FabSwingers.com forum: Can accommodate, but can’t!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah but, no but?

What is with this??

Just be honest!!

We can’t accommodate because of children at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but, no but?

What is with this??

Just be honest!!

We can’t accommodate because of children at home.

Well I can if your ever in the area lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah but, no but?

What is with this??

Just be honest!!

We can’t accommodate because of children at home.

Well I can if your ever in the area lol xx "

Cheeky!

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

"Yeah but, no but?

What is with this??

Just be honest!!

We can’t accommodate because of children at home.

I think that's very common for couples.

I can accommodate for select people who are discreet.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

My profile says I can't but I can

A pointless effort at deterring attached men ..l

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like fab meets in my home.

Prefer hotels.

Thats subject to change if its heading towards a long term situation but for one offs hotels work.

Most ppl have genuine reasons for not hosting.

I suppose the same rules could be applied to traveling. Some don't mind trekking across the country for meets, others prefer to stay local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but, no but?

What is with this??

Just be honest!!

We can’t accommodate because of children at home.

We can’t accommodate for the same reason, coupled with ‘rona and our cautious approach to trying out the lifestyle we are often met with suspicion which can be a little frustrating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant accommodate because im a parent and I wouldn't meet at someone else's home...just hotel

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

As a single parent, I can when my child saty over of gandparents or aunts house. Different for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We accommodate when we can. We pref home meets rather than clubs. Personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah but, no but?

What is with this??

Just be honest!!

We can’t accommodate because of children at home.

Well I can if your ever in the area lol xx

Cheeky! "

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile says I can't but I can

A pointless effort at deterring attached men ..l"

Noted lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the ones that can't accommodate or travel ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can but wouldn't say that on my profile as it encourages attached men unfortunately

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

When I was on here in my previous incarnation, I couldn't accommodate, I lived on work premises, and held large amounts of cash and booze.

Since getting my own place away from work that no longer applies

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I can accommodate but prefer not to initially as I live pretty remote so it's more a trust issue with me. However that's a double edged sword, as I'm not sure a lady would want to drive to the middle of nowhere. So socials are a must for me

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We can and have but only after getting to know the people or person involved though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best one is

Can't accommodate and can't travel status. More confusing

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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Best one is

Can't accommodate and can't travel status. More confusing

Not at all...can't accommodate as have three teenagers who all go to college but at least one will be at home. Can't travel as I'm not looking for anyone outside of the town I live, pretty simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile says I can't but I can

A pointless effort at deterring attached men ..l"

Haha I'm similar

It doesn't work - but if I don't get invited to their house then they don't get invited in my vagina or my home

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Just because I can, doesn't mean I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best one is

Can't accommodate and can't travel status. More confusing

Not at all...can't accommodate as have three teenagers who all go to college but at least one will be at home. Can't travel as I'm not looking for anyone outside of the town I live, pretty simple "

Get that but how a meet can be planned?

To pick up or by using public transport

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I can't for the same reason.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Almost every man I've spoken to who has can accommodate on their profile has said they can't, as they have moved back home, or someone has moved in with them.

That's not people who accommodate in hotels.

I really don't know what the problem with that is.

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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Best one is

Can't accommodate and can't travel status. More confusing

Not at all...can't accommodate as have three teenagers who all go to college but at least one will be at home. Can't travel as I'm not looking for anyone outside of the town I live, pretty simple

Get that but how a meet can be planned?

To pick up or by using public transport

Always public transport/taxi after meeting socially first.

Its amazing how many say they can accommodate & after meeting socially (pre covid) can't & are actually married or in a relationship. Wasted mine & there time so I make it clear on my profile.

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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Best one is

Can't accommodate and can't travel status. More confusing

Not at all...can't accommodate as have three teenagers who all go to college but at least one will be at home. Can't travel as I'm not looking for anyone outside of the town I live, pretty simple

Get that but how a meet can be planned?

To pick up or by using public transport

Always public transport/taxi after meeting socially first.

Its amazing how many say they can accommodate & after meeting socially (pre covid) can't & are actually married or in a relationship. Wasted mine & there time so I make it clear on my profile. "

*their

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've also spoken to people who live alone and say that they don't want random women in their homes, but wanted to sneak in my house while my son was out, or asleep.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I went all the way to the Embankment by tube once, to find out after an hour of chatting that the person had just moved in with housemates and couldn't accommodate.

Then was looking around for an alley for a quick blow job.

That's when I stopped doing socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t like fab meets in my home.

Prefer hotels.

Thats subject to change if its heading towards a long term situation but for one offs hotels work.

Most ppl have genuine reasons for not hosting.

I suppose the same rules could be applied to traveling. Some don't mind trekking across the country for meets, others prefer to stay local. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost every man I've spoken to who has can accommodate on their profile has said they can't, as they have moved back home, or someone has moved in with them.

That's not people who accommodate in hotels.

I really don't know what the problem with that is.

it's amazing how many adult males live with other people or with parents on here

Or are single fathers - which make up such a small percentage on the planet- it appears they're all on Fab

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington

"Best one is

Can't accommodate and can't travel status. More confusing

Not at all...can't accommodate as have three teenagers who all go to college but at least one will be at home. Can't travel as I'm not looking for anyone outside of the town I live, pretty simple "

At least you explain on your profile. Congrats on the Uni job btw!

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

This does my head in.

I can't accommodate due to children at home too.

I specify on my profile that the male must be able to accommodate, otherwise they're wasting both our time by messaging, right?

So I've gone on socials with guys only to find out they can't accom when their profile says they can. So frustrating!

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I don’t like fab meets in my home.

Prefer hotels.

Thats subject to change if its heading towards a long term situation but for one offs hotels work.

Most ppl have genuine reasons for not hosting.

I suppose the same rules could be applied to traveling. Some don't mind trekking across the country for meets, others prefer to stay local. "

I also prefer hotels .. neutral ground and all that. I have my youngest still at home which makes accommodating difficult but not impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My home is my private space, if a meet is not going well, I can get up and walk away, not easy to do if in my own home. Plus being a si gle woman in a rural area its not safe to do so, plus teenage boys lol don't think they would be impressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This does my head in.

I can't accommodate due to children at home too.

I specify on my profile that the male must be able to accommodate, otherwise they're wasting both our time by messaging, right?

So I've gone on socials with guys only to find out they can't accom when their profile says they can. So frustrating!"

Do they think been caught out lying at the social stage isn't going to effect the chance of a meet following?

How you called them out on the lie? What was the reason / excuse?

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I am a single guy that can’t accommodate.I feel it’s best to be honest which is why on my profile it says I have elderly family that live with me.

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

We keep our private and home like seperate from our fab life that's why we don't accomdate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Prefer hotels ' is code for married / attached

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I can acomodate because i live alone

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Agoraphobics who can't accom probably struggle the most

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I can and live alone

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Better Fab options to pick from would be an improvement, so people can find good matches for their preferences.

Meets at -

Social meets first

Clubs

Hotels etc

My place

Your place

Outdoors action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye and this one can’t accom and can’t travel ??? We can accommodate and do

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ye and this one can’t accom and can’t travel ??? We can accommodate and do

Some view/ define 'travel' as a long distance expedition,rather than just a few stops on a bus, few minutes walking/driving. They should take it a bit more literally.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I can and do accommodate.

One condition, Please do not try and re-arrange my furniture, the layout suits me just fine

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

"Yeah but, no but?

What is with this??

Just be honest!!

We can’t accommodate because of children at home.

Tell them they need to raise £350k for a local charity, give then a tent and then kick then out into the back garden. Once they are there invite everyone round for hard core sexual pleasure. Simples...

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

"I can and do accommodate.

One condition, Please do not try and re-arrange my furniture, the layout suits me just fine

I'd your Ying balanced to you Yang though?

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I can accom ..

Unfortunately I’m fussy and not many on here float my boat ..

But if someone ever does, they’re welcome here anytime

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