, usually get as far as face pic an then nothing! An I wouldn’t class myself ugly? But each to their own. But is a very common thing. I just want clubs to re open ha x
I've just checked your profile and looks good to me? I liked your bio too and if you were local to us and messaged us then I would reply back, I can't comment on the attraction side as obviously that's private pics but I guess you just have to Wade through the mud to find the diamonds x x
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" Really appreciate the kind feed back, but the struggle is real" Maybe people are confused as your profile ends with "experienced couple looking for those erotic times with like minded people" | |||
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"I like your profile. Hit me up if you want to do a mmf 3sum together, it might help you to get a couple of 3sums under your belt, and a few pics to show you're serious and experienced... I am chatting to a couple of very hot, older ladies about some post lockdown fun... "Appreciate that mate | |||
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" Really appreciate the kind feed back, but the struggle is real Maybe people are confused as your profile ends with "experienced couple looking for those erotic times with like minded people" " Thank you sally, is been a while since I updated it to be fair. I’ll sort it when I’m home from work, see if I can word stuff better. Not great at filling that part out tho | |||
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"I’ve been here for a while now, and I’ve sent many off face pics, exchanged many of messages. I feel that a lot of couples have the guard up an rightly so. But this threads here for those genuinely looking for meets post lockdown
I can't imagine why. You have tasteful pics and nice profile, but I wouldn't consider you a 'young lad' tbh. But I suppose compared to an old girl like me you are lol!
Really appreciate the kind feed back, but the struggle is real an we’re only as old as we feel. I see your profile not looking for single lads "Really? Where does it say that? | |||
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"I’ve been here for a while now, and I’ve sent many off face pics, exchanged many of messages. I feel that a lot of couples have the guard up an rightly so. But this threads here for those genuinely looking for meets post lockdown
I can't imagine why. You have tasteful pics and nice profile, but I wouldn't consider you a 'young lad' tbh. But I suppose compared to an old girl like me you are lol!
Really appreciate the kind feed back, but the struggle is real an we’re only as old as we feel. I see your profile not looking for single lads
Really? Where does it say that? "I assume he means your filters | |||
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"I’ve been here for a while now, and I’ve sent many off face pics, exchanged many of messages. I feel that a lot of couples have the guard up an rightly so. But this threads here for those genuinely looking for meets post lockdown
I can't imagine why. You have tasteful pics and nice profile, but I wouldn't consider you a 'young lad' tbh. But I suppose compared to an old girl like me you are lol!
Really appreciate the kind feed back, but the struggle is real an we’re only as old as we feel. I see your profile not looking for single lads
Really? Where does it say that?
I assume he means your filters "25-70 | |||
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" In our area we'd say 90% of so called single males have no idea of how to approach a Couple !! across all age ranges as quick search shows as mostly Dick pics galore and we just delete/block with anyone who has just those now and the Have any plans ..followed by fancy some fun ..approach very amusing though as it's like we have no clue what "Fun" means ?? and would have a little bit more respect if they just said "Fancy a quick fumble and a fuck " it would still be ignored/block/delete but ... "GOOD POINT x | |||
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"I’ve been here for a while now, and I’ve sent many off face pics, exchanged many of messages. I feel that a lot of couples have the guard up an rightly so. But this threads here for those genuinely looking for meets post lockdown
I can't imagine why. You have tasteful pics and nice profile, but I wouldn't consider you a 'young lad' tbh. But I suppose compared to an old girl like me you are lol!
Really appreciate the kind feed back, but the struggle is real an we’re only as old as we feel. I see your profile not looking for single lads
Really? Where does it say that?
I assume he means your filters
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"I’ve been here for a while now, and I’ve sent many off face pics, exchanged many of messages. I feel that a lot of couples have the guard up an rightly so. But this threads here for those genuinely looking for meets post lockdown
I can't imagine why. You have tasteful pics and nice profile, but I wouldn't consider you a 'young lad' tbh. But I suppose compared to an old girl like me you are lol!
Really appreciate the kind feed back, but the struggle is real an we’re only as old as we feel. I see your profile not looking for single lads
Really? Where does it say that?
I assume he means your filters
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'Not looking for single guys' "Yes just found that. I have no idea why it says that at all. No idea how to change it! | |||
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