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By *ornygezza OP   Man
over a year ago

west mids

Anyone ever wink back ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women on here must get so much winks they can’t even keep up lol

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

Don't really get winks on here. If I like someone I message them.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I get so many from men ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get so many from men ffs. "

Shouldnt be the owner of such a hot cock lol

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"I get so many from men ffs.

Shouldnt be the owner of such a hot cock lol "
lol thank you. Only if the women would say that.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"I get so many from men ffs. "

Same here.. there's me getting all excited seeing all the winks and you click it, and it's all men. I'm flattered of course. Just wish the ladies thought the same too. Clearly not lol

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We return winks if we like the look of them, problem is that so many don't have any pictures.

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By *aughtyangel3Man
over a year ago

North West

[Removed by poster at 24/03/21 11:54:37]

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By *aughtyangel3Man
over a year ago

North West

I absolutely Love having a really good wink, shit dyslexia is a bastard, wrong forum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We send a wink as a "we are interested and like what we see" if they wink back then we message.

We appreciate not everybody looks at them though so sometimes, if we've noticed they haven't viewed our profile we send a polite message instead.

Her x

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Been here for quite a few years now and we've never sent or responded to one.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

If I get a wink and I like the profile I wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sod all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get so many from men ffs. "

Not just be then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I get a wink and I like the profile I wink back "

Same here I think it's a good way of showing you're interested in someone

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Sod all "
This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sure do

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By *ligible GentMan
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Very little point in a wink, suspect women get hundreds a day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use them as a relatively unintrusive way of saying "we like you" without adding to the unimaginable amount of messages we expect you to receive in your inbox.

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester

nah i don’t even look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's a good way of saying you like what you see, just a bit of flirty fun.

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

Never get any not even a message back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually start with a wink but don’t get many back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just delete them ..got more than enough messages to sort

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Oh yeah!

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I use winks and if someone I like the look of and has an interesting profile winks me I respond with either a wink or a message some times I even wink first

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By *napppaMan
over a year ago

London

It has been known, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! They’re a great icebreaker if the attraction is mutual. It’s putting out feelers

V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally if I get winked and the feeling is mutual I’ll message back. I know there seems to be a general dislike for winks here but I don’t mind them at all as long as the person sending the wink has something worth looking at on their profile to let me know what they’re about

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Winks show interest. which is all ways a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We send a wink as a "we are interested and like what we see" if they wink back then we message.

We appreciate not everybody looks at them though so sometimes, if we've noticed they haven't viewed our profile we send a polite message instead.

Her x"

Just wish other people took the same approach. We very rarely wink as we prefer messaging however, when someone winks us and we wink back we would expect that profile to then message. All too often, you get nothing back. It's just laziness on the original winkers side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We send a wink as a "we are interested and like what we see" if they wink back then we message.

We appreciate not everybody looks at them though so sometimes, if we've noticed they haven't viewed our profile we send a polite message instead.

Her x

Just wish other people took the same approach. We very rarely wink as we prefer messaging however, when someone winks us and we wink back we would expect that profile to then message. All too often, you get nothing back. It's just laziness on the original winkers side. "

Yep definitely, we've had this before too and in that case we won't message first, suppose you could say I'm stubborn

Her x

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Not working for me

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I send winks and if they wink back I'll send a message with a face pic introducing myself.

If someone winks at me and I like their profile I will message them.

I've had meets that started with a wink.

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

Only look at my winks sometime to see if anyone stand out has winked. Get enough messages to deal with as it is like 50-100 a day. Cis women must got so many

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire (willing to travel)

The problem I find is that there are so many time wasters on here of late that typing messages can be a full time job and all for nothing. There is definitely a change in the way people respond if at all compared to a few year back. Because of that I send winks and if I get a wink back I will always message. I understand not everyone likes a wink but its saves my thumbs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only look at my winks sometime to see if anyone stand out has winked. Get enough messages to deal with as it is like 50-100 a day. Cis women must got so many"

Really? 50-100?

We must be minging then, because we only get 10 or so messages a day. If we're lucky. Or unlucky in some cases.

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By *inkyduokentCouple
over a year ago

Swanley

Don't get winks , we just wink back . If someone wants attention then written word is preferred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use them as a relatively unintrusive way of saying "we like you" without adding to the unimaginable amount of messages we expect you to receive in your inbox."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a lady or couple winks i either wink back or message to say thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use them to show our interest if they wink back then we message ... we get a few and always reply even if its to say no thanks ect... its good manners after all.

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By *he original spikeyMan
over a year ago

Chester

I don't seem to get any winks,

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"I don't seem to get any winks, "

You’re not alone here

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I forget to look

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Sometimes, we've had some that have led to meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. They are lazy

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"I forget to look "

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We receive winks regularly and always respond if they not for us we send a message saying thank you but not for us. We do send them and get 40# response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the look of them I’ll reply with a message. If I’m unsure (eg no pics) and want them to make the first move I’ll wink back x

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

We always wink back if we're interested

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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Wish someone would wink the fuck out of me.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

No

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Wish someone would wink the fuck out of me. "

Have one from me

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I return a wink if I like the look of someone. Or I may even message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do sometimes. Not always though. I would love a few more like....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve received at least 5 winks now - 2 legit, 1 profile non longer found, 1 man and I’m pretty sure the other was a 78 year old man ex trucker with two teeth from America posing as a porn star called Krystal actually called Allan

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Winks can work.

If a lady winked me and I liked the look of her profile, I would send a message.

Sadly, 99.9% of winks I get are not from ladies.

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern


"Anyone ever wink back ?"

We very rarely check but occasionally we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send many winks. Might send some and see if I get any responses...

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Winks can work.

If a lady winked me and I liked the look of her profile, I would send a message.

Sadly, 99.9% of winks I get are not from ladies. "

Same , if i like the profile i send a message, happy that filters work well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never fully understood a wink, so have just ignored them.

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

Yes totally, for me getting a wink shows interest and it's a good place to start fro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shows interest and breaks the ice so I do wink and return winks.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Will update you later today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It shows interest and breaks the ice so I do wink and return winks. "

Got my wink

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By *irm4uMan
over a year ago

Fun Town

Ladies wink away.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have never found winks work, a woman will get a boat load of winks along with hundreds of messages a day, the chance of someone acting on a wink is pretty slim, remember, single guys outnumber women something like 90 to 1 being conservative

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Not really , I don't often check the winks but when I do and the winker " capture my imagination " I just drop them a mail

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

There’s hope

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

We think they are pointless and pretty lazy. We very rarely respond to them.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

And there it goes...!

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville


"We send a wink as a "we are interested and like what we see" if they wink back then we message.

We appreciate not everybody looks at them though so sometimes, if we've noticed they haven't viewed our profile we send a polite message instead.

Her x"

Exactly how it should be x

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By *idnightBlue69Woman
over a year ago

London

Not sure what the point of winks are tbh

Maybe I'm odd, but not really sure of the point of 'fabbing' stuff is either

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Don't really get winks on here. If I like someone I message them. "

Winked at ya

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Winks fad mathematics..

1 wink cool wink back = message

1 wink cool wink back = wink back fuck of.

Wink no wink back ok not for them cool move on..

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

What annoys us is the number of people who wink before reading profiles. We still get these despite both our profile and status clearly saying we don't want them. There's nothing more we can do to get the message across so now we just block them.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"Not sure what the point of winks are tbh

Maybe I'm odd, but not really sure of the point of 'fabbing' stuff is either"

I think a lot of it is laziness. People just see pics and hit the winks button without bothering to read profiles to see if they're in any way compatible.

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By *r FreenessMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I love a good wink off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure what the point of winks are tbh

Maybe I'm odd, but not really sure of the point of 'fabbing' stuff is either"

Here's a wink and a fab for you

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