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War and peace profiles +way to long

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham

Seen some really long profiles . Am knackered by the time iv read them that have lost the interest. Are we the only ones and are these profiles just asking for too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lose interest too.

I don't think they are wasting their time though, they will just attract the type of people who love to read.

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's a balancing act innit. Want to give a good idea of personality, likes and dislikes...but recognise people skim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want couples profiles to have decent pictures of mr. Fed up of the ones who think pics of her will entice.

It’s not all about fab numbers!!!!!

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York


"Seen some really long profiles . Am knackered by the time iv read them that have lost the interest. Are we the only ones and are these profiles just asking for too much "

You can't win, plenty of complaints about profiles being to short, yours is the first I have read fed up with long profiles. Some want cock pics, plenty don't... As another contributor said it's a balancing act!

I have just read a profile emphatically no 'cock pics' but their pics were virtually all closeups of her cunt (and there were lots of them). What is that all about?

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs


"Seen some really long profiles . Am knackered by the time iv read them that have lost the interest. Are we the only ones and are these profiles just asking for too much

You can't win, plenty of complaints about profiles being to short, yours is the first I have read fed up with long profiles. Some want cock pics, plenty don't... As another contributor said it's a balancing act!

I have just read a profile emphatically no 'cock pics' but their pics were virtually all closeups of her cunt (and there were lots of them). What is that all about?"
Maybe best thing is to try different variations see what works best , you can’t please everyone that’s for sure

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

I think as long as it isn’t rambling or hard to understand then you can’t really go too long, just put the really important stuff up the top.

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I personally like a decent length description as I’m attracted to personality as well as the body! If a lady has the most amazing body but her description is a turn off, then I just don’t message! So I’m all for informative profiles, we have a choice to read them or not, there’s plenty of one liner types out there too, so lots of choice for everyone, that’s a good thing in my eyes x

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

I keep adding to ours but it never gets read anyway.

I like an informative profile but one that kinda gets to the point without repeating or dragging on

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I guess mine is quite long compared to many, but if you can't be bothered to read it, then we're probably not compatible anyway.

I prefer to read a profile that tells something about the person/couple. Not in a ranty way, just their likes and dislikes, experience etc. First thing I do is read a profile before looking at the photos. Tend to ignore those with just one line, no lines or 'will fill in later' having been on for more than a year.

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham

With regards personality in a profile surely until you meet you cant really say if you will click or not . My point was some are so long and so detailed that what they are looking for may not even exist

And we all make certain compromise s

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


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I have just read a profile emphatically no 'cock pics' but their pics were virtually all closeups of her cunt (and there were lots of them). What is that all about?"

The hubby manages the profile, loves showing off his wife's bits but doesn't want to look at dicks that put his own to shame!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep some are just a bit too long.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Seen some really long profiles . Am knackered by the time iv read them that have lost the interest. Are we the only ones and are these profiles just asking for too much "

They're asking for what they want. If you think it's too much then that's for you to determine. I don't bother reading overly long profiles if I'm honest but I've nothing against those that write them.

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"With regards personality in a profile surely until you meet you cant really say if you will click or not . "

I think that to some extent you can probably get a good idea that you WON’T click through a suitably-detailed profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think ours is possibly the longest on here but its quicker to read than a load of messages to find it not a match. Each to their own

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I guess mine is quite long compared to many, but if you can't be bothered to read it, then we're probably not compatible anyway"

That’s exactly what I always say. Well, that and “if you haven’t got the stamina to read it, you haven’t got the stamina to meet me”!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think as long as it isn’t rambling or hard to understand then you can’t really go too long, just put the really important stuff up the top."

I put important points in the profile header and not even that gets read most of the time.

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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Added to ours over the years, if it's too long then so be it but it hopefully covers everything we're looking for.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"With regards personality in a profile surely until you meet you cant really say if you will click or not . My point was some are so long and so detailed that what they are looking for may not even exist

And we all make certain compromise s "

If I don’t think I’ll click with someone from reading their profile and opening message (and I really can tell) then I’m not going to waste my time (and theirs) by meeting them for a social.

I don’t compromise either, considering what I’m looking for boils down to “be attractive to me”, “have a good personality”, “have good personal hygiene”, “don’t be selfish in bed”. Those aren’t outrageous demands, and none of them are something I would be willing to compromise on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to keep my profile bio concise, covering all the bases and loop holes. You can tell when folk haven't been arsed to read it though, which makes you wonder why bother writing one. Tickles me when accounts are over a year old and it says ‘will fill in later’ on the bio....

I like a good informative profile bio though

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

That’ll be us then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’ll be us then "

But you do it with such class and style lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's doesn't seem to matter how long or short the profile is most people don't read it properly.

Xxx

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham

All the people above I have looked at the profiles and these are what I would expect in length and detail . I was taling about the ones that take at least 15mins to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lose interest too.

I don't think they are wasting their time though, they will just attract the type of people who love to read. "

Exactly this.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm pretty good at skim reading and get the gist of the profile blurb from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps these lengthy profiles could have a 'summary' paragraph at the outset. Like one might expect to find on a covering letter.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs


"I personally like a decent length description as I’m attracted to personality as well as the body! If a lady has the most amazing body but her description is a turn off, then I just don’t message! So I’m all for informative profiles, we have a choice to read them or not, there’s plenty of one liner types out there too, so lots of choice for everyone, that’s a good thing in my eyes x"

I'm exactly the same as this..

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"That’ll be us then

But you do it with such class and style lol"

Too kind

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"All the people above I have looked at the profiles and these are what I would expect in length and detail . I was taling about the ones that take at least 15mins to read "

Phew! Ours takes exactly 3 mins to read - we have been told several times lol

3 mins seems a fair trade for possibly securing some non vanilla sex right?

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"All the people above I have looked at the profiles and these are what I would expect in length and detail . I was taling about the ones that take at least 15mins to read

Phew! Ours takes exactly 3 mins to read - we have been told several times lol

3 mins seems a fair trade for possibly securing some non vanilla sex right?"

And hopefully ensures that they will take their socks off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of profiles here are very succinct and say everything in a reasonably short time.

Some however would have no problem in putting Leo Tolstoy's War and Peace into second place. I read them down to the halfway point and simply lose interest, just move on to the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some long ones, which basically say “bugger off” only in a much more verbose way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some long ones, which basically say “bugger off” only in a much more verbose way!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the people above I have looked at the profiles and these are what I would expect in length and detail . I was taling about the ones that take at least 15mins to read

Phew! Ours takes exactly 3 mins to read - we have been told several times lol

3 mins seems a fair trade for possibly securing some non vanilla sex right?"

Our sentiments exactly. Alongside regular new photos our profile text is longer than average for a reason; to inform and elicit a similarly enlightening response rather than a one liner. Mrs T can be very shallow at a club but one here she expects to be engaged. We’re still busy with the delete key but we occasionally strike gold!

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"All the people above I have looked at the profiles and these are what I would expect in length and detail . I was taling about the ones that take at least 15mins to read

Phew! Ours takes exactly 3 mins to read - we have been told several times lol

3 mins seems a fair trade for possibly securing some non vanilla sex right?

And hopefully ensures that they will take their socks off."

SOCKS what IS that about? Seriously!!!!!

Kudos to you for reading that far

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