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"Thanks guys... Normally I wouldn't even think twice about the odd bad message I just block and delete but it was just having so many come through so close together that was written in a way they was like I had said something they found offensive and made them lash out at me for it so thought I would check it wasn't me lol " Sounds like you turned someone down and they are pissed off. Ignore it. Take it as a weird compliment. The worse the insults, the more jealous they are. Xx | |||
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"This is my first ever thread I've made so sorry if it's not how it's done lol... Basically I was wondering if anyone would mind taking a look at my profile and telling me truthfully if I came across as being like I think I'm superior or full of myself or something? I know that sounds a bit weird but over the last few days I've received a few messages off different women who I've never spoken to or anything basically being like well your boobs arnt even that nice mine are way bigger or you don't have a good body actually and it's left me a bit like these women feel like ive picked on them somehow and they are retaliating and I'd never want to make anyone think that that was how I was being... Probably doenst make much sense what I'm trying to say but that's the best I can word it lol" Just my opinion (fem) but it reads as though you're very defensive. It's not warm, welcoming, fun or particularly sexy. I also think it says more about what's not good for you, what you don't like or want rather than what you do. It would be off-putting to me. Tabitha xx | |||
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"This is my first ever thread I've made so sorry if it's not how it's done lol... Basically I was wondering if anyone would mind taking a look at my profile and telling me truthfully if I came across as being like I think I'm superior or full of myself or something? I know that sounds a bit weird but over the last few days I've received a few messages off different women who I've never spoken to or anything basically being like well your boobs arnt even that nice mine are way bigger or you don't have a good body actually and it's left me a bit like these women feel like ive picked on them somehow and they are retaliating and I'd never want to make anyone think that that was how I was being... Probably doenst make much sense what I'm trying to say but that's the best I can word it lol Just my opinion (fem) but it reads as though you're very defensive. It's not warm, welcoming, fun or particularly sexy. I also think it says more about what's not good for you, what you don't like or want rather than what you do. It would be off-putting to me. Tabitha xx" Worth saying that none of this would prompt us to send you an abusive message! | |||
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"Nothing wrong with your profile that I can see. I'd say these types of message speak way more about the sender than they do about you, sounds like they are probably jealous and insecure & that putting others down somehow makes them feel superior. It's a bit like bullies in the school playground. Just block them & forget about it. Could it be in response to something from the forums maybe? I once got targeted by a woman, who I'd never spoken to before, because she didn't like that a male she clearly felt territorial about had replied to something I posted in the lounge. " Maybe... I do post a bit in the forums but I don't think I've ever posted anything that would come across as 'I think I'm hotter than you don't you all wish you looked like me' (I'd hope not anyway) but I guess that's a definite possibility that that might be the case... Just seems strange so many people seem angry with me about something for it to be nothing lol | |||
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"This is my first ever thread I've made so sorry if it's not how it's done lol... Basically I was wondering if anyone would mind taking a look at my profile and telling me truthfully if I came across as being like I think I'm superior or full of myself or something? I know that sounds a bit weird but over the last few days I've received a few messages off different women who I've never spoken to or anything basically being like well your boobs arnt even that nice mine are way bigger or you don't have a good body actually and it's left me a bit like these women feel like ive picked on them somehow and they are retaliating and I'd never want to make anyone think that that was how I was being... Probably doenst make much sense what I'm trying to say but that's the best I can word it lol Just my opinion (fem) but it reads as though you're very defensive. It's not warm, welcoming, fun or particularly sexy. I also think it says more about what's not good for you, what you don't like or want rather than what you do. It would be off-putting to me. Tabitha xx Worth saying that none of this would prompt us to send you an abusive message! " Thankyou for the feedback | |||
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"It is fine i would just remove the last bit as it sounds defensive and you don't need to be. It's a perfectly reasonable boundary that needs no defence or explanation. Be you. " I added that last bit after a guy asked for my Snapchat and I said no and he turned nasty so I blocked him, so he found me on Instagram and asked for my snap and was abusive till I blocked him... Then he found me on messanger and messaged me till I blocked him so he commented on all my public Facebook posts and kept leaving cry laughing reacts untill I blocked him so he sent screenshots of my fab profile to my mum on messanger... It shouldent need to be said but unfortunately it does | |||
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"It is fine i would just remove the last bit as it sounds defensive and you don't need to be. It's a perfectly reasonable boundary that needs no defence or explanation. Be you. I added that last bit after a guy asked for my Snapchat and I said no and he turned nasty so I blocked him, so he found me on Instagram and asked for my snap and was abusive till I blocked him... Then he found me on messanger and messaged me till I blocked him so he commented on all my public Facebook posts and kept leaving cry laughing reacts untill I blocked him so he sent screenshots of my fab profile to my mum on messanger... It shouldent need to be said but unfortunately it does " I'd have screenshot everything and went to straight the police with that as the evidence against him is clear as day. In the present climate that shit is seriously been cracked down on hard. Maybe a stint on the sex offenders register alongside the Peados will cause the guy to think twice before abusing women again. KJ | |||
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"It is fine i would just remove the last bit as it sounds defensive and you don't need to be. It's a perfectly reasonable boundary that needs no defence or explanation. Be you. I added that last bit after a guy asked for my Snapchat and I said no and he turned nasty so I blocked him, so he found me on Instagram and asked for my snap and was abusive till I blocked him... Then he found me on messanger and messaged me till I blocked him so he commented on all my public Facebook posts and kept leaving cry laughing reacts untill I blocked him so he sent screenshots of my fab profile to my mum on messanger... It shouldent need to be said but unfortunately it does " I'm sorry that happened to you. Must be scary to be stalked like that. Make your Facebook page unable to be searched by search engines in your settings so it can't happen again. There are some entitled men out there who won't take no for an answer. | |||
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"This is my first ever thread I've made so sorry if it's not how it's done lol... Basically I was wondering if anyone would mind taking a look at my profile and telling me truthfully if I came across as being like I think I'm superior or full of myself or something? I know that sounds a bit weird but over the last few days I've received a few messages off different women who I've never spoken to or anything basically being like well your boobs arnt even that nice mine are way bigger or you don't have a good body actually and it's left me a bit like these women feel like ive picked on them somehow and they are retaliating and I'd never want to make anyone think that that was how I was being... Probably doenst make much sense what I'm trying to say but that's the best I can word it lol" Jealousy is a bitch and that is what they are. Block and ignore | |||
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"It is fine i would just remove the last bit as it sounds defensive and you don't need to be. It's a perfectly reasonable boundary that needs no defence or explanation. Be you. I added that last bit after a guy asked for my Snapchat and I said no and he turned nasty so I blocked him, so he found me on Instagram and asked for my snap and was abusive till I blocked him... Then he found me on messanger and messaged me till I blocked him so he commented on all my public Facebook posts and kept leaving cry laughing reacts untill I blocked him so he sent screenshots of my fab profile to my mum on messanger... It shouldent need to be said but unfortunately it does " That’s illegal and should be reported to the police x | |||
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"It is fine i would just remove the last bit as it sounds defensive and you don't need to be. It's a perfectly reasonable boundary that needs no defence or explanation. Be you. I added that last bit after a guy asked for my Snapchat and I said no and he turned nasty so I blocked him, so he found me on Instagram and asked for my snap and was abusive till I blocked him... Then he found me on messanger and messaged me till I blocked him so he commented on all my public Facebook posts and kept leaving cry laughing reacts untill I blocked him so he sent screenshots of my fab profile to my mum on messanger... It shouldent need to be said but unfortunately it does That’s illegal and should be reported to the police x" Apparantly not as it was all public and on a site which I put it on its only illegal if he sent pictures that I hadn't shared publicly... Jokes on him tho coz my mum is well aware am I wierdo and she is long since over despering with me for my free spirited nature and he still doenst have my Snapchat | |||
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"This is my first ever thread I've made so sorry if it's not how it's done lol... Basically I was wondering if anyone would mind taking a look at my profile and telling me truthfully if I came across as being like I think I'm superior or full of myself or something? I know that sounds a bit weird but over the last few days I've received a few messages off different women who I've never spoken to or anything basically being like well your boobs arnt even that nice mine are way bigger or you don't have a good body actually and it's left me a bit like these women feel like ive picked on them somehow and they are retaliating and I'd never want to make anyone think that that was how I was being... Probably doenst make much sense what I'm trying to say but that's the best I can word it lol" Is their validation important to you? If so, why? Who runs your profile? You or them? Why do you feel the need to question yourself? Why do you feel the need to validate their perspective? Self loathing narcissists are everywhere, just laugh at them because otherwise they will chew you up and thrive on you being their meal. | |||
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