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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I was once asked if I'd like hot wax on my nipples. Uuhhh, not my thing I'm afraid. Kick me in the balls instead please.

What have you been asked to do that crossed your boundaries and the answer was simply "No".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be fully dominated by another woman from a couple and call her Miss .... from then on.

Her x

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Be fully dominated by another woman from a couple and call her Miss .... from then on.

Her x"

Was it the dom aspect that put you off or something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be fully dominated by another woman from a couple and call her Miss .... from then on.

Her x

Was it the dom aspect that put you off or something else?"

We'd only been on the site no longer than a month, it was all a bit too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to clarify this wasn't in person, over message.

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester

so much stuff. been asked if they can get me pregnant, if i can dress/ act like an under age girl, if i can beat them up/ be beaten up, asked if they could shave my head and keep the hair

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Yesterday I got offered to cat fight with a woman, by a man. When I asked what I get out of this he said its hot and would give me adrenaline to want to get fucked..... this was a no for me!

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By *ig J and Little GCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"so much stuff. been asked if they can get me pregnant, if i can dress/ act like an under age girl, if i can beat them up/ be beaten up, asked if they could shave my head and keep the hair"

Seriously what is wrong with some people. This is why its still a taboo subject in everyday life as everyone thinks "within reason" that's what swinging is.

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By *ig J and Little GCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yesterday I got offered to cat fight with a woman, by a man. When I asked what I get out of this he said its hot and would give me adrenaline to want to get fucked..... this was a no for me!"

Don't blame you.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Would I be a gift for her husband on his birthday.. hard pass thanks.

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester


"Would I be a gift for her husband on his birthday.. hard pass thanks. "

lmfao i’ve had that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would I be a gift for her husband on his birthday.. hard pass thanks. "

I’ve been a gift for someone’s wife a while ago. Was a bloody good evening and night to be honest.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"so much stuff. been asked if they can get me pregnant, if i can dress/ act like an under age girl, if i can beat them up/ be beaten up, asked if they could shave my head and keep the hair"

Blimey! So much so wrong in that list. It's quite disturbing that anyone has an underage desire even as a fantasy. Barely legal at least is acceptable.

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

A guy once asked if he could shit on me. But I had to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the night before. Just ewww instant block.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"A guy once asked if he could shit on me. But I had to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the night before. Just ewww instant block."

Why did you have to eat sweetcorn and mushroom if HE was going to shit on you?!

I'm not saying the whole thing was acceptable in the first place, lmao, but the whole process seems topsy turvy.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"A guy once asked if he could shit on me. But I had to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the night before. Just ewww instant block.

Why did you have to eat sweetcorn and mushroom if HE was going to shit on you?!

I'm not saying the whole thing was acceptable in the first place, lmao, but the whole process seems topsy turvy."

Or maybe arse about face

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"A guy once asked if he could shit on me. But I had to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the night before. Just ewww instant block.

Why did you have to eat sweetcorn and mushroom if HE was going to shit on you?!

I'm not saying the whole thing was acceptable in the first place, lmao, but the whole process seems topsy turvy."

It is a little confusing, certainly.

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By *odgerNbadgerCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow

Assuming (not asking) that he was going to get to Dom both of us. It even says on our profile that we're not into D/s...

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Funmatt888 why is it confusing?.

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Apologies . He wanted me to shit on him and he wanted me to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the day before.

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By *ewdtenantMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"A guy once asked if he could shit on me. But I had to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the night before. Just ewww instant block.

Why did you have to eat sweetcorn and mushroom if HE was going to shit on you?!

I'm not saying the whole thing was acceptable in the first place, lmao, but the whole process seems topsy turvy.

Or maybe arse about face "

lol

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Younger guys asking me to be mummy

Can I get you pregnant

Asking to go bareback

......noooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got asked to be part of a cock and balls torture scenario, sorry but that was a hard no for me. Literally wanted the full works stomping on it, kicking his crotch etc. Literally does nothing for me and was worried about causing actual damage

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"Apologies . He wanted me to shit on him and he wanted me to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the day before."

That makes more sense... still a VERY specific niche though!

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By *areasRockinghorsepooWoman
over a year ago

my happy place

Wanted me to walk over his toy cars in high heels and break the cars while he watched and sobbed

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Was once asked to burst a balloon on the end of a guys dick as he came

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wanted me to watch her have a poo on his chest....Yuk!

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

I've been asked by fellows if they can suck me off. Err no!...

Now I'm left wondering.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Wanted me to walk over his toy cars in high heels and break the cars while he watched and sobbed "

Lmao

That is fucking hilarious. Oh you should totally have done that. Just for the laughs.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"He wanted me to watch her have a poo on his chest....Yuk!"

Well at least it was his chest and not yours...

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Was once asked to burst a balloon on the end of a guys dick as he came"

Oh my days. Haha. Where the fuck do people get this shit from.

You know, when I started this thread I never thought I would get stuff as random as this!

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

I don’t get asked any of this shit. Must mean I’m alread odd

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester


"so much stuff. been asked if they can get me pregnant, if i can dress/ act like an under age girl, if i can beat them up/ be beaten up, asked if they could shave my head and keep the hair

Blimey! So much so wrong in that list. It's quite disturbing that anyone has an underage desire even as a fantasy. Barely legal at least is acceptable."

yeah i did end up reporting him, he was asking me to act as a literal child, like 13/14- i was just disgusted tbh i’m already young so whenever a guy asks me to act young i get wary

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Wanted me to walk over his toy cars in high heels and break the cars while he watched and sobbed "

Cash in the Attic has moved on since I used to watch it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We were once asked if we would have sex with someones dog why he wanked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the last week or so, same guy keeps messaging and without going into specifics, his scenario involved a labradour and an alsation.

Instantly blocked, but I assume he deletes his profile, then sets it up again.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Guys have asked L if he’d rent me out or pass me around... no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fairly open minded so I don’t mind people suggesting their fantasies.

However, I really dislike being told what someone wants to do to/with me before I’ve even spoken to them.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Ours quite boring compared to 99% on here ! but normally it's stuff we say we have "Interest" at all ..but the fave in the current climate is if they can buy mrs4 knickers ?? but been informed a fair few times what of they were going to do to mrs4 ..lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked to meet a bunch of randomers for an orgy. Eh no.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Over the last week or so, same guy keeps messaging and without going into specifics, his scenario involved a labradour and an alsation.

Instantly blocked, but I assume he deletes his profile, then sets it up again."

There are at least 3 here (including one in private) who have cited someone asking to involve dogs in their sex games.

Are some people presuming an incorrect definition of "dogging"?! Lol

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I'm sure we had one about dogs years ago - That shit is fucked up beyond comprehension!

Also had guys wanting to get me pregnant.

- Amy. x

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By *mmaCD1029TV/TS
over a year ago

Bangor NI

Had a guy wanting to beat me up and abuse my face, when i said no he continued to ask while offering to pay. Safe to say he got blocked but he made a new account asking me to do similar but with his friends. Creeped me out and nearly quit fab cause of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a guy wanting to beat me up and abuse my face, when i said no he continued to ask while offering to pay. Safe to say he got blocked but he made a new account asking me to do similar but with his friends. Creeped me out and nearly quit fab cause of it"

That really is a whole new level of creepy and I think I would have been the same as you about wanting to quit

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By *mmaCD1029TV/TS
over a year ago

Bangor NI


"Had a guy wanting to beat me up and abuse my face, when i said no he continued to ask while offering to pay. Safe to say he got blocked but he made a new account asking me to do similar but with his friends. Creeped me out and nearly quit fab cause of it

That really is a whole new level of creepy and I think I would have been the same as you about wanting to quit

"

Thankfully he disappeared but he made me lose trust in all guys and im yet to get that back (this was about 3 years ago )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy once asked if he could shit on me. But I had to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the night before. Just ewww instant block."

Wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get the usual ones... rent/loan the Mrs out... buy her used underwear and toys.... get her pregnant... the weirdest one was they wanted to tie me to a chair and force a cock into my mouth... then fuck me in the bottom while my wife watches... I'm fairly open minded but erm nope.... jog on... Still getting messages from strange people beginning to think we attract them

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"Had a guy wanting to beat me up and abuse my face, when i said no he continued to ask while offering to pay. Safe to say he got blocked but he made a new account asking me to do similar but with his friends. Creeped me out and nearly quit fab cause of it

That really is a whole new level of creepy and I think I would have been the same as you about wanting to quit

"

Agreed - whilst there are some odd kinks on here most are pretty harmless; but harassing someone in that way when they’ve made it clear that they’re not interested really isn’t on.

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

First message - your fit can I lick your asshole

Erm that's a nope and delete from me

Lexi

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"First message - your fit can I lick your asshole

Erm that's a nope and delete from me

Lexi"

So what part of that offended you? Lmao

Personally I think the americanised use of asshole versus arsehole would have put me off. Haha.

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset


"First message - your fit can I lick your asshole

Erm that's a nope and delete from me

Lexi

So what part of that offended you? Lmao

Personally I think the americanised use of asshole versus arsehole would have put me off. Haha."

I'm not overly keen on the act in general to be honest and to request it from the first message is rather off-putting

Plus don't get me started on misspelt words

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Anything rimming related, have tried it, really don't like it so won't be doing it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever someone offers something to try and entice you into meeting.

“I have drinks” “I have *illegal substance*” “I have shoes/clothes you can have”

I’ve had all of those multiple times... it’s an instant no from me. If I wanted any of those things I’m far beyond capable of getting them myself. I find it very patronising and condescending (not to mention I find sex involving any kind of substances to be a real turn off and quite scary. Not for me).

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I was approached a few years ago for medical play, and I don't mean doctors and nurses.

A definite no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was approached a few years ago for medical play, and I don't mean doctors and nurses.

A definite no from me "

Intriguing. What’s medical play?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Someone asked me once to watch him drown in a slurry pit after giving me all his money

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By *mmaCD1029TV/TS
over a year ago

Bangor NI


"Whenever someone offers something to try and entice you into meeting.

“I have drinks” “I have *illegal substance*” “I have shoes/clothes you can have”

I’ve had all of those multiple times... it’s an instant no from me. If I wanted any of those things I’m far beyond capable of getting them myself. I find it very patronising and condescending (not to mention I find sex involving any kind of substances to be a real turn off and quite scary. Not for me)."

I get that alot, i dont mind a drink now and then and some fun but it really turns me off when they use that to entice you, or cash. Ive had alot of "illegal" offers too and its an immediate block.

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"Someone asked me once to watch him drown in a slurry pit after giving me all his money "

Think you might now be in the lead.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Bare back and bum sex

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

A couple on a first meet wanted to fist my ass. The Wife luckily said no but they were like let us show you it's great fun we declined and in fairness they didnt being it up again and we ended up having an great night without fisting in any shape or form

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"I was approached a few years ago for medical play, and I don't mean doctors and nurses.

A definite no from me

Intriguing. What’s medical play? "

they had a room set up with looked like an operating table, needles and blades, freaked me out a bit

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By *usty kayWoman
over a year ago

Burnham


"We were once asked if we would have sex with someones dog why he wanked "

Been asked if I'd fuck a pet twice!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I was once asked if I'd like hot wax on my nipples. Uuhhh, not my thing I'm afraid. Kick me in the balls instead please.

What have you been asked to do that crossed your boundaries and the answer was simply "No"."

Being fucked by a bloke.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I was approached a few years ago for medical play, and I don't mean doctors and nurses.

A definite no from me

Intriguing. What’s medical play? they had a room set up with looked like an operating table, needles and blades, freaked me out a bit"

Medfet is a broad category, not just needles or cutting. For some its gyno play using speculums and spreaders, others use suturing of eyes, lips, labia.

Its edge play and not something you shlukd enter into lightly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today I was asked if I'd watch a guy on Skype..... As he fkd a melon

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I was approached a few years ago for medical play, and I don't mean doctors and nurses.

A definite no from me

Intriguing. What’s medical play? they had a room set up with looked like an operating table, needles and blades, freaked me out a bit

Medfet is a broad category, not just needles or cutting. For some its gyno play using speculums and spreaders, others use suturing of eyes, lips, labia.

Its edge play and not something you shlukd enter into lightly."

Not enter into lightly??!! No flipping kidding if I'm gonna have my eyes and lips sutured!

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Today I was asked if I'd watch a guy on Skype..... As he fkd a melon "

I'd have said yes....makes a change from Netflix.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"We were once asked if we would have sex with someones dog why he wanked

Been asked if I'd fuck a pet twice!! "

Been asked twice or asked to fuck the pet twice?

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"A couple on a first meet wanted to fist my ass. The Wife luckily said no but they were like let us show you it's great fun we declined and in fairness they didnt being it up again and we ended up having an great night without fisting in any shape or form "

I see....so you gave them the finger on fisting but made a good fist of fingering each other....

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Someone asked me once to watch him drown in a slurry pit after giving me all his money "

Uuuuhhhh....and your problem with that was....?

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Anything rimming related, have tried it, really don't like it so won't be doing it again "

Helllloo! Nice to have you in my room my lovely dear friend

So were you giving or receiving?

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"Would I be a gift for her husband on his birthday.. hard pass thanks.

lmfao i’ve had that one"

I was told by someone he would gift his wife to me . .. .

Er no thanks - Mrs KC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was asked to swap from Aldi's to Lidl, that was to much

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By *izzy69 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Today I was asked if I'd watch a guy on Skype..... As he fkd a melon "

Errrmmmm.....okaayyy....some people. Really! Lmao

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