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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello! I really want to give light BDSM a try either with a couple or a single female However with me being so young this is something that I am finding haard to find. Any tips or advice would be appreciated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you class as "light BDSM"? Probably a good idea to be a bit more specific.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it is something I have yet to try so it would be more just the people I am with who decides what :/ x

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I would class light bdsm as being chained upside down to a saltire with electrodes on my testicles and a rectal probe inserted

Heavy bdsm would include being nailed to the cross, water boarding and branding

It's how I get my kicks, so what do you have in mind to start?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're looking for a lady to tie you up and stuff or you want to put a lady on a lead and make her suck your cock ??

not bothered ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to read up on the subject... To think about what sort of things you have in mind..

You always need to have an idea of what your looking for.

perhaps sign up to the bdsm sites and have a read around..

Good luck

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice so far My ideal thing would be being a sub to a woman! Tied up with no control of what she could do to me. We can dream ey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You also need to have an idea of what you definitely don't want to try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it is something I have yet to try so it would be more just the people I am with who decides what :/ x"

You haven't really thought this through have you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice so far My ideal thing would be being a sub to a woman! Tied up with no control of what she could do to me. We can dream ey!"

What she could do to you with no guidance or limits from you encompasses quite a lot. And she may not really know what she's doing herself. Do some research and choose your play partner for this very carefully, please!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will have to reaearch into this it looks like But if anyone wants to help me out let me know xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We *HAVE* helped you. Work out what you are and are not looking for first. Then look for the right person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its more finding the person difficult xx

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Go to the story forum

See what turns you on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will do, also does anyone know of any bdsm sites..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some clues...

Do you want to be spanked? Beaten? What with (hairbrush/slipper/crop/cane/flogged/whip/etc)? Do you mind being bruised? Where/where not? How about being beaten until blood is drawn?

Do you want things shoved up your bum?

How about things being inserted into your urethra?

Pegs? Clamps? Weights? Being trampled in heels? Being Pissed on? Spat on? Dressed as a sissy? Called names and humiliated? Being forced to drink piss? Foot worship? Boot worship?

Breathplay? Lead round on a lead? Fed from a dog bowl?

I know you said "light" but everyone has a different idea of what that means.

Maybe find a couple of BDSM checklists online and look at those.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its just tieing and gagging, the feeling of being not in control light whips but no extreme pain. Being miss treated, verbally abused and being used as a 'fuck' toy. Its hard to say exactly what I want at the moment I think I just need to research and give some stuff a try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So basically femdom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So basically femdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the last time I'll try and get this across. If you do not clearly specify your limits you may get a nasty surprise. Especially if you are gagged.

If you're gagged make certain you agree a safe signal, meaning Stop! beforehand.

And just remember some people nail other people's cocks/balls/toes to bits of wood for mutual kicks. NEVER say you have no limits, want to try New things and they should use you as they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically femdom "

AAAARRRRGGGGHHHH!

Everything I mentioned above is Femdom if it's done by a Domme!

Seriously, go and do some research.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies well, my limits is no pain then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Head/desk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone starts somewhere..

When I met my Master I was clueless...

To be honest if I had been asked what I wanted back then I couldnt have told you..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its just tieing and gagging, the feeling of being not in control light whips but no extreme pain. Being miss treated, verbally abused and being used as a 'fuck' toy. "

Thats called 'being married' !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some clues...

Do you want to be spanked? Beaten? What with (hairbrush/slipper/crop/cane/flogged/whip/etc)? Do you mind being bruised? Where/where not? How about being beaten until blood is drawn?

Do you want things shoved up your bum?Ye a lot of your list is my list ! Love it when I plan comes together

How about things being inserted into your urethra?

Pegs? Clamps? Weights? Being trampled in heels? Being Pissed on? Spat on? Dressed as a sissy? Called names and humiliated? Being forced to drink piss? Foot worship? Boot worship?

Breathplay? Lead round on a lead? Fed from a dog bowl?

I know you said "light" but everyone has a different idea of what that means.

Maybe find a couple of BDSM checklists online and look at those."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This actually made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's my got to do list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its just tieing and gagging, the feeling of being not in control light whips but no extreme pain. Being miss treated, verbally abused and being used as a 'fuck' toy.

Thats called 'being married' !!! "

No, he said no extreme pain

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